Forgiving a cheating husband does not make you a fool or a weak person, in fact it the other way round, it makes you a much better person, more understanding, and more sensible, ( we are not saying those who don’t forgive are weak or otherwise).
This also does not mean we approve of cheating, but what it means or what we are trying to say, is what we never give our selves time to think things over, once we hear the word cheating, we normally would react. Yes it does not matter who approached who, if it was your husband or the other woman, that is irrelevant, what is sad but important is that they are cheating, and a solution has to be reached.
Understanding your husband is very important as well as understand why he cheated, we always make this mistake when we hear the word cheat, we dismiss the men, and refuse to have a dialog, you need to, you need very much to see things from his eyes, why he cheated how he felt, how he covered his tracks, what and he wanted out of the other person, this way you are able to put things to gather and work out a better relationship plan for the future, there is just no man out there who would not cheat in certain situation, , unless they are bore again Christan, those who think and believe theirs would never do a thing like it, and it happened, should not run a mile from the problem, it so easy this days to just end the marriage just for selfish reason, if it was your good job, and you had some problem with you boss or the job, will you just leave it and walk way. , will you not try and rectify the problem, the way it is with all marriages, problems comes, you look for the solution, the word solution is for a reason.
And forgiving his cheating ways, try and work thing out, so it will not occure again, remember your marriage is for life, most cases when a partner cheats, and they work things out by talking about everything and seeing things from different angles, it brings them ever closer together, please do not forget your marroage vows.
Believe this; every good marriage and long lasting ones are always face with major problems, it all the testing of your marriage to a more better great place.
so ladies pls make it a top priority to forgive ur spouses even as we enter a new year...men pls let us try to make a diference in our relationship with our spouses it will certainly make the world a better place.
truenaija2 at 31-12-2010 06:37 PM (13 years ago) (f)
@poster well as u said dont forget ur marriage vows so that means they should remember they made a vow before GOD ALMIGHTY so they r indebted to thier own vows thats why they dont even have d right to cheat , der r many excuses to do bad things i.e they dont have enough reasons to disrespect GOD and dier wives by breaking thier marriage vows, I REST MY CASE!!!!
Posted: at 31-12-2010 06:37 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
So yu're Giving Men the Freedom 2 be Infidels, right?
pls don't quote me wrongly and don't get my message twisted i have never supported, i am not supporting and will never support any man that cheats on his spouse whether married or un-married no matter the reason/exccuses he brings up....read the last paragraph carefully and in between the lines im sure u might get an idea of what i am really passing out. I don't care if ill be criticized or insulted for waht im going to state now... taking out all form of sentiments, egotism, male chauvenism, pride or whatev er we all know deep within us sincerely that men are the worse culprits of infidelity in todays marriage i can estimate hypothetically that 80 percent of male worldwide engaged in an act of infidelity directly or indirectly at one time in their relationship. Now this can't be compared to say 45 percent female infidelity. im not however, chiding the female gender but im actually exposing the truth and also trying to make laddies in active relationships especially the married ladies understand what basic step thy can take so as to safeguard their union and also undo the sins their husbands have committed.
i should plead to us men and women especially the married ones: lets not forget the vows we made during the soleminization of our union to our wives/women (married folks) cos God is who u really vowed to.
happy married life to all married folks and would be married fols alike in the year 2011 and beyond.
Posted: at 31-12-2010 10:38 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
janegeorge at 1-01-2011 02:08 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Bella. Na u sabi. E fit enter the hole go see acrobat, comfu and bruzlee.e go come back com teach madam. Cos some of these our madam, take things for granted. If u dont take time they kill ua drive and render u impotent and segxwally inactive.they cause 90% of men's wahala.
Posted: at 1-01-2011 02:08 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
this is the most stupid and senseless post i have come across. i cannot believe someone in their right senses is encouraging infidelity in marriage. POSTER, TELL ALL MEN TO FORGIVE THEIR CHEATING WIVES ALSO AND SEE WHAT THE GUYS REACTION WILL BE. senseless post!!!!!!
Posted: at 9-01-2011 11:40 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
diplomatik at 10-01-2011 12:52 AM (13 years ago) (f)
some1 please summarize
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 10-01-2011 12:52 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
diplomatik at 10-01-2011 01:06 AM (13 years ago) (f)
xter summarize na
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 10-01-2011 01:06 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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