Please i need your Advice

My boyfriend wants me to be pregnant before tradition and white wedding will be done and he also promised that everything we be done before pregnancy been noticeable but i ask him why he want it that way and his reply was that all his friends that got married did it that way,some are 2 months while some are 3 to  4 months before they wedded and also he want to be a father soon; but i disagreed with him but still have a little confusion about it. To be sincere i love him and also ready for marriage but not on that condition. Please advice me on what to do about this situation am confused.Thank you all.

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Posted: at 25-10-2010 04:51 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

My dear, ask him,if all his friends would go jump into a river, he's gonna jump too?

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Posted: at 25-10-2010 04:56 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Datz too bad. Hw can he say a thing lyk dat? l tink he's up 2 smting. Ask him "what if after pregnancy nothing is bin done fast,,, what happens 2 u then"?

Posted: at 25-10-2010 05:04 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

gurl wise up

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Posted: at 25-10-2010 05:31 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

That's conditional marriage! What could he have done if you or he is infertile? However, youclaim to love him and love is blind so if your love for him is  stronger than your personality, then go ahead and accept his condition (even f he is infertile, steal from outside to please him) If you value your personality, thenconsole yourself with the adage "sweet lemons, sour grapes" and get another man.
Soon this boyfriend will tell you all his friends are divorcing their wives and he has to divorce you.

Posted: at 26-10-2010 09:17 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Some men do that but i know of someone that wanted to do that , the wouldbe wife got pregnant and immidiately after the church wedding , she lost the pregnancy and it took them more than 6 years to achieve another pregnancy .

Personnally i will not advice her to accept his proposition because pregnancy is not a basis for marriage . Love is the ultimate so if he really loves her , he will respect her wishes

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Posted: at 26-10-2010 09:58 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

very correct dear ... even in England that is the latest think no pregnancy no wedding.. well in this case first make sure you are properly close to his family and and try and find out if they know you are his future wife... tell him to officially introduce you to all his family member and you too do the same just for future references okay.. then if you are satisfied then you can go ahead..

good luck

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Posted: at 26-10-2010 01:07 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

You think some guys really care?all they need is just try get pregnant first then after the wedding if u didnt have the baby
at least they will still be little hope that u can still have one in the future

Posted: at 26-10-2010 02:39 PM (13 years ago) | Hero