Would you marry a girl you have dated her sister? (Page 3)

Thought it hurts i will let go bcos, blood they say is thicker than water.

Posted: at 4-12-2010 03:06 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

i think the best thing to do is to talk things out between all the parties involved and if during the dialogue meeting tempers flare then one will know how to handle the situations and next line of action to take weather to quit or go ahead with the marriage, because the older sister might just be the easy type that will let things go just like that or might have even gotten another man that she loves even more than the guy that is in the center of the issue. i will also try to let the elder sister see reasons with me and let the marriage go on but if she says no i will then tell my wife to be to go and sort things out with her elder sister, if after every thing and the elder sister refuses to be calmed down and see reasons with us i will ask my wife what she have decided to do on the issue and if she says she will marry me i will go ahead and marry her but if she says that she is no more interested with the marriage because of her sister then i will accept her decisions and put a stop to the whole marriage both with former and latter.GOD s divine wisdom and intervention is also needed by all the parties so as to be able make a good decisions too.the elder sister too is supposed to put her junior sister s feeling into considerations since it was not her fault or that of the guy in any way but i think the the junior sister is more on the right side if she go ahead with the marriage and if the elder sister refuses to let her sister get married to that guy i think she would be very wrong because she should have known that the guy loves her junior sister more than her or that they were not meant to be husband and wife and would only be spoiling show for her sister if refuses to bulge down. for goodness sake what is the distance from river state to abuja that the guy or the elder sister would not make up by visiting each other from time to time or even keeping in touch always through telephone and emails or messenger?. i think they don't love themselves enough to be husband and wife because if they do there wouldn't have been any gap in between the two of them. once a man have dated a woman that he loves so much in the past and wants to get married he must look for her even if she is abroad as far she can communicate with her directly ,even through some one else or through the girl s family members.

Posted: at 4-12-2010 05:16 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

What is abomination about it. After all, they were
not married at first place.

Though, the guy should let go and look elsewhere.

Posted: at 4-12-2010 05:26 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

hahahah what has this got to do with post??
The poster didnt ask you if you have a younger sister.

Posted: at 4-12-2010 05:35 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I noe most people get engages after they r expecting pregnant. If this was the case, wud this change ur views?

Posted: at 4-12-2010 10:54 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

hmmm i just dont feel comfortable with such idea.

Posted: at 4-12-2010 11:18 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

It depends on either both have come a long way in their relationship,it might be too late to quite,but may cause the two sister to dislike each other,cos for sure the first will not be happy seen her sister with her ex.I think its bad for them to be together if they want a happy home for themselves.

Posted: at 5-12-2010 09:13 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

i guess,d wedding will go on...i didn't get to know of any contact betw both...so

Posted: at 5-12-2010 06:17 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Never ever!

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Posted: at 6-12-2010 08:06 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

OK

Posted: at 6-12-2010 06:37 PM (13 years ago) | Hero