How Do You Get Him To Express His Feelings To You?

9 years ago by: uduak Sophia Monday
-- (f) at 17-12-2010 09:20AM (9 years ago)

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Have you ever experienced this? Things are going well with your guy. So well, as a matter of fact, that when you start feeling insecure about something or want to share something you think he'll perceive as “negative”, you keep it inside. You're afraid that by being honest with him, you'll rock the boat.

Even worse, you end up feeling even more scared and lonely because he doesn't seem to be sharing what he's thinking with you, either. So you start pretending everything's okay, even when you're just dying to ask him if something's wrong.

I know how confusing and frustrating this can be, because I used to feel that way all the time. I would tip-toe around the man in my life, thinking I had to just accept the times he would become distant with me.

Now the Question is: How Do You Get Him To Express His Feelings To You?

lets hear ur views please;



-- desiresluv20 (m) at 17-12-2010 09:23AM
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A healthy attitude is contagious but don't wait to catch it from others. Be a carrier.

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-- Tundea1 (m) at 17-12-2010 09:24AM
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Am coming
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-- sophiebaby (f) at 17-12-2010 09:31AM
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Quote from: desiresluv20 on 17-12-2010 09:23AM
A healthy attitude is contagious but don't wait to catch it from others. Be a carrier.

hmmmmmm u can say that again

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-- bittersweet (f) at 17-12-2010 09:35AM
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Men,in general, need their time in the "cave"!
Usually I let him be,because he'll come out eventually, but sometimes I just don't have that patience,
and I try my best to make him open up,but it's not very easy!

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-- sixtyhoneyy (f) at 17-12-2010 09:38AM
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no ideal
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-- sophiebaby (f) at 17-12-2010 09:46AM
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Quote from: bittersweet on 17-12-2010 09:35AM
Men,in general, need their time in the "cave"!
Usually I let him be,because he'll come out eventually, but sometimes I just don't have that patience,
and I try my best to make him open up,but it's not very easy!


 Lips Sealed

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-- bittersweet (f) at 17-12-2010 11:40AM
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 Wink Cool

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-- MissyBarbie (f) at 17-12-2010 11:43AM
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Quote from: bittersweet on 17-12-2010 09:35AM
Men,in general, need their time in the "cave"!
Usually I let him be,because he'll come out eventually, but sometimes I just don't have that patience,
and I try my best to make him open up,but it's not very easy!


WORD
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-- enoeno (f) at 17-12-2010 11:44AM
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hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
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-- MissyBarbie (f) at 17-12-2010 11:46AM
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 17-12-2010 09:20AM
Have you ever experienced this? Things are going well with your guy. So well, as a matter of fact, that when you start feeling insecure about something or want to share something you think he'll perceive as “negative”, you keep it inside. You're afraid that by being honest with him, you'll rock the boat.

Even worse, you end up feeling even more scared and lonely because he doesn't seem to be sharing what he's thinking with you, either. So you start pretending everything's okay, even when you're just dying to ask him if something's wrong.

I know how confusing and frustrating this can be, because I used to feel that way all the time. I would tip-toe around the man in my life, thinking I had to just accept the times he would become distant with me.

Now the Question is: How Do You Get Him To Express His Feelings To You?

lets hear ur views please;

Simply Earn his Trust...Gbam
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-- bittersweet (f) at 17-12-2010 11:48AM
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Quote from: MissyBarbie on 17-12-2010 11:43AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 17-12-2010 09:35AM
Men,in general, need their time in the "cave"!
Usually I let him be,because he'll come out eventually, but sometimes I just don't have that patience,
and I try my best to make him open up,but it's not very easy!


WORD

 Wink

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-- sophiebaby (f) at 17-12-2010 12:09PM
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learning more

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-- MissyBarbie (f) at 17-12-2010 12:10PM
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 17-12-2010 12:09PM
learning more

SB wetin you dey learn sef....you wey you don graduate...Abegiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
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