she want to kill herself (Page 6)

@Poster: i presume she's a Catholic!
You see, Christianity is not all about your spouse being of the same church/religion with you. Different religions do get married; So what are we talking about? To me, what matter is your happiness and not that of your mother. If she cares about your happiness, then she should learn to accept what you love and cherish. After all, the lady will change when you both get married. So what! Honestly, if my mother should tell that, hmm! i don't need to say what i will do because she knows me too well. If i may ask was her great grand father or family (I mean your mother) born in that church? Even at that, dose it matter?
My Advice, dear Pal! If you marry who she wants in other to make her happy, without putting first in consideration your future happiness, you are making a grievous mistake and i wouldn't want to say,  you may not be happy all through it, because, "Love" grows day by day. Am very sorry to say, if she's no more, (Ur Mother) who will be there for you? The one you love? or the one she loves that you married? well, if you love her so much like that, you can go ahead and marry from her church, with time you will love her (the new girl). But have you thought about your spouse feelings, the years you've both spend together, the love shared, the though and nice moments? Think and think wisely, what is worth doing at all so they say...is worth doing well!

Posted: at 2-11-2010 10:14 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

no

Posted: at 2-11-2010 10:38 AM (13 years ago) | Grande Master

let her kill her self now , what will be so new about that ?

Posted: at 2-11-2010 11:15 AM (13 years ago) | Grande Master

marry her so that she will die or pray for her to die so that you can marry her

Posted: at 2-11-2010 11:31 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

my guy...... no mind ur mama, thier time dome pass so now na ur own time......... do watin u like

Posted: at 2-11-2010 11:42 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

some guys have to learn how to advice someone,it ain't funny.that woman is someone mother,her stands doesn't mean we should insult her ok.

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Posted: at 2-11-2010 11:52 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

Please Mama, respect your son’s emotion and feelings. You carried him in your womb for 9months does not mean his destiny is in your hands. Allow God to finish his work because you did not even know when that child enter you womb. Remember a day is coming when your family members and relatives will gather and say to you. Who can separate man from death? Its footsteps, what can trace? Its inheritability is sure but day, time and place human wisdom cannot define. When it comes to a loved one, pains, sorrows and tears fill the soul. Oh! Like a candle light in the face of a severe blowing wind, our dear Sister, Wife, Mother, and Grandmother is gone to the great beyond. On that day, God will not ask you which church did you belong to when you were here on earth. I am a Christian mother in the Mary league in our church can not even save you. You are lucky is not a Muslim or Islamic he is going to marry. Please don’t frustrate his life because of your egocentric craving. Will you prefer you son to marry from catholic and no peace in the house or to marry a Pentecostal and enjoy his life? Remember, it is union of life. He is no long a kid, his destiny is in the hand of God. The only thing you own him now is your prayer. The God that created you gives you the freedom to serve him in whichever way you want. He is the one bringing in; perceptibly the lady will join his church. Had it been that your daughter was the one going marry a Pentecostal, what are you going to do?
 Please seat down and think twice, you will realize that you have more than 100 reasons why you should allow him to marry whosoever he wishes to marry, Please Mum! If you choose for your son, “after I do” are you going to be the one living in  the house with the woman, or else if you wishes your son untimely death.

Mama, please don’t say over your dead body again. Don’t even think of putting asunder or to poison yourself if truly, you are a Christian. Moreover, for your son to marry from Pentecostal church is not an insult, please see it as a blessing. Don’t use your hand to spoil a beautify thing God gave you. We are talking about your son’s happiness here. We all are serving one God. Time is coming when all the whole churches will come together and worship under one Umbrella. I am a Catholic as well. Pentecostal, Catholic, Anglican, Muslim or Islamic, we all are serving one God. The only different there is doctrine. Holy Bible or Korea, none of them ever tells us to do bad, Holy Bible or Korea always tells us to do good, God is real.
   
And to that wants to marry a Pentecostal, don’t allow you mother to pull down your dreams before you will be seen it as a nightmare. It’s time for you to stand as a man that God had made you to be. Make her to see reasons why should marry the person you wants to marry or else you did not truly love her. You mother will not manage your home for you when the time comes to avoid had I know or if you wants to die young.
Please Mum! Come and reason with you son together. I rest my case. Thanks

Posted: at 2-11-2010 01:52 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

NA DEM BIZZZZZZZZZZZZZ B DAT......I WAKA PASS....

Posted: at 2-11-2010 03:07 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Ha ha ha.. .. ..

Let him go ahead and marry that girl JOOR. . .

Na religion dey destroy so many people life for this country. . .

EveryOne have his or her life to live. . . if she says she's going to kill herself because you wanna marry a girl you love. . .

Leave let her kill herself. . . she has live her life. . . You live yours and be happy. . . there's no need for you to worry yourself.

She's Old. . . she will probably die any time soon.

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Posted: at 2-11-2010 03:47 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Show her an advanced obituary announcement of her death and go ahead and marry your wife.

Posted: at 2-11-2010 04:51 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac