When I was younger, I thought being in a relationship means being happy and having fun all the time with each other cos after all we're in love so no stress but as I get older and more experienced I came to the understanding that being in a relationship means loving and accepting each other unconditionally and putting in effort to make it work. You've got to decide fully to be with that person and make it work by tolerating their weakness and helping them become better as long as the weakness has nothing to do with abuse or violence, yeah it takes that decision, dedication and hardwork to make any relationship work although being in love is the foundation cos you've got to truly love and accept someone before making the decision to be with them but just being in love isn't enough, you've got to put in the work to make it work don't just throw away a good relationship that may have become great simply cos of some hiccups, put in that work no relationship was made in heaven although some are easier than most but you've got to figure out what tools work for yours and use them effectively.
Posted: at 12-08-2021 09:57 AM (2 years ago) | Gistmaniac |
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