Relationships turn on's and turn off's

stingyness,selfishness,disrespect 4 the female folk,chavaunism...turn me off while sensitivity,sacrifice,generousity,respect,understanding...are good turn ons anyday,anytime

Posted: at 22-10-2008 02:05 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm u've got nice taste bro

Posted: at 22-10-2008 02:09 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

Posted: at 22-10-2008 02:32 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

@ peacetee
i aint talkin about a mini butterfly,bro. i meant, i'll go head over heels for a lady with such attributes, but on the contrary, i have come to know that there aint no perfect creature,so some times we have to live positively with their imperfections. and never giving up to love them in a perfect manner; thereby leading to a perfect union.


@ philomena87
 wanna say somethin sis'?
dont mumble, my dear


@ mmemshima

u can say that again sister. we all have to grab a hold of some level we believe in.
i was a scrub as a late-teen,and i disliked the kinda groups i hung out with.
i had to break loose,and work on my self. it took me 4years to coem this far.
i wud hav aswell endless up like a riff-raff,but i had a momther who wa patience with my flaws
and she never stopped believing in me.
today, i'm somebody...i can be admired,and compared to someother. thats why i have gat taste,cos i came from somewhere.
if u aint known where i have been, u wud never appreciate who i am.

Posted: at 22-10-2008 04:31 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

do we leave the door open for u.?

Posted: at 22-10-2008 05:45 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

stingyness,selfishness,disrespect 4 the female folk,chavaunism...turn me off while sensitivity,sacrifice,generousity,respect,understanding...are good turn ons anyday,anytime

I second dat!!!

Posted: at 22-10-2008 07:13 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

Too much open eye...

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Posted: at 23-10-2008 01:49 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

a guy dat looks like a range rover spot is a turn on!..lol

Posted: at 23-10-2008 01:56 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

i am turned off big time on guys who dont know the word gentle man and how to apply it... is it very hard? i mean wen with a lady, u open doors pull out chairs, pick up the bill, carry her bags,give her flowers just because u know...

Posted: at 23-10-2008 09:37 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

i once dated a lady couple of years back,and the relationship lasted just 5months. the reason was bcos she thot i was just to good to be true. we had several dates,and picnics, an she really felt flattered by every single outting we shared. but as time rolled by she kept putting her doubt up,and it caused so much distraction in the relationship.
she even complained about the mare fact that i treated her like she cudnt do things on her own.i love flaunting who ever i'm in love with; opening doors for her,buying her gifts,wether its an occassion or not, suprising her;where just some of the things i loved doing, but it stunned me that she didnt appreciate any of these things,and she bursted the big one that "she thinks i was only doing all that to get btw her thighs"...Gosh!  damn!!!! dat really hurt me,it was such a turn-off. i cudnt believe she harboured such stuffs in her mind for months. things started going rough, and to cut the long story,we had to hit the rocks.we never had sex,and i hope she wud be pleased with that at least.

folks,is it a crime to be nice? why must one be miss judged for being who he or she is? i wont stop being who i am.no matter who i met....sex isn't love,thats my belief.

Posted: at 23-10-2008 10:42 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming