CHEATING (Page 2)

Date: 05-01-2011 8:07 pm (14 years ago) | Author: katrien
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- simele at 6-01-2011 01:55 PM (14 years ago)
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bad i can cheat on my partner i think of risk involve
Posted: at 6-01-2011 01:55 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 6-01-2011 02:13 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on  5-01-2011 09:02 PM
IS THAT UR FINAL ANS FLYMAMA
Frank Edoho's question in "who wants to be a millionaire"
Posted: at 6-01-2011 02:13 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 6-01-2011 02:21 PM (14 years ago)
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The desire to cheat is a voluntary discision and has no relation with the level of one's libido . As long as the mind is made up to cheat , the body reacts in like manner by secreating the necessary hormones

Posted: at 6-01-2011 02:21 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- do4sure at 6-01-2011 02:23 PM (14 years ago)
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Cheating in relationship is just another greed in a different colour.A greedy person will always be greedy irrespective of what he/she has.HIGH,MEDIUM OR HIGH LIBIDO IS JUST AN EXCUSE TO CHEAT.
Posted: at 6-01-2011 02:23 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 50scent at 6-01-2011 02:25 PM (14 years ago)
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@blessedme How are u doing dear

Posted: at 6-01-2011 02:25 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 6-01-2011 02:33 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on  6-01-2011 02:21 PM
The desire to cheat is a voluntary discision and has no relation with the level of one's libido . As long as the mind is made up to cheat , the body reacts in like manner by secreating the necessary hormones
Nice one!
Posted: at 6-01-2011 02:33 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- atamajim at 6-01-2011 02:35 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on  6-01-2011 01:39 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on  5-01-2011 10:18 PM
CHEATING IS LUST FOR SOMEONE ELSE AND WANTING TO HAVE SEX WITHOUT SELFCONTROL it is just a sign of someone that is worth nothing (cheap)
But then i wonder when it is all abt sex, how com som men even hav a second galfriend outside?
Not only to fcuk, but also go shoppen, dancing, movies,.... Then it must b more then lust ?





 you narrowed it to guys only, abi. do you know my ex kept us two of us guys for close to two years, but non of us could even suspect her? when you wanted to ask some kind question she will say can't you trust me?. it was really terrible when i found out.... girlzz are like that tooo
Posted: at 6-01-2011 02:35 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 6-01-2011 02:36 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: do4sure on  6-01-2011 02:23 PM
Cheating in relationship is just another greed in a different colour.A greedy person will always be greedy irrespective of what he/she has.HIGH,MEDIUM OR HIGH LIBIDO IS JUST AN EXCUSE TO CHEAT.
So cheating is being greedy? As u hear many ppl do it for fun, lust, .... they will disagree
with bein greedy....

Posted: at 6-01-2011 02:36 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 6-01-2011 02:37 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: atamajim on  6-01-2011 02:35 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on  6-01-2011 01:39 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on  5-01-2011 10:18 PM
CHEATING IS LUST FOR SOMEONE ELSE AND WANTING TO HAVE SEX WITHOUT SELFCONTROL it is just a sign of someone that is worth nothing (cheap)
But then i wonder when it is all abt sex, how com som men even hav a second galfriend outside?
Not only to fcuk, but also go shoppen, dancing, movies,.... Then it must b more then lust ?





 you narrowed it to guys only, abi. do you know my ex kept us two of us guys for close to two years, but non of us could even suspect her? when you wanted to ask some kind question she will say can't you trust me?. it was really terrible when i found out.... girlzz are like that tooo
Dont get me wrong ooo na both men and women cheat... but wen i tink of libido,

i guess men luv sex pass women?

Posted: at 6-01-2011 02:37 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- atamajim at 6-01-2011 02:46 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on  6-01-2011 02:37 PM
Quote from: atamajim on  6-01-2011 02:35 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on  6-01-2011 01:39 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on  5-01-2011 10:18 PM
CHEATING IS LUST FOR SOMEONE ELSE AND WANTING TO HAVE SEX WITHOUT SELFCONTROL it is just a sign of someone that is worth nothing (cheap)
But then i wonder when it is all abt sex, how com som men even hav a second galfriend outside?
Not only to fcuk, but also go shoppen, dancing, movies,.... Then it must b more then lust ?








 i will  still not get you wrong, libido is individual thing, some girlz have higher libido than their guyz, don't you think so?


 you narrowed it to guys only, abi. do you know my ex kept us two of us guys for close to two years, but non of us could even suspect her? when you wanted to ask some kind question she will say can't you trust me?. it was really terrible when i found out.... girlzz are like that tooo
Dont get me wrong ooo na both men and women cheat... but wen i tink of libido,

i guess men luv sex pass women?


Posted: at 6-01-2011 02:46 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Michro at 6-01-2011 02:55 PM (14 years ago)
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Hmmmmm!
I don't know

Posted: at 6-01-2011 02:55 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- atamajim at 6-01-2011 03:09 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on  6-01-2011 02:37 PM
Quote from: atamajim on  6-01-2011 02:35 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on  6-01-2011 01:39 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on  5-01-2011 10:18 PM
CHEATING IS LUST FOR SOMEONE ELSE AND WANTING TO HAVE SEX WITHOUT SELFCONTROL it is just a sign of someone that is worth nothing (cheap)
But then i wonder when it is all abt sex, how com som men even hav a second galfriend outside?
Not only to fcuk, but also go shoppen, dancing, movies,.... Then it must b more then lust ?





 you narrowed it to guys only, abi. do you know my ex kept us two of us guys for close to two years, but non of us could even suspect her? when you wanted to ask some kind question she will say can't you trust me?. it was really terrible when i found out.... girlzz are like that tooo
Dont get me wrong ooo na both men and women cheat... but wen i tink of libido,

i guess men luv sex pass women?














 i will  still not get you wrong, libido is individual thing, some girlz have higher libido than their guyz, don't you think so?
Posted: at 6-01-2011 03:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- moneyinbrakemi at 6-01-2011 03:36 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on  5-01-2011 08:07 PM
Hi sweet pals,

I was having a conversation today with one of my friends and we
disagreed on something.

When a man is not realy into sex, in other words somebody with a low libido,
is the temptation to cheat less?? Is cheating the feeling/lust for an other woman or
is it about having sex?

Thank in advance!  Kiss


Cheating is a plain language on its own and has nothing to do with low or high libido...
When you go out of your matrimonial home in search of something thst your partner can offer
whether less or better...THAT IS CHEATING! When you are unfair and unfaithful to your partner
THAT IS CHEATING also___and many more
Posted: at 6-01-2011 03:36 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- hotguy77 at 6-01-2011 04:29 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: do4sure on  6-01-2011 02:23 PM
Cheating in relationship is just another greed in a different colour.A greedy person will always be greedy irrespective of what he/she has.HIGH,MEDIUM OR HIGH LIBIDO IS JUST AN EXCUSE TO CHEAT.

Correct my guy
Posted: at 6-01-2011 04:29 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- samboko at 6-01-2011 04:35 PM (14 years ago)
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@ Poster, im sure now that you can see that i was closed to being right when i said libido has nothing to do with cheating.

Posted: at 6-01-2011 04:35 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- solojaro at 6-01-2011 04:38 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on  5-01-2011 08:23 PM
Quote from: samboko on  5-01-2011 08:19 PM
Flymama, its a good question to me.

Cheating has nothing to do with high or low libido. I consider myself pretty HIGH but cheating on my gal will be the last thing on my agenda (if it will ever make it there at all).

Cheating, to me is an act. It is a decision everyone makes, either for fun or wickedness. When young ones are growing, they cheat because they think is fun, but adult cheating is on different level. I will say some cheat because no one can query them, some do because they irresponsible in their marriage/relationship. Some others, however cheat because they feel horny whenever they see some pretty face, gosh, i always wonder why cant they pick up their phone and call their partner for a quickie...grrrrrrr

By the way, im not a saint but i dont cheat, and i love the thing well well....

lol
I know ppl cheat for different reasons... I agree on that.
But u realy think that a man with a low libido is gonna fall in temptation as fast as a man who got HIGH libido?




Samboko I totally agree with you. and Flymamacita yes a man with high libido fall fast if cheating is in his blood,but that also does not mean that the man with low libido do not cheat, they do it for different reasons.
Posted: at 6-01-2011 04:38 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 6-01-2011 07:04 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: atamajim on  6-01-2011 02:46 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on  6-01-2011 02:37 PM
Quote from: atamajim on  6-01-2011 02:35 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on  6-01-2011 01:39 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on  5-01-2011 10:18 PM
CHEATING IS LUST FOR SOMEONE ELSE AND WANTING TO HAVE SEX WITHOUT SELFCONTROL it is just a sign of someone that is worth nothing (cheap)
But then i wonder when it is all abt sex, how com som men even hav a second galfriend outside?
Not only to fcuk, but also go shoppen, dancing, movies,.... Then it must b more then lust ?








 i will  still not get you wrong, libido is individual thing, some girlz have higher libido than their guyz, don't you think so?


 you narrowed it to guys only, abi. do you know my ex kept us two of us guys for close to two years, but non of us could even suspect her? when you wanted to ask some kind question she will say can't you trust me?. it was really terrible when i found out.... girlzz are like that tooo
Dont get me wrong ooo na both men and women cheat... but wen i tink of libido,

i guess men luv sex pass women?


Hmmmmm maybe,,,am not covinced
Posted: at 6-01-2011 07:04 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 6-01-2011 07:24 PM (14 years ago)
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@poster is an interesting post..i would have love to share my view but,do to you ladies (here on NP) like generalizing issues , when comes to men...so i pass

Posted: at 6-01-2011 07:24 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 6-01-2011 07:40 PM (14 years ago)
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Michro, u betta say sometin oo  Smiley

moneyinbrakemi, then how do u xplain cheaters who do not go for sometin betta? som men/women
cheat wit ppl they pick on d street, or prostitutes sef!

solojaro & samboko, true talk

Posted: at 6-01-2011 07:40 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 6-01-2011 07:42 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on  6-01-2011 07:24 PM
@poster is an interesting post..i would have love to share my view but,do to you ladies (here on NP) like generalizing issues , when comes to men...so i pass
Well, I dont like generalizing, tht is why i ask!  Wink
So pls love doctor say sometin  Smiley

Posted: at 6-01-2011 07:42 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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