How Do You Get Him To Express His Feelings To You?

Published 8 years ago by: uduak Sophia Monday
at 09:20 AM, 17/12/2010 (8 years ago)

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Have you ever experienced this? Things are going well with your guy. So well, as a matter of fact, that when you start feeling insecure about something or want to share something you think he'll perceive as “negative”, you keep it inside. You're afraid that by being honest with him, you'll rock the boat.

Even worse, you end up feeling even more scared and lonely because he doesn't seem to be sharing what he's thinking with you, either. So you start pretending everything's okay, even when you're just dying to ask him if something's wrong.

I know how confusing and frustrating this can be, because I used to feel that way all the time. I would tip-toe around the man in my life, thinking I had to just accept the times he would become distant with me.

Now the Question is: How Do You Get Him To Express His Feelings To You?

lets hear ur views please;

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desiresluv20 at 09:23 AM, 17/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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A healthy attitude is contagious but don't wait to catch it from others. Be a carrier.

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Tundea1 at 09:24 AM, 17/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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Am coming
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sophiebaby at 09:31 AM, 17/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: desiresluv20 on 09:23 AM, 17/12/2010
A healthy attitude is contagious but don't wait to catch it from others. Be a carrier.

hmmmmmm u can say that again

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bittersweet at 09:35 AM, 17/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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Men,in general, need their time in the "cave"!
Usually I let him be,because he'll come out eventually, but sometimes I just don't have that patience,
and I try my best to make him open up,but it's not very easy!

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sixtyhoneyy at 09:38 AM, 17/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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no ideal
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sophiebaby at 09:46 AM, 17/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 09:35 AM, 17/12/2010
Men,in general, need their time in the "cave"!
Usually I let him be,because he'll come out eventually, but sometimes I just don't have that patience,
and I try my best to make him open up,but it's not very easy!


 Lips Sealed

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bittersweet at 11:40 AM, 17/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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 Wink Cool

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MissyBarbie at 11:43 AM, 17/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 09:35 AM, 17/12/2010
Men,in general, need their time in the "cave"!
Usually I let him be,because he'll come out eventually, but sometimes I just don't have that patience,
and I try my best to make him open up,but it's not very easy!


WORD
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enoeno at 11:44 AM, 17/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
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MissyBarbie at 11:46 AM, 17/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 09:20 AM, 17/12/2010
Have you ever experienced this? Things are going well with your guy. So well, as a matter of fact, that when you start feeling insecure about something or want to share something you think he'll perceive as “negative”, you keep it inside. You're afraid that by being honest with him, you'll rock the boat.

Even worse, you end up feeling even more scared and lonely because he doesn't seem to be sharing what he's thinking with you, either. So you start pretending everything's okay, even when you're just dying to ask him if something's wrong.

I know how confusing and frustrating this can be, because I used to feel that way all the time. I would tip-toe around the man in my life, thinking I had to just accept the times he would become distant with me.

Now the Question is: How Do You Get Him To Express His Feelings To You?

lets hear ur views please;

Simply Earn his Trust...Gbam
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bittersweet at 11:48 AM, 17/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: MissyBarbie on 11:43 AM, 17/12/2010
Quote from: bittersweet on 09:35 AM, 17/12/2010
Men,in general, need their time in the "cave"!
Usually I let him be,because he'll come out eventually, but sometimes I just don't have that patience,
and I try my best to make him open up,but it's not very easy!


WORD

 Wink

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sophiebaby at 12:09 PM, 17/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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learning more

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MissyBarbie at 12:10 PM, 17/12/2010 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 12:09 PM, 17/12/2010
learning more

SB wetin you dey learn sef....you wey you don graduate...Abegiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
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