love and life

Date: 03-11-2010 10:20 am (13 years ago) | Author: Frinue Dorothy
- at 3-11-2010 10:20 AM (13 years ago)
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a girl has been in love with a guy for close 2yrs and some months now. this guy was the first in her life and while this guy was cutting her, he made her understand that he is just recovering form a heartbreak after the girl he so much loved got married. they were in for the relationship while this girl notice a chap that was frequenting this guy and will spend nights and weekends in his house where he claimed it was the sister she wonder "must ur sister spent nights in ur bedroom when there are more than enough bedrooms in this house?" but she let things be. as time went on she notice the girls behavior towards her presence and a month later that this girl was pregnant; it was from this point that she notice that the girl is the chap of this guy the boy refuse the pregnancy claiming just to offer help to the lady cus the boy responsible for the pregnancy is no where to be found and the girl has been good to him before

but later on after some arguments and confrontations, accepted. he then apologized to my friend and promise to keep up with her and she accepted. the boy and my friend move on with the relationship but the boy remains a flirt whom she tolerated all the rubbish. he made the girl understand that he had nothing to do with my friend and my friend to understand that he had nothing to do with the girl; while the girl move on in his apartment which my friend was taking care of and since my friend was a student who could only visit by weekends, he made her understand that he travels every week ends on a special from town.

they went throw opposition from family members which they fight against. but at this point my friend is traumatized. she loves this guy and wanted to fight for him but he has like made some sort of family arrangements and claim that it due to pressure from their families. they have had a series of problems and the blames goes to my friend they recently had a problem to the extend that the girl moved out listen to the words of his mother " thank u for sending ivoline and the baby of of Ro"s house at dis time of the night. don't only be his wife but mother and every thing to him" after when my friend have been calling her to know Wat is happening but she keeps giving her agendas. now my friend is confuse, the boy keeps pressuring her and blaming her for wanting to stop the relationship claiming if she does its because she is having other affairs not accepting the fact that he made a mistake and trying to organize himself. she is confuse she feels like just messing around to hurt boys since she thinks none can be serious and the same time wants to maintain her dignity as a woman.

PLZ HOW DO I ADVICE HER TO HANDLE THE SITUATION

THANKS
PLS any privite advice goes to the email

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