HOW IS IT DONE? (Page 3)

@valleydust, I get face but whiteman machine no accept it oh! Well, in my place, the man goes to the girls parents and inform them he has spotted a hen in their compound. Then he is asked to bring people to 'catch the hen'. He then brings his family with a roasted chicken and palmwine. All the girls in the house are then called and he is asked to point to the hen he has been searching for. This done, the girl (hen) is asked to open the palmwine if she knows the visitors in her parents home. Once opened, the wine is poured in a cup and she is asked to drink if she welcomes the visitors. She drinks and is then asked to give the rest to the 'cock' that has been following her. A day is then set to settle the brideprice.
If she fails to open the wine (meaning refusal), her parents open it and both families drink but, the girls parents pay a symbolic price for the wine. Hope if you come to my place you won't fumble!
Oya,  how do I come to your place?