May Yul-Edochie has replied to her husband, actor Yul Edochie, who a few days ago came online to publicly ask for forgiveness for taking actress Judy, as a second wife.
Posting on her Instagram page this evening, May pointed out that she has already forgiven her husband with regards to the issue on ground as it was in the interest of her mental health and inner peace. She mentioned that she has no hate for the father of her children but that as she had earlier stated, she will not be cajoled into accepting polygamy or be numbered as a wife. Her post reads;
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'' I strongly believe that mistakes are a major part of human existence. It is our response to these errors that count. In other words, forgiveness is one thing, and righting a wrong is another. FORGIVENESS is the highest | most beautiful form of love for me. There is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love. Hence, my ability to forgive the mistakes of the past, present, and future with respect to the issue on ground is in the interest of my mental health and inner peace. I decided to stick to love...Hate is too great a burden to bear. I am still very much incapable of HATING anyone, let alone the father of my children. The fact remains that anyone can choose to practice POLYGAMY, but can't be impelled to accept what was never bargained for. To reaffirm my stands, I will not be CAJOLED into accepting polygamy, which goes against my beliefs, faith, and values. I will not be NUMBERED in a home that we started building with love, faith, tears, hopes, and prayers in a CATHOLIC marriage of 18 years following a long term premarital relationship. This is also a passionate appeal to put an END to the constant “show” on the social media space where our kids are growing into unless it is absolutely necessary. Let's prevent our lovely children from all the incessant drama series that might take a toll on them directly or indirectly amongst their peers. May GOD in His infinite mercy and compassion guide us all in the right direction. Merry Christmas in advance everyone!''
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Posted: at 23-12-2022 10:22 PM (1 year ago) | Hero
Don't let online inlaws cajole you into destroying what is left of your home. Submit to your husband at all times, avoid pressure from the outside world, their opinion doesn't matter. This is the only way that you can have a lasting peace. The Igbo tradition is not against polygamy, in fact, if you check your fathers lineage, you wouldn't get to the past 3 generations before you encounter polygamy. Be wise.
What is the color beneath your skin?
Posted: at 23-12-2022 11:31 PM (1 year ago) | Addicted Hero
Don't let online inlaws cajole you into destroying what is left of your home. Submit to your husband at all times, avoid pressure from the outside world, their opinion doesn't matter. This is the only way that you can have a lasting peace. The Igbo tradition is not against polygamy, in fact, if you check your fathers lineage, you wouldn't get to the past 3 generations before you encounter polygamy. Be wise.
women will come for your head on this
Posted: at 23-12-2022 11:54 PM (1 year ago) | Grande Master
Don't let online inlaws cajole you into destroying what is left of your home. Submit to your husband at all times, avoid pressure from the outside world, their opinion doesn't matter. This is the only way that you can have a lasting peace. The Igbo tradition is not against polygamy, in fact, if you check your fathers lineage, you wouldn't get to the past 3 generations before you encounter polygamy. Be wise.
it is against her faith,let her be,she has right to accept or reject whatever, leave submission out of it,it is her choice
Posted: at 24-12-2022 02:01 AM (1 year ago) | Upcoming
Don't let online inlaws cajole you into destroying what is left of your home. Submit to your husband at all times, avoid pressure from the outside world, their opinion doesn't matter. This is the only way that you can have a lasting peace. The Igbo tradition is not against polygamy, in fact, if you check your fathers lineage, you wouldn't get to the past 3 generations before you encounter polygamy. Be wise.
What NONSENSE submit to ur husband comment is this? Close ur eyes a minute and imagine ur sister going through this terrible betrayal and heartbreak or better still u waking up one day to know ur wife has another man somewhere, are u still going to love her like the bible instructed? This lady has gone through one of the most painful experiences in marriages and the only thing she needs now is all round support for her to heal from this pain not any pressure from anyone especially the person that caused the pain in the 1st place, if Yul truly wants May back he should end it with Judy or whatever her name is cos in this life u can't eat ur cake and have it back all in the name of being a 'man' this is 2022 and women are standing up for themselves and their mental wellbeing, has anyone truly cares how May is feeling from this mess up? All u & most people care about is 'her marriage'! Which marriage again?? So because she's posting beautiful pics and travelling, we're all forgetting what she's actually feeling inside? Has anyone also considered what those beautiful children are going through emotionally/psychologically, especially seeing their mum in agony and their dad making a fool of himself? Yul has messed up big time, and as much as I want May to forgive him like she's done, I would NOT expect her to stay with him if she doesn't want to. Yul has made his bed let him have a good sleep on it with his 2nd wife, May will be fine eventually....and just so u know, any woman that can sleep with a married man, get pregnant for him and marries him IS NOT a 'good' woman ordinarily not judging just speaking my truth.
Posted: at 24-12-2022 06:35 AM (1 year ago) | Gistmaniac
What NONSENSE submit to ur husband comment is this? Close ur eyes a minute and imagine ur sister going through this terrible betrayal and heartbreak or better still u waking up one day to know ur wife has another man somewhere, are u still going to love her like the bible instructed? This lady has gone through one of the most painful experiences in marriages and the only thing she needs now is all round support for her to heal from this pain not any pressure from anyone especially the person that caused the pain in the 1st place, if Yul truly wants May back he should end it with Judy or whatever her name is cos in this life u can't eat ur cake and have it back all in the name of being a 'man' this is 2022 and women are standing up for themselves and their mental wellbeing, has anyone truly cares how May is feeling from this mess up? All u & most people care about is 'her marriage'! Which marriage again?? So because she's posting beautiful pics and travelling, we're all forgetting what she's actually feeling inside? Has anyone also considered what those beautiful children are going through emotionally/psychologically, especially seeing their mum in agony and their dad making a fool of himself? Yul has messed up big time, and as much as I want May to forgive him like she's done, I would NOT expect her to stay with him if she doesn't want to. Yul has made his bed let him have a good sleep on it with his 2nd wife, May will be fine eventually....and just so u know, any woman that can sleep with a married man, get pregnant for him and marries him IS NOT a 'good' woman ordinarily not judging just speaking my truth.
I knew feminists will attack me , but fact is that it is meaningless, crying over a spilt milk. She is under pressure from Social media people to act in a way, and she is playing their script at the detriment of her home. If she cannot be in that polygamous marriage, then let her file for divorce. Why is she still hanging around? bearing the Edochie name, when even that faith that she practices, supports divorce in circumstances as this? Two things..., if she cant take it, let her leave, if she can forgive, let her do so and live with her family in peace. let her stop playing the script y'all are writing for her. It will do her no good.
What is the color beneath your skin?
Posted: at 24-12-2022 07:49 AM (1 year ago) | Addicted Hero
Kormeijama at 24-12-2022 08:17 AM (1 year ago) (m)
Let her forgive but not forget . Polygamy is a choice even to the Muslims outfits that makes it sound like a fatwa- its not and has never been. The Holy Quran made it conditional for anyone indulging into the practice' if you can manage them faithfully and honestly, but there must be consent from your first wife'. But ability to upkeep is obvious, if not the most important condition attached. However, the madam reserves the right to withdraw/ request divorcee if she cant put up with husband's decision for a second wife.
Posted: at 24-12-2022 08:17 AM (1 year ago) | Gistmaniac
Let her forgive but not forget . Polygamy is a choice even to the Muslims outfits that makes it sound like a fatwa- its not and has never been. The Holy Quran made it conditional for anyone indulging into the practice' if you can manage them faithfully and honestly, but there must be consent from your first wife'. But ability to upkeep is obvious, if not the most important condition attached. However, the madam reserves the right to withdraw/ request divorcee if she cant put up with husband's decision for a second wife.
Just know that I am clapping. This is what I am saying !!!. Divorce or put up !
What is the color beneath your skin?
Posted: at 24-12-2022 09:24 AM (1 year ago) | Addicted Hero
I don't have much to say on this issue. My point is: if you don't like or subscribe to this idea, leave the marriage. Don't stay in the kitchen and complain about the smoke and heat. It's no point sitting on the fence on this issue. Since the genesis of this issue. You've been blowing hot and cold. You don't like a polygamous husband then come out on social media and let people know you're out. Staying quiet doesn't change anything.
Posted: at 24-12-2022 11:21 AM (1 year ago) | Upcoming
I knew feminists will attack me , but fact is that it is meaningless, crying over a spilt milk. She is under pressure from Social media people to act in a way, and she is playing their script at the detriment of her home. If she cannot be in that polygamous marriage, then let her file for divorce. Why is she still hanging around? bearing the Edochie name, when even that faith that she practices, supports divorce in circumstances as this? Two things..., if she cant take it, let her leave, if she can forgive, let her do so and live with her family in peace. let her stop playing the script y'all are writing for her. It will do her no good.
I'M NOT a feminist, I'm just an honest person with genuine empathy for people and situation as much as I understand the point you're making, I still believe May isn't acting under pressure from SM. When she said she won't be cajoled into polygamy or numbered as a wife I believe that's her asking for a divorce but Yul is insisting she's still his wife but because May isn't putting everything out there for the world to see most people will not understand what's happening behind closed doors...
Posted: at 24-12-2022 09:32 PM (1 year ago) | Gistmaniac
I'M NOT a feminist, I'm just an honest person with genuine empathy for people and situation as much as I understand the point you're making, I still believe May isn't acting under pressure from SM. When she said she won't be cajoled into polygamy or numbered as a wife I believe that's her asking for a divorce but Yul is insisting she's still his wife but because May isn't putting everything out there for the world to see most people will not understand what's happening behind closed doors...
Angel, I've been on this Forum long enough to know that you have a very kind and genuine heart, more beautiful than your face. Your husband is blessed. Just saying that May should be more practical. We all have our points. Merry Christmas to you and yours !!
What is the color beneath your skin?
Posted: at 25-12-2022 08:11 AM (1 year ago) | Addicted Hero
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not judging just speaking my truth. 
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