Are men really simple creatures? (Page 7)

Quote from: bittersweet on 10-11-2010 11:21 AM

Quote from: Teeteeylaryor on 10-11-2010 11:06 AM

they are not........
just look for another qualification to describe them.......pls :'( :'(

I can't do that, my dear, because they really are!

but they are not with the way u show them
only few of them are like that
just try and give them another name

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Posted: at 10-11-2010 01:42 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

YOU ARE A NICE GIRL.KEEP IT UP. 

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Posted: at 10-11-2010 01:57 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Eliminate 2 words,or phrases,from your vocabulary where men r concerned.They should be erased from your mindset altogether and those concepts r "closure" and "unresolved issues."Men don't do closure,plain and simple.Furthermore,there r no unresolved issues with men and relationships.Sure,most men have tons of issues that go unresolved.Most men,especially in regards to a relationship,need to sit down and have a one on one with Dr. Phil or Dr. Ruth, but will he do it? No. Because he doesn't feel that it's necessary.
Don't waste your time trying to get closure from a man.His idea of closure is when he decided to end the relationship.That's closure enough for him.If u make an attempt to speak with him face to face to discuss your "unresolved issues,"in his mind he thinks u still like him and that u r making a vain effort to rekindle the relationship.If he agrees to a meeting with u he is going to use your vulnerable state(which often leads to s**) against u.When the "meeting" is over u will be back at square one.And even if u do convince him that there's more to your relationship,the reunion will be short lived.Let's face it,most women who seek "closure" are really making a last ditch effort to get the man back.Otherwise she would already have all issues resolved and really would not want to be in his presence for any reason.
 
Forget about the notion that "men do not like a strong woman," or an "independent thinker."There is a misconception in the area of the "strength of a woman."Women r very strong in areas of finance,business,nurturing,and r savvy in many other areas.Most men love these qualities in a woman.Those that don't,u really should not waste your time with these guys because they have ego issues and a laundry list of other issues.

Here's the thing about a strong woman and where it comes in to play with guys.It's about your strength in a relationship.It has nothing to do with the fact that u have a six-figure job and a J-Lo figure.It comes down to this question: where r u and your emotions after intimacy?When he has bedazzled u with his charm,his wit,and his "Johnson," where r u now?This is usually the point when the tide changes.It changes because now the female has brought her emotions into the picture and what was once a "fair fight" is now an unfair emotional battle.The scales have now been tipped in the guys favor because we do not operate on emotions. Never have and never will.This is where the true "strength of a woman" comes into play,where a man is concerned.U ever wonder why those guys,especially early on,seem to like u even more when u talk to them as if they don't matter?The female does this because she's really not into the guy so essentially,he really doesn't matter so much to her.But he keeps coming around,he keeps calling.Now flip the script.U're the female and u really like this guy.U call,he doesn't return the call.A week later,u call again,and he puts u off with some lame excuse.2 things to remember here:he's either not interested in u,or he is juggling too many women at once.The remedy,back off,do not call him.When he does call u, this is an indication that he likes u,or at least,u have his attention. Whichever is the case,don't return his call,put him off with your own "lame" excuse,then sit back and watch what happens.
The aforementioned scenario is a woman displaying emotional strength.The guy wonders,"hmmm, she's not like the others,the other women I can play like a puppet,there's something different about her."This is the strength we rarely see in women,and this is the power that intrigues most guys.This is when the ebb and flow swings in the females direction.

Be honest and straightforward with him and do not back down from your convictions. If he compromises your moral standards in any way, shape or form u must immediately kick his rear to the curb.

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Posted: at 10-11-2010 02:24 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

nothing is simple atol atol

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Posted: at 10-11-2010 02:27 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Humans are simple creatures. Women are simple. men are simple.

God created man simple, but, man has gone in search of many schemes.[King Solomon]

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@BitterSimile, what do you want from men?

Posted: at 10-11-2010 04:31 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

guy speak for yourself ok.i'm not simple period!

Posted: at 10-11-2010 04:37 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

What do I want from men?
Simple things na!
But not from all!

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Posted: at 10-11-2010 04:43 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Finally a guy who is not afraid to admit!
Good of u,MDS!

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Posted: at 10-11-2010 04:46 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Its true BS for me personally i dont think theres anything that will give me more joy than having a my own baby

Posted: at 10-11-2010 04:49 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

U better cover your eyes this time!

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Posted: at 10-11-2010 06:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero