A friend of mine needed my help on a very important decision in her fie and i beat myself up to help, but realised i wasnt gettin through to her.She has been dating a married man for about six, months, but has realised she no longer wanted the relationship, according to her, her lover has never once pressurized her for sex, its always a kiss and romance when they meet,making trips, shopping etc etc.
She claims to enjoy being with him, but wants out, since she knows its a sin and its bad,but she cant.She has never been with a guy before, and why she is choosin a married guy for a first relationship, it beats my mind.What can i do to make her understand the need to break it off, i have read articles and peoples experiences and even told it to her, but she is still not getting it.I believe there are people with expereiences and advice that can help her.
Posted: at 13-12-2010 10:20 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
Treasure2 at 13-12-2010 10:24 AM (14 years ago) (f)
It is not always advisable to date married man, reason is this, the man in question have establish his family and only need you to cool off. Nothing good will ever come out of this relationship only gift and money. The lady will put her future in question bc no single man will want to take her serious.
Posted: at 13-12-2010 10:24 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
mallorca at 13-12-2010 10:45 AM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Treasure2 on 13-12-2010 10:24 AM
It is not always advisable to date married man, reason is this, the man in question have establish his family and only need you to cool off. Nothing good will ever come out of this relationship only gift and money. The lady will put her future in question bc no single man will want to take her serious. [/quote Gbamology
HOPE IS MY ROAD,VICTORY IS MY DESTINY
Posted: at 13-12-2010 10:45 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
chiglamour4u at 13-12-2010 12:38 PM (14 years ago) (f)
@ poster carry this advice wey treasure drop so add am to ur own go give her if she still insist then u leave her na her chioce when she marry na so one girl go dey date her husband mk she see hw it feels tell her say na course she dey receive and d more she dey sleep with the man d course dey increase
Posted: at 13-12-2010 12:38 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Treasure2 at 13-12-2010 12:45 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: chiglamour4u on 13-12-2010 12:38 PM
@ poster carry this advice wey treasure drop so add am to ur own go give her if she still insist then u leave her na her chioce when she marry na so one girl go dey date her husband mk she see hw it feels tell her say na course she dey receive and d more she dey sleep with the man d course dey increase
I tire ooo for some babes, Single bobo never finish na e i go come dey carry one wey don dey reach e R I P. Really sad.
Posted: at 13-12-2010 12:45 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
divineproject at 13-12-2010 01:02 PM (14 years ago) (f)
When she is ready, she wont need anyone to pressurize her into quitting........right now her mind is not made up about quitting, she is enjoying the attention she is getting right now.........therefore she cant quit.......she needs a jot, I hope she gets it pretty soon!..........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 13-12-2010 01:02 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
Treasure2 at 13-12-2010 01:08 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: mallorca on 13-12-2010 10:45 AM
Quote from: Treasure2 on 13-12-2010 10:24 AM
It is not always advisable to date married man, reason is this, the man in question have establish his family and only need you to cool off. Nothing good will ever come out of this relationship only gift and money. The lady will put her future in question bc no single man will want to take her serious. [/quote Gbamology
hmmmm
Posted: at 13-12-2010 01:08 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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