Its not funny, but i must ask what to do.let me start like this,i stayed with my brother in a room and parlour selfcountain, my brother goes to work very early,but the wife no work, and we stay at home together, most time she called me to come and play with her which is normal,untill one day, she just sald lets go and play in the room. what!! my brother wife, then i told her am going out,that night no food for me and i cant tell my brother what happen. three days later i was dressing up when she came to me and sald TODAY YOU MUST DO THIS THING i tried to talk to her that is not good but she insist,then i pushed her and ran away. i stay late outside thinking my brother we come home late, but he came home early and ask of me the wife told him thats how i used to go out everyday withuot telling her anything. when i came back my brother ask why did i allow only his wife to stay at home always, before i reply, the wife came from nowhere and slap me saying what do you want to say, my brother can not say anything even me i keep looking like ...what! please what should i do.
Posted: at 13-11-2010 06:16 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
First,you need to move out.I cant say "tell your brother",cos it seems his wife has more power. and for her to slap you in front of her husband ,simply shows she has no respect for her husband.Just get yourself a new place .
Posted: at 13-11-2010 06:22 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
whaat? how dare her... but how long were you living with them for because i can see that you are proper adult? all the same you need to move out but first talk to your brother about the insult you receive from his wife in his presence.. that is why it is never advice-able for friends or family members to live with married couples for more than 6month.
don't tell other family members because it will create hatred for the wife.. ( tell her you forgive her in the presence of your brother for future references)... (don't ever talk to her except for HELLO. GOOD MORNING. etc)
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you!
Posted: at 13-11-2010 06:45 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
valleydust at 13-11-2010 07:09 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Hey man! it might be difficult, but all u need do look 4 sumwere else to lay ur head. What if u agreed 2 play with her and ur bros enter? u might get tempered sumday and hit her dangerously.
n' point of correction no usual play when it comes to sum ladies.
Posted: at 13-11-2010 07:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
prince775 at 13-11-2010 07:57 PM (14 years ago) (m)
Wow! This is really pathetic, and they are advicing you here not to tell your brother ``why?? please sit your brother down and let your brother know what is going on. tell him the simple truth and this will save u as well as your brother.
Posted: at 13-11-2010 07:57 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Its not funny, but i must ask what to do.let me start like this,i stayed with my brother in a room and parlour selfcountain, my brother goes to work very early,but the wife no work, and we stay at home together, most time she called me to come and play with her which is normal,untill one day, she just sald lets go and play in the room. what!! my brother wife, then i told her am going out,that night no food for me and i cant tell my brother what happen. three days later i was dressing up when she came to me and sald TODAY YOU MUST DO THIS THING i tried to talk to her that is not good but she insist,then i pushed her and ran away. i stay late outside thinking my brother we come home late, but he came home early and ask of me the wife told him thats how i used to go out everyday withuot telling her anything. when i came back my brother ask why did i allow only his wife to stay at home always, before i reply, the wife came from nowhere and slap me saying what do you want to say, my brother can not say anything even me i keep looking like ...what! please what should i do.
sorry bout that but you can't tell your brother that his wife is making advances for you cus you are endangering their relationship ...how close are you as brothers this means you and it's an uphill task cus he has to know it. you need to leave his place. Try and stay away from compromising situations lock your room door if you have to and if you have one Next time she says we must do this thing ..ask her "what Thing" let her explain what she means ..we hope she will change if she uses her mouth to reason things out. u need to move out
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Posted: at 13-11-2010 08:29 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
juleshotluv at 13-11-2010 08:36 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Shooooot!
Why on earth would she do such a thing?
Best thing to do as everyone else have mentioned, leave the house. your brother's wife is up to something and she wont stop until she makes sure that she gets what she wants. the best thing at this point is for you to leave before she success in her plot.
Leave and settle yourself down elsewhere, when you have settled down, you can then let your brother know exactly what has been happening if you think he wouldnt believe you now.
Posted: at 13-11-2010 08:36 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
she get gut to raise her small hand on a big man like u...abegi leave that house joor joor...very soon them go talk say u rape rape..na jail be that as D prince don talk am...
Posted: at 13-11-2010 09:17 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming