About a year ago, my honey left me for another rich guy all in the name that she want to get married by 25. first of all i'm not ripe enouch finacially for marriage and i keep telling her getting wedded at that age is not the issue but the blissfulness thereof....... all of a sudden my wolrd tuned upside and no fomular worked any longer.... friends, family and well wishers intervened all to no avail.... at this point the only thing she knows how to do is to capitalised on my shutcomings.... When it got to the point that i discovered i will just die for nothing , i decided to accept my fate! months latter we started communicating - she realised her mistake and i realised mine and improved seriously on the quality of my life... We talk everytime on phone except this few eeks , i tried to smoothen d odd between her ,friend and my family... The funniest part is that the new guy knows me well - right from the time i was tight with the girl but i never knew him. Her wedding ceremony is coming up this month and a copy of invitation has been brought to us.... but i do not think i can stand been at the ceremony for now....... what do u think i can do..............
Posted: at 5-12-2007 11:16 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie
Well I don't really know what the best advice is..but i don't think you should go to the wedding if you still have feelings for her cause that would worsen your situation...but if you're over her and no hard feelings involved..then i think you should go just to show her that all is good and wish her luck.....
Posted: at 5-12-2007 11:43 PM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero
myragonza at 6-12-2007 07:23 AM (17 years ago) (f)
will u come forward when the priest says the sermons about people not agreeing to this marriage should come forward or stay silent forever.....??if u have the feelings i guess u don;t have to go and just wish happiness for her.....maybe see her or talk to her before her big day and wish her or pass whatevr wedding gifts u wanna give her but there is no need to hurt uself more by attending the wedding......
Fcuk DON'T ATTEND d weddin if u have feelings 4 her or not.Call her,congratulate her,send her a gift.....but wateva u do do not go there. cos 2 tel u d truth u won't feel right if u go there.
Posted: at 8-12-2007 01:53 PM (17 years ago) | Upcoming
i quite agree wit meola.... u can only go there if u have gotten over wat u felt for her, else do not go near there at all cos wen u wld witness wld only bring back fond memories of the time u both shared 2gether
Posted: at 21-12-2007 12:37 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie
i quite agree wit meola.... u can only go there if u have gotten over wat u felt for her, else do not go near there at all cos wen u wld witness wld only bring back fond memories of the time u both shared 2gether
ummm... I said that too...can i get my props?
Posted: at 22-12-2007 12:09 AM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero
I think dame is very matured. There is nothing bad in it coz u've both share the same things in common so there is nothing so special about it. 2 thumb 4 dame that reply.
Posted: at 24-12-2007 02:52 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie
I think dame is very matured. There is nothing bad in it coz u've both share the same things in common so there is nothing so special about it. 2 thumb 4 dame that reply.
short and simple: you can go to the wedding if you no longer have feelings for your ex....and you might even go with your current lover and be seated right in the front and make out like you've never before........ ....grab each other's ass and shit...get their honeymoon started for them...shit you might even show them new positions to try on their honeymoon..... ...
Posted: at 24-12-2007 03:38 PM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero
dejifortune at 24-12-2007 06:16 PM (17 years ago) (m)
Guy, in a simply work, Just go to the wedding and let her know that even if she jilted u, u still wish her all the best, just have it at the back of your mind that things didnt work out cos God said u are not meant to be together, i am sure if u get to meet your right woman in furture, u will be very glad and greatful to God that your ex left you, so go to the wedding and be a just well wisher...........all the best
dejifortunecares
Posted: at 24-12-2007 06:16 PM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I'm gonna wear my birthday suit and gon have all eyez on me....I bet ppl will forget about their wedding and concentrate on me.......... ...thats until i bend over in front of him just to let him see it for the last time........
Posted: at 24-12-2007 09:16 PM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero
dejifortune at 27-12-2007 11:18 AM (17 years ago) (m)
Quote from: nigerianvixen26 on 24-12-2007 09:16 PM
I'm gonna wear my birthday suit and gon have all eyez on me....I bet ppl will forget about their wedding and concentrate on me.......... ...thats until i bend over in front of him just to let him see it for the last time........
you bad
dejifortunecares
Posted: at 27-12-2007 11:18 AM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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