The Mother in law

Date: 03-12-2010 2:32 am (10 years ago) | Author: Yetty Ness
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- at 3-12-2010 02:32 AM (10 years ago)
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I have often wondered why Nigerian mothers have such a strong influence on their sons. If his mother does not like you... Forget it, i really suggest you find somebody else. What do you think?

Posted: at 3-12-2010 02:32 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- 4kasibe247 at 3-12-2010 02:34 AM (10 years ago)
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u said it all, find somebody else Cool
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- Aduf at 3-12-2010 10:47 AM (10 years ago)
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You are right find somebody else bco as a lady you marry your inlaw not your husband.
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- sesgylove at 3-12-2010 11:18 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: Aduf on  3-12-2010 10:47 AM
You are right find somebody else bco as a lady you marry your inlaw not your husband.

yes ooo. if ur mother in law didnt like u as a lady pls go for another person no mata wat
Posted: at 3-12-2010 11:18 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ladyb4u at 3-12-2010 12:39 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: yettyness on  3-12-2010 02:32 AM
I have often wondered why Nigerian mothers have such a strong influence on their sons. If his mother does not like you... Forget it, i really suggest you find somebody else. What do you think?

u've said it all
Posted: at 3-12-2010 12:39 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- Chigozirim at 3-12-2010 01:13 PM (10 years ago)
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Yes dear, u've said it all. Just find someone else
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- glory11967 at 3-12-2010 02:03 PM (10 years ago)
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although u guys have points,but sometime prayers can change mother in law,try put it in prayer...lol
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- enoeno at 3-12-2010 03:18 PM (10 years ago)
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mother in law they are extremly wicked i no about a friend who put to bed since our mum could not com the mother in law show am pepper.
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- SNYPER at 3-12-2010 03:40 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: yettyness on  3-12-2010 02:32 AM
I have often wondered why Nigerian mothers have such a strong influence on their sons. If his mother does not like you... Forget it, i really suggest you find somebody else. What do you think?

Wetin you do wey d mother no like you na? Grin Roll Eyes
Posted: at 3-12-2010 03:40 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Maxodus at 3-12-2010 09:14 PM (10 years ago)
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Agree with the mothers
Posted: at 3-12-2010 09:14 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- yettyness at 3-12-2010 10:24 PM (10 years ago)
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Agree with the mothers? I don't mean you are rude or wicked to the mother. You may just not be what she wants for her golden son...what do you do then? Men, the women you love or pleasing your mother..honestly.
Posted: at 3-12-2010 10:24 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Nadiatu at 4-12-2010 04:30 AM (10 years ago)
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Honestly i can't believe some of the guys are actually agreeing to this nonsense. the mothers has lived their own life so they should let their children live theirs. your mother should not be the one to tell you who is good or not good enought for you that is why you are an adult a man for that matter so you should know what you want and what you don't want. don't let your mother run your life for you as far as am consand the mother can go to hell. i did not married the whole family. i only married one person from the family so i don't have to suck up to anyone just to make things right. if u like you accept me the way i am or not its entirly your problem not mine and this mother and son thing its everywhere in africa not only in nigeria but its up to the son to know what is best for him. am also a married woman so am speakin from my own experience. i know what my husband has done and said for me to his own people during the time they didn't accept me and i must say that am one of the luckiest woman who's husbans will fight for just to protect their didnity.
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- yettyness at 4-12-2010 05:52 AM (10 years ago)
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Is it forever, after some months, after the kids..is it worth it?
Posted: at 4-12-2010 05:52 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- yettyness at 4-12-2010 06:21 AM (10 years ago)
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P.S Nad.. what did your husband do for you..don't be the only luckiest women in the world..tell us.. But is it still early days...?
Posted: at 4-12-2010 06:21 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- princedafe at 4-12-2010 07:59 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: 4kasibe247 on  3-12-2010 02:34 AM
u said it all, find somebody else Cool

Wellsaid and Supported
Posted: at 4-12-2010 07:59 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- marysmile at 4-12-2010 09:21 AM (10 years ago)
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Actually there is no maturity in this? I want to support Nad even if she is the only one standing out. How many of us men care for the growing number of suffering women around us? A woman will love you with all her heart and even drive out other people b/cos of you. she will all she has just to be with you. then in the end you tell her dat your mother hates her. DATS NOT LIFE AT ALL. Is she really a bad girl? Do you prefer your mother get a girl for you from the village? Why cant your love for her overcome your mothers hatred? IF MY GIRL NA GOOD GIRL my mother must lockup! or i leave her presence.
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- babebose at 4-12-2010 09:39 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: marysmile on  4-12-2010 09:21 AM
Actually there is no maturity in this? I want to support Nad even if she is the only one standing out. How many of us men care for the growing number of suffering women around us? A woman will love you with all her heart and even drive out other people b/cos of you. she will all she has just to be with you. then in the end you tell her dat your mother hates her. DATS NOT LIFE AT ALL. Is she really a bad girl? Do you prefer your mother get a girl for you from the village? Why cant your love for her overcome your mothers hatred? IF MY GIRL NA GOOD GIRL my mother must lockup! or i leave her presence.
i concur
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- Bestheart at 4-12-2010 10:51 AM (10 years ago)
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If they no like you na problem be that most of them are extemely heartless, them feel do anything to hurt.
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- otagermo at 4-12-2010 02:01 PM (10 years ago)
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this mother inlaws or whatever they are called pass through same hardship with their owm
mother inlaws too. this is woman for you.they all the same.am out.
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- Ehigie1 at 4-12-2010 04:39 PM (10 years ago)
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If ur mother in law succeed in turning her son's head, u better be on the run. May God help us.
Posted: at 4-12-2010 04:39 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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