Nigerian Man Shares How He Changed His Feminist Wife's Mentality By Following Her Rules

“Joro, my wife wants to be a feminist. No wahala. We have no kid yet, we’ve been married for 7 months now. Since the lockdown Joro, my wife actually said we have to e doing the house chores equally and cooking. She really took it up and we almost fought. I can’t be ur husband and be providing and still be doing ur job for u. We almost didn’t talk foe two days. Then I spoke to my friend and he told me what to do. I called my wife and said accepted.

Now I cook in the morning, she cooks in the evening, we wake up and clean the house together. No wahala. So say b4 yesterday, when they took the light yesterday, I asked her to go and on the gen. Madam said have you ever seen me do that. I told her we will do things equally now. I didn’t on it. She thought it was a joke. Later she went outside to look for someone to help her. I sat inside the darkness pressing my phone. As God will do it this morning she wanted to drive out to go and get somethings, that was how she realized her tire had gone flat. She came to ask for my own car key. I said No. She said I should help her change her tire. I said I’m busy, I want to clean the house. That’s how madam said she will clean the house I should help her change tire. She walked very far to go and call our church member’s son to come and help her. Now she’s angry and not talking to me. Who cares I will wake up tomorrow morning and make good food again, I’m even enjoying it, I will clean also. But every other thing that I’m the one that normally attend to, I will do 1 day and she will do the next. She’s been saying alot of things. Since you women want us to share the 2 things that society gave u guys to be the one doing, well, the ones society gave us men to be doing, we will be sharing it too. I’m just happy, madam is always acting up. Who cares. Me self I’m a feminist now. Let’s share things equally. I have even come to realize cooking and cleaning is actually fun self”