Regain trust?

Date: 29-12-2010 1:50 pm (13 years ago) | Author: BRIGHT CHUKWUDI IFUNANYACHI ES
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- at 29-12-2010 01:50 PM (13 years ago)
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How does one regain trust in a relationship? lets assume ur guy/gurl has lie to u or went to bed with another guy or gurl and at the end,u discovered what happened..when the person pleads for forgiveness and promise to be faithful, will u ever trust him/her again?


Posted: at 29-12-2010 01:50 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
- sixtyhoneyy at 29-12-2010 01:54 PM (13 years ago)
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hmmm it's not that easy,
Posted: at 29-12-2010 01:54 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 29-12-2010 01:56 PM (13 years ago)
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I don't think so!
There will always be suspicion!

Posted: at 29-12-2010 01:56 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onchedu at 29-12-2010 02:18 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: esonu on 29-12-2010 01:50 PM
How does one regain trust in a relationship? lets assume ur guy/gurl has lie to u or went to bed with another guy or gurl and at the end,u discovered what happened..when the person pleads for forgiveness and promise to be faithful, will u ever trust him/her again?

Trust that is lost can be regained. It is not given. It is earned. If she can earn my trust again then she will have my trust, but I will not give it to her just like that.

Repentance is when u have a change of heart and work to live a new life, not when U ask for forgiveness.
Posted: at 29-12-2010 02:18 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- samboko at 29-12-2010 02:21 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: esonu on 29-12-2010 01:50 PM
How does one regain trust in a relationship? lets assume ur guy/gurl has lie to u or went to bed with another guy or gurl and at the end,u discovered what happened..when the person pleads for forgiveness and promise to be faithful, will u ever trust him/her again?

its easy a question...and the answer is YES!

but if she repeats cheating/telling lies then there will be problem....
Posted: at 29-12-2010 02:21 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- HOPEA23 at 29-12-2010 02:34 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 29-12-2010 02:18 PM
Quote from: esonu on 29-12-2010 01:50 PM
How does one regain trust in a relationship? lets assume ur guy/gurl has lie to u or went to bed with another guy or gurl and at the end,u discovered what happened..when the person pleads for forgiveness and promise to be faithful, will u ever trust him/her again?

Trust that is lost can be regained. It is not given. It is earned. If she can earn my trust again then she will have my trust, but I will not give it to her just like that.

Repentance is when u have a change of heart and work to live a new life, not when U ask for forgiveness.
brother is back..i support this comment

Posted: at 29-12-2010 02:34 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 29-12-2010 03:18 PM (13 years ago)
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When i forgive him, there is nottin else i can do then to trust him again...
Posted: at 29-12-2010 03:18 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- esonu at 29-12-2010 03:59 PM (13 years ago)
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reading

Posted: at 29-12-2010 03:59 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 29-12-2010 04:01 PM (13 years ago)
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I cant come up with d old story again, betta i just move on then...
Posted: at 29-12-2010 04:01 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- moneyinbrakemi at 29-12-2010 04:12 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: esonu on 29-12-2010 01:50 PM
How does one regain trust in a relationship? lets assume ur guy/gurl has lie to u or went to bed with another guy or gurl and at the end,u discovered what happened..when the person pleads for forgiveness and promise to be faithful, will u ever trust him/her again?

To forgive YES but to forget NO__SO there is no more TRUST again cos TRUST will be costly by then
Posted: at 29-12-2010 04:12 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- esonu at 29-12-2010 04:13 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: moneyinbrakemi on 29-12-2010 04:12 PM
Quote from: esonu on 29-12-2010 01:50 PM
How does one regain trust in a relationship? lets assume ur guy/gurl has lie to u or went to bed with another guy or gurl and at the end,u discovered what happened..when the person pleads for forgiveness and promise to be faithful, will u ever trust him/her again?

To forgive YES but to forget NO__SO there is no more TRUST again cos TRUST will be costly by then
its like we have the same heart

Posted: at 29-12-2010 04:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- justceetah at 29-12-2010 04:35 PM (13 years ago)
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I can't trust her ever again,sure i can 4give her but will always expect d worst 4rm her

Posted: at 29-12-2010 04:35 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- moneyinbrakemi at 29-12-2010 04:38 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: esonu on 29-12-2010 04:13 PM
Quote from: moneyinbrakemi on 29-12-2010 04:12 PM
Quote from: esonu on 29-12-2010 01:50 PM
How does one regain trust in a relationship? lets assume ur guy/gurl has lie to u or went to bed with another guy or gurl and at the end,u discovered what happened..when the person pleads for forgiveness and promise to be faithful, will u ever trust him/her again?

To forgive YES but to forget NO__SO there is no more TRUST again cos TRUST will be costly by then
its like we have the same heart

Coincidence
Posted: at 29-12-2010 04:38 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- esonu at 29-12-2010 04:42 PM (13 years ago)
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lol

Posted: at 29-12-2010 04:42 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- moneyinbrakemi at 29-12-2010 04:44 PM (13 years ago)
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accident
Posted: at 29-12-2010 04:44 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- brightossy at 29-12-2010 04:49 PM (13 years ago)
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It will t8 me time and testing
Posted: at 29-12-2010 04:49 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 29-12-2010 04:52 PM (13 years ago)
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how can u forgiv, stay with d person when there is no trust?

Dusn make sense!
Posted: at 29-12-2010 04:52 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- juleshotluv at 29-12-2010 05:20 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: esonu on 29-12-2010 01:50 PM
How does one regain trust in a relationship? lets assume ur guy/gurl has lie to u or went to bed with another guy or gurl and at the end,u discovered what happened..when the person pleads for forgiveness and promise to be faithful, will u ever trust him/her again?


I will trust them again but if it happens again then i wont.. Undecided
Posted: at 29-12-2010 05:20 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mydicksweet at 29-12-2010 05:30 PM (13 years ago)
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I see
Posted: at 29-12-2010 05:30 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 29-12-2010 05:46 PM (13 years ago)
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with time i will.
Posted: at 29-12-2010 05:46 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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