IN A FIX,PLEASE I NEED HONEST ADVICE

Date: 07-01-2011 1:41 pm (13 years ago) | Author: mike anselm
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- at 7-01-2011 01:41 PM (13 years ago)
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I have been into this relationship with this lady I meet in my new office.We have been seeing each other for close to four years now,the relationship started with normal office flirtations but beforce Icould say Jack Robinson we have started sleeping together.
Right now iam on a cross-roads because i cannot concentrate on my relationship with my fincee who iam planning on taking to the alter very soon.
Whenever, I try quitting the union I find it difficult, the proximity that exist between us is not helping matters because we see each other almost on a daily basis.Please what should i do to free myself from this bondage?

Posted: at 7-01-2011 01:41 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
- bittersweet at 7-01-2011 01:53 PM (13 years ago)
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You must be kidding!
Didn't you hear of self control?

Posted: at 7-01-2011 01:53 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 7-01-2011 01:56 PM (13 years ago)
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Look for another job.............it is not easy to see another nice paying job.........but give it a shot...........next time, dont mix up the two.......

Posted: at 7-01-2011 01:56 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 7-01-2011 02:00 PM (13 years ago)
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i guess d voice of self control was too tiny for him to hear

when did u met ya fiancee?
u ve been dating dis woman for four years u said
is she a married woman that u cant marry her

for crying out loud u were dating a woman for four years and yet u have a fiancee u wanted to marry

just ans d question first b4 we know ow to treat ya case
Posted: at 7-01-2011 02:00 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Adikpe at 7-01-2011 02:08 PM (13 years ago)
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That is very bad of you guy.
You have a fiancée who you intend to marry,
yet you have another deep relationship with
another lady.

You have to make up your mind and let this lady go,
because it is uncalled for.
Posted: at 7-01-2011 02:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 7-01-2011 02:12 PM (13 years ago)
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watch out b4 u lose both
Posted: at 7-01-2011 02:12 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 7-01-2011 02:15 PM (13 years ago)
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After they will cry out that gals are double-dating.......just look at this one now........4 wasted yrs............

Posted: at 7-01-2011 02:15 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 7-01-2011 02:17 PM (13 years ago)
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wasted indeed
Posted: at 7-01-2011 02:17 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- xena15 at 7-01-2011 02:21 PM (13 years ago)
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@poster,na u nail ur cross,carry am go crucify urself!

Posted: at 7-01-2011 02:21 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kessybee at 7-01-2011 02:25 PM (13 years ago)
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Imagine! after 4 yrs, u jst realized u have fiancée u want 2 marry abi??? whr was d fiancée when u were flirting with frm 1-4 years or u were flirting with both of them at d same time? ah guy, na wa 4 u oooo, u b really correct bad guy. Pray 4 God 2 4give u or better still marry both of them. Gambari like u.
Posted: at 7-01-2011 02:25 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- xena15 at 7-01-2011 02:47 PM (13 years ago)
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When u don crucify urself finish,no think say u go resurrect o!

Posted: at 7-01-2011 02:47 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 7-01-2011 02:59 PM (13 years ago)
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lol, those kain peeps no dey resurrect now
Posted: at 7-01-2011 02:59 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- truenaija2 at 7-01-2011 03:09 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on  7-01-2011 01:53 PM
You must be kidding!
Didn't you hear of self control?



THANK YOU BS so annoying!!!!!
Posted: at 7-01-2011 03:09 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- do4sure at 7-01-2011 03:27 PM (13 years ago)
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IF YOU MARRY SOMEONE YOU DIDN'T LOVE YOU WILL END UP LOVING SOMEONE YOU DIDN'T MARRY.WAKE UP
Posted: at 7-01-2011 03:27 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 7-01-2011 03:28 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: truenaija2 on  7-01-2011 03:09 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  7-01-2011 01:53 PM
You must be kidding!
Didn't you hear of self control?



THANK YOU BS so annoying!!!!!



Posted: at 7-01-2011 03:28 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- xter at 7-01-2011 03:48 PM (13 years ago)
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If dem carry ur name go babalawo house now u go de shout




How u go dey kpoansh person for 4 yrs.......hmmmmmm

Posted: at 7-01-2011 03:48 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- hotguy77 at 7-01-2011 03:49 PM (13 years ago)
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You must let go of one else you will always remain in bondage
Posted: at 7-01-2011 03:49 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- desiresluv20 at 7-01-2011 03:50 PM (13 years ago)
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Peeped and confused

Posted: at 7-01-2011 03:50 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- walerian at 7-01-2011 04:09 PM (13 years ago)
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na u dey make gurls dey insult men. check am out now
u dey sleep wit person for 4 freaking yrs b4 u remember ur
fiancee. guy u get mind o! i no fit as i get mind reach.
abeg play ur game o as a gud player no advice from me lol
Posted: at 7-01-2011 04:09 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- olumbareal at 7-01-2011 04:16 PM (13 years ago)
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Guy its unfortunate you have a fiancee and you still dey parnsh your co worker for 4 solid years. Too bad. There is a saying in the west dat "weting person sabi chop na im dey kill am". Dont dig your grave by yourself. Wake up man and do the right thing, you know whom you are and what you want in life. So follow your heart.
Posted: at 7-01-2011 04:16 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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