Flirting with another adult is an art form. Some people are born with it but others can learn the talent involved. When you look at him keep your eyes on him three seconds longer than seems polite and then look away. Do it again a few minutes later. He will feel it even if he is across the room. Focus and think, "Come here, come here, come here!" By the third time if he is feeling the vibe he will show up. If he is not interested by the third time well, he just is not. Move on to another. Sometimes just having a sexy, flirting walking style will be all you need to get the attention of every man in the room. When he sees others interested in you he will be also. Men love competition. They don't want something none of the others do.step 1
Ask one of your friends to watch him and see if he has notice you. She shouldn't focus on him too much or he will think she is interested. She should just track him a bit and note is reaction. Whisper to her after you look at him and he will think you are talking about him. Men love that! It excites them to think they are the center of your attention. It intrigues them and makes them want to find out what you are saying. If you get to meet him never tell that it was a plot.step 2
After you meet him be a little spicy but never insulting, mean or sarcastic or you will turn him off. You can be racy and fun but not make fun at his expense. Try to have interesting conversation. Ask him about himself and then actually listen to the answers and ask more questions about what he tells you. Don't ask with an eye toward how much money he makes. Ask about it from an intellectual viewpoint. Like "How did you get into that line of work? Do you find it satisfying?" Never ask him how much money he earns or what kind of car he drives. He will write you off as a gold digger. He may date you and he will probably go to bed with you but he will not value you.step3
Be mysterious. He is not your boyfriendlfriend and should not be in on the secrets of your beauty treatments. Let him see the finished product. Men usually don't care about shopping so don't talk to him about it.step 4
Keep in mind showing him respect is the best way to have him respect you. Intelligent conversation is the best way to keep him interested. Sex only keeps it going so long. You spend most of the relationship talking and the best way to keep a man's heart is by being intelligent and interesting. No one wants to hang around a boring self-interested person.
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By Judy Cutler, eHow Member
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Flirting eyes womanHow to Flirt to Make a Man Notice You and Keep His AttentionUser-Submitted Article
Flirting with another adult is an art form. Some people are born with it but others can learn the talent involved. When you look at him keep your eyes on him three seconds longer than seems polite and then look away. Do it again a few minutes later. He will feel it even if he is across the room. Focus and think, "Come here, come here, come here!" By the third time if he is feeling the vibe he will show up. If he is not interested by the third time well, he just is not. Move on to another. Sometimes just having a sexy, flirting walking style will be all you need to get the attention of every man in the room. When he sees others interested in you he will be also. Men love competition. They don't want something none of the others do.
.Difficulty: Easy
Instructions.Things You'll Need:
Focus
Nice eye make up but not too much. Don't overdo it.
Intention to get noticed.
A sexy attitude.
Be confident
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Woman being coy - never tell!Ask one of your friends to watch him and see if he has notice you. She shouldn't focus on him too much or he will think she is interested. She should just track him a bit and note is reaction. Whisper to her after you look at him and he will think you are talking about him. Men love that! It excites them to think they are the center of your attention. It intrigues them and makes them want to find out what you are saying. If you get to meet him never tell that it was a plot.
2
Be mysteriousAfter you meet him be a little spicy but never insulting, mean or sarcastic or you will turn him off. You can be racy and fun but not make fun at his expense. Don't talk about your cat. Men are bored to tears with women talking about how much they love their animals. If he asks you can mention you have them and let it go. I have sons who tell me that women who blab on and on about their pets bore them to tears. Try to have interesting conversation. Ask him about himself and then actually listen to the answers and ask more questions about what he tells you. Don't ask with an eye toward how much money he makes. Ask about it from an intellectual viewpoint. Like "How did you get into that line of work? Do you find it satisfying?" Never ask him how much money he ears or what kind of car he drives. He will write you off as a gold digger. He may date you and he will probably go to bed with you but he will not value you.
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Be sexy and show him he turns you on!Once you are dating do not let him see you prepare to go out. Be mysterious. He is not your girlfriend and should not be in on the secrets of your beauty treatments. Let him see the finished product. Men usually don't care about shopping so don't talk to him about it.
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Respect ShirtKeep in mind showing him respect is the best way to have him respect you. Intelligent conversation is the best way to keep him interested. Sex only keeps it going so long. You spend most of the relationship talking and the best way to keep a man's heart is by being intelligent and interesting. No one wants to hang around a boring self-interested person.
Tips & Warnings
Keep in mind you are not one of his pals..You are the opposite sex..Men and woman are not alike despite the propaganda to the contrary..
| Posted: at 23-11-2010 02:16 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie |
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