Why marriage counseling.....neccessary?

I think it is necessary..............there, I am told, you get to learn a lot of things about marriage and married life........you are prepared for married life...you are given a glimpse of what it would look like.........

For the duration, it varies from church to church..............

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Posted: at 29-10-2010 03:22 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

she said marriages will have a difficult time surviving if they are built on a rocky foundation. Pre-marriage counseling allows the couple to work out any issues they may have before marriage. When a couple has any problems fixed before marriage, the marriage itself will be healthier and has a better chance of lasting long term. The worst thing a couple can do is get married if they know they have major issues to work out.

Posted: at 29-10-2010 03:51 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

She gave you all the reasons you need.....so why the question then?........you want some corroborations from pals?

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Posted: at 29-10-2010 03:53 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Not just churches,your anties,big sisters,sister inlaws and mom.you can learn from them as well.

Posted: at 12-11-2010 01:58 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

So you knew all these, why then did you come here to ask us again?

Posted: at 12-11-2010 09:53 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

@ Dp, and Adikpe, then why do couples go through this long process and yet still divorce.. does that makes sense..?

Posted: at 12-11-2010 10:38 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

@ Dp, and Adikpe, then why did couples go through this long process and yet still divorce.. does that makes sense..?

Posted: at 12-11-2010 10:40 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

That is when they will tell you not to allow your sister in-law (grown up) to come and stay with you immediately to avoid.............

Posted: at 12-11-2010 10:53 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Good one there sister! hotguy take note.

Posted: at 12-11-2010 11:27 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Its not a matter of being foolish but a matter of avoiding what is avoidable. Women generally might not like it but its happening. When i was going for my counseling, they gave us alot of instances and i quiet agree with them. If it is a short stay, no problem but coming to stay for six to one year is not advisable especially as a young couple

Posted: at 12-11-2010 11:34 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming