Please advice them........ (Page 3)

Date: 16-11-2010 1:55 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Vincent Nwaikwu
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- PreetyInstinct at 17-11-2010 11:02 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: valleydust on 17-11-2010 11:01 PM
:'( :'( :'( :'(

U should be happy 4 me? is it a disease? Sad

Posted: at 17-11-2010 11:02 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- PreetyInstinct at 17-11-2010 11:02 PM (13 years ago)
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 Grin

Posted: at 17-11-2010 11:02 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- valleydust at 17-11-2010 11:03 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: PreetyInstinct on 17-11-2010 11:02 PM
Quote from: valleydust on 17-11-2010 11:01 PM
:'( :'( :'( :'(

U should be happy 4 me? is it a disease? Sad

 Huh? Huh? Huh? Lips Sealed
Posted: at 17-11-2010 11:03 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- PreetyInstinct at 17-11-2010 11:30 PM (13 years ago)
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Next time den Smiley

Posted: at 17-11-2010 11:30 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Celestial1 at 17-11-2010 11:49 PM (13 years ago)
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How old are they?
Posted: at 17-11-2010 11:49 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- onyin at 18-11-2010 02:11 AM (13 years ago)
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tht's a tough one.
Posted: at 18-11-2010 02:11 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Emmandazie at 18-11-2010 01:44 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: valleydust on 16-11-2010 01:55 PM
A young man met a lady far away from their home town and they fell in love the relationship waxes stronger as they decided to spend their lives together 4ever. While still on introductory preparation, somehow the lady took-in (pregnant for the guy). In no time they happily went home for the introduction only to discover that their culture forbids them to marry.

REASON:- The guy is from a cursed village, according to their tradition people from that village has nothing to do with people from other villages in that community. The situation is critical as the two love birds have decided NEVER to hearken to their parents neither the community, and has also vowed to die(suicide) if they couldn’t spend their lives together.
 An advisably solution form you guys might save these two lives...

...WHAT SHOULD THEY DO?


Tradition my foot! These two may be those to put an end to that stupid tradition. Didn't Shakespear show us how to stop such tradition like Romeo & Julliet? Doesn't matter if they die or not. Courage future couple and God will grant your wishes and render thousands in your communities happy!
Posted: at 18-11-2010 01:44 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pepesy at 18-11-2010 02:20 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Emmandazie on 18-11-2010 01:44 PM
Quote from: valleydust on 16-11-2010 01:55 PM
A young man met a lady far away from their home town and they fell in love the relationship waxes stronger as they decided to spend their lives together 4ever. While still on introductory preparation, somehow the lady took-in (pregnant for the guy). In no time they happily went home for the introduction only to discover that their culture forbids them to marry.

REASON:- The guy is from a cursed village, according to their tradition people from that village has nothing to do with people from other villages in that community. The situation is critical as the two love birds have decided NEVER to hearken to their parents neither the community, and has also vowed to die(suicide) if they couldn’t spend their lives together.
 An advisably solution form you guys might save these two lives...

...WHAT SHOULD THEY DO?


Tradition my foot! These two may be those to put an end to that stupid tradition. Didn't Shakespear show us how to stop such tradition like Romeo & Julliet? Doesn't matter if they die or not. Courage future couple and God will grant your wishes and render thousands in your communities happy!

Not as easy as u may tink. Remember peep’s life re involve here. U ve to be prayerful 4 u 2 pound anything dat has 2 do wit curse u knw? They both can tell better how much they have been able to dealt with cases of that nature in both villas nd their outcome otherwise,,, with faith nd love they shuld decide on what 2 do.
 Secondly,,,, this tradition stuff shuld be get rid  of by d youths b4 issues like dis occur they shouldn’t wait until problem like this arises b4 they talk on how 2 eradicate it. If u com 2 9ja today,,, u find out dat we all ve one prb or d other wit marriage as our ethnicity varies.  Youths should come out nd tackle d issues b4 it gets out of hand
Posted: at 18-11-2010 02:20 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyiis at 18-11-2010 02:37 PM (13 years ago)
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You know they say that what an elder saw sitting down, a child will never see even if he climb a tree . Personaly , i believe in tradition(the good ones) though i am not insensitive abaut the bad ones .Traditions like this should not be toyed with as i have seen fatal consequences of going against such traditions .

You must noy loose your life to prove a point or change certain things . I'll advice that they consult the two villages involved with the help of their church to sit down and find an amicable solutions to the situation .

We are all products of our culture and traditions and we cant just sweep them away like that ................................one day someone will marry his siter or child and say "to hell with tradition" .

In my village , there are compounds that we cannot get married to not because they are "outcasts" or whatever u may call them but just because we are related in a way and it is such "abominations" that such traditions try to prevent

Posted: at 18-11-2010 02:37 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- jtcrest at 18-11-2010 02:52 PM (13 years ago)
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rubbish tradition
Posted: at 18-11-2010 02:52 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Emmandazie at 18-11-2010 02:55 PM (13 years ago)
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Such things are common accross Africa, but someone with a strong faith can go over them if the intention is to put a peaceful end to it. The more lifes are lost as result of this will cause the upholders of such traditions to review their stands especially when they are directly affected. I personally believe I can sacrifice my life for such missions provided it is meant to bring about peace and God will certainly bless me beyond!
 A standing child does not need to see the bullshit traditions his elders see while sitting
Posted: at 18-11-2010 02:55 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyiis at 18-11-2010 02:58 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Emmandazie on 18-11-2010 02:55 PM
Such things are common accross Africa, but someone with a strong faith can go over them if the intention is to put a peaceful end to it. The more lifes are lost as result of this will cause the upholders of such traditions to review their stands especially when they are directly affected. I personally believe I can sacrifice my life for such missions provided it is meant to bring about peace and God will certainly bless me beyond!
 A standing child does not need to see the bullshit traditions his elders see while sitting

U must not sacrifice ur life to bring a change ! Talk to those involved and make them see reasons with u.
Personally , i believe in dialogue

Posted: at 18-11-2010 02:58 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- valleydust at 18-11-2010 08:55 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Celestial1 on 17-11-2010 11:49 PM
How old are they?
dunno, but they are matured enough...
Posted: at 18-11-2010 08:55 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mydicksweet at 18-11-2010 08:57 PM (13 years ago)
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I SEE
Posted: at 18-11-2010 08:57 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- valleydust at 18-11-2010 09:00 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Pepesy on 18-11-2010 02:20 PM
Quote from: Emmandazie on 18-11-2010 01:44 PM
Quote from: valleydust on 16-11-2010 01:55 PM
A young man met a lady far away from their home town and they fell in love the relationship waxes stronger as they decided to spend their lives together 4ever. While still on introductory preparation, somehow the lady took-in (pregnant for the guy). In no time they happily went home for the introduction only to discover that their culture forbids them to marry.

REASON:- The guy is from a cursed village, according to their tradition people from that village has nothing to do with people from other villages in that community. The situation is critical as the two love birds have decided NEVER to hearken to their parents neither the community, and has also vowed to die(suicide) if they couldn’t spend their lives together.
 An advisably solution form you guys might save these two lives...

...WHAT SHOULD THEY DO?


Tradition my foot! These two may be those to put an end to that stupid tradition. Didn't Shakespear show us how to stop such tradition like Romeo & Julliet? Doesn't matter if they die or not. Courage future couple and God will grant your wishes and render thousands in your communities happy!

Not as easy as u may tink. Remember peep’s life re involve here. U ve to be prayerful 4 u 2 pound anything dat has 2 do wit curse u knw? They both can tell better how much they have been able to dealt with cases of that nature in both villas nd their outcome otherwise,,, with faith nd love they shuld decide on what 2 do.
 Secondly,,,, this tradition stuff shuld be get rid  of by d youths b4 issues like dis occur they shouldn’t wait until problem like this arises b4 they talk on how 2 eradicate it. If u com 2 9ja today,,, u find out dat we all ve one prb or d other wit marriage as our ethnicity varies.  Youths should come out nd tackle d issues b4 it gets out of hand


gud one!
I think they should get the youths involved... will forward dis 2 em...
Posted: at 18-11-2010 09:00 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mydicksweet at 18-11-2010 09:03 PM (13 years ago)
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@vally i said i see?
Posted: at 18-11-2010 09:03 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- valleydust at 18-11-2010 09:06 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: mydicksweet on 18-11-2010 09:03 PM
@vally i said i see?
oh... u were saw?
Posted: at 18-11-2010 09:06 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- diplomatik at 18-11-2010 11:58 PM (13 years ago)
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reading

Posted: at 18-11-2010 11:58 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- mydicksweet at 18-11-2010 11:59 PM (13 years ago)
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Activated
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- diplomatik at 19-11-2010 12:02 AM (13 years ago)
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u bck there again huh? ok.. i'm not coming home  Angry Angry

Posted: at 19-11-2010 12:02 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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