WHEN LOVE DISSAPPEARS!

My friend suddenly found out her wedded husband no longer loves her! Now she asked me what she should do and being lost, I told her to wait 4 my response after weekend, trusting  pals to help out.
It's same to guys, what do you do if your wife suddenly loses love for you?

Posted: at 29-10-2010 11:02 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

How does she know he doesnt love her anymore?

Posted: at 29-10-2010 11:06 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Same questions I asked and she said he shouts at her over trivial issues he wasn't used to b4. He no longer want to pray, eat together nor give her the helping hand in house chores as he loved to, even the walks they used to have together are gone. Breifly, he is the opposite of the man she married six years ago nor father he was to their two kids he was!

Posted: at 29-10-2010 11:20 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Why not sit down with him and ask him where dat behaviour
is comin from? There must b a reason for it....Only when she find out
she can make a decision

Posted: at 29-10-2010 11:30 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

These things happen, probably for a reason........you are a man and should know...when men are facing difficulties, they sometimes tend to act this way, especially financial difficulties.  she should try and find out what kind of difficulty her hubby is facing instead of sitting down and crying that he doesnt love her........Tell her that men are only but BIG BABIES........how would she treat her baby if he/she begins to act that way?......wont she try and find out what the problem is?

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Posted: at 29-10-2010 11:32 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

@DP. Finance is out of question. He provides even more than she needs as she is also well paid. Only her attention that he has suddenly refused to notice.

Posted: at 29-10-2010 11:46 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

yes ooooooooooo, b'cos man like to see der woman with tempting cloth.

Posted: at 29-10-2010 11:54 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Ok........if she wants to save her marriage, she has to take the 1st step..........she is the one complaining, so she has to make the 1st move.........dont be surprised if the man is not very much aware of these changes...........

Somehow, society has placed so much power in the hand of the woman in terms of making a marriage work..........why?....maybe becos if the marriage fails, it would affect the children the most, the woman the more and the man is the least affected..........Hope am not yarning PUAAAAAAAA

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Posted: at 29-10-2010 12:11 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

No, U are not yarning rubbish. U are highly correct!

Posted: at 29-10-2010 12:31 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I SEE

Posted: at 29-10-2010 01:06 PM (13 years ago) | Hero