SHE'S SCARED SHE IS GETTING EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED TO ME

Date: 28-09-2010 1:14 pm (12 years ago) | Author: patrick ogbu
- at 28-09-2010 01:14 PM (12 years ago)
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I've known her for four year. she the type that shuns promiscuity and believes in one guy - one babe. the very guy that would eventually make her heart to throb becomes the love of her life. Becoming the lover of her life has actually been my drive for the past yrs with actions that will win me her heart. she's been very hard to convince and of late, i eventually beat other guys to it by becoming that guys that makes her heart beat skip. she professed it to me and pleaded i shouldn't break her heart. of course i wouldn't after all these yrs she's been proving hard to get. then recently, she happened to visit an uncle in Abuja where i reside and we scheduled to meet. i intended to make our date memorable to her, but was took busy repairing my car which i wanted to pick her up with. and before i was done she had gotten impatient and mad at me. then when i called her she told me that i hurt her and that we should quit the relationship because she realized she's beginning to get emotionally attached to me and this she dreaded so much...please pals what can i do to get her back for i love her sooooooooooo muchhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

Posted: at 28-09-2010 01:14 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
- FlyMamacita at 28-09-2010 01:30 PM (12 years ago)
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Explain her wht happend, tell her u r not afta breaking her heart

make she see how much u love her, and  if u hav don all d tins u can posibly do

then it is her choice of wht she want in her life... if tht is not u, carry go my friend, means it

wasn ment to be!
Posted: at 28-09-2010 01:30 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- omorewa at 28-09-2010 01:40 PM (12 years ago)
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YOU ARE RIGHT SIS...

@poster i feel you... wish you all the best Smiley

Posted: at 28-09-2010 01:40 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 28-09-2010 01:51 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: omorewa on 28-09-2010 01:40 PM
YOU ARE RIGHT SIS...

@poster i feel you... wish you all the best Smiley
Kiss
Posted: at 28-09-2010 01:51 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 28-09-2010 01:59 PM (12 years ago)
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Probably she has been hurt before.............I guess you need to try and explain things to her and hope she understands.............

on a 2nd thought, if she acts like she doesnt understand you, then give her some space............I have the feeling you have spent a long time trying to impress her......if you give her the impression that you can do without her, she might come around.........again, give her some space, but not for long!

Posted: at 28-09-2010 01:59 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- enicasjac at 28-09-2010 02:18 PM (12 years ago)
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Oboy abed make you talk wetin really happen..........you just dey yan casala Grin Angry Sad Sad Shocked Embarrassed
Posted: at 28-09-2010 02:18 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- qunodinga at 28-09-2010 02:22 PM (12 years ago)
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It happened sometimes to all human...just put yourself together, give her some breathing space and try your luck for the last time.
Posted: at 28-09-2010 02:22 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- tyabo at 28-09-2010 02:28 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 28-09-2010 01:59 PM
Probably she has been hurt before.............I guess you need to try and explain things to her and hope she understands.............

on a 2nd thought, if she acts like she doesnt understand you, then give her some space............I have the feeling you have spent a long time trying to impress her......if you give her the impression that you can do without her, she might come around.........again, give her some space, but not for long!
i agree wit DP...9ce words here..
Posted: at 28-09-2010 02:28 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mykelly at 28-09-2010 02:42 PM (12 years ago)
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OH SORRY MR LOVERBOY...SUCH IS LIFE..TAKE THE ADVISE OF dp IT WILL GO ALONG WAY
Posted: at 28-09-2010 02:42 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 28-09-2010 03:16 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: ogpatric on 28-09-2010 01:14 PM
I've known her for four year. she the type that shuns promiscuity and believes in one guy - one babe. the very guy that would eventually make her heart to throb becomes the love of her life. Becoming the lover of her life has actually been my drive for the past yrs with actions that will win me her heart. she's been very hard to convince and of late, i eventually beat other guys to it by becoming that guys that makes her heart beat skip. she professed it to me and pleaded i shouldn't break her heart. of course i wouldn't after all these yrs she's been proving hard to get. then recently, she happened to visit an uncle in Abuja where i reside and we scheduled to meet. i intended to make our date memorable to her, but was took busy repairing my car which i wanted to pick her up with. and before i was done she had gotten impatient and mad at me. then when i called her she told me that i hurt her and that we should quit the relationship because she realized she's beginning to get emotionally attached to me and this she dreaded so much...please pals what can i do to get her back for i love her sooooooooooo muchhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.

Do what yu've been doing for 4years

Posted: at 28-09-2010 03:16 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Ballsy at 28-09-2010 03:55 PM (12 years ago)
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DP n Fly mamacita, una yarn well...
Posted: at 28-09-2010 03:55 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- blessedme at 28-09-2010 04:17 PM (12 years ago)
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well said
Posted: at 28-09-2010 04:17 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Bennygoodman at 28-09-2010 04:28 PM (12 years ago)
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blessedme, how are you doing?
afo ake sene ke mmo afid ini ami?
Posted: at 28-09-2010 04:28 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ogpatric at 28-09-2010 04:58 PM (12 years ago)
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thanx guys, i really will give her time for i have exhausted all my love in her and if she feels that it's time we hit separate ways, then God please help me....you can't imagine the change of perception and hurt i will feel......but .....(crying),but....(wiping off tears from the eyes)......in short....let it be according to God's will...(still crying)
Posted: at 28-09-2010 04:58 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- ebinyi at 28-09-2010 05:13 PM (12 years ago)
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First, are u in part time paramour wit her? did u hav to blame ur car? did she think to get a God fearing partnership is to consulting a soothsayer? has she experience heartbreak b4?  ok, don't text her message, don't invite her this time around, just go. and be truthful of wat really happen cos i don't think is ur car that broke up then c wat wil follow 
Posted: at 28-09-2010 05:13 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- onyin at 29-09-2010 12:19 AM (12 years ago)
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Give her time,she might come back.
Posted: at 29-09-2010 12:19 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- ogpatric at 29-09-2010 09:37 AM (12 years ago)
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why won't i believed which broke down caused my not meeting her? it's true and nothing but the truth
Posted: at 29-09-2010 09:37 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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