but later on after some arguments and confrontations, accepted. he then apologized to my friend and promise to keep up with her and she accepted. the boy and my friend move on with the relationship but the boy remains a flirt whom she tolerated all the rubbish. he made the girl understand that he had nothing to do with my friend and my friend to understand that he had nothing to do with the girl; while the girl move on in his apartment which my friend was taking care of and since my friend was a student who could only visit by weekends, he made her understand that he travels every week ends on a special from town.
they went throw opposition from family members which they fight against. but at this point my friend is traumatized. she loves this guy and wanted to fight for him but he has like made some sort of family arrangements and claim that it due to pressure from their families. they have had a series of problems and the blames goes to my friend they recently had a problem to the extend that the girl moved out listen to the words of his mother " thank u for sending ivoline and the baby of of Ro"s house at dis time of the night. don't only be his wife but mother and every thing to him" after when my friend have been calling her to know Wat is happening but she keeps giving her agendas. now my friend is confuse, the boy keeps pressuring her and blaming her for wanting to stop the relationship claiming if she does its because she is having other affairs not accepting the fact that he made a mistake and trying to organize himself. she is confuse she feels like just messing around to hurt boys since she thinks none can be serious and the same time wants to maintain her dignity as a woman.
PLZ HOW DO I ADVICE HER TO HANDLE THE SITUATION
THANKS
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