Am depressed!!! Its affecting my relationship

Date: 07-01-2011 8:53 pm (13 years ago) | Author: sunday sunday
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A YOUNG GIRL IN HER 20s JUST STARTED A RELATIONSHIP WITH ANOTHER GUY..SHE HAVE NEVER BEEN GOOD WITH GETTING OTHERS TO COMMIT TO HER BUT,THIS PARTICULAR GUY SEEMS TO REALLY LIKE HER.HOWEVER, LIKE ALL THE OTHER GUYS HE IS FINDING OUT ABOUT HER AND HER DEPRESSION.NOW SHE DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO,IT HAS BEEN A LIFETIME WITH THESE ISSUES AND ONLY A FEW MONTHS WITH HIM.IT'S NOT LIKE SHE CAN SAY GOODBYE TO DEPRESSION AND HALLO TO HAPPINESS.SHE'S SCARED THAT THE GUY IS GOING TO LEAVE HER CAUSE HE TOLD HER THAT IT'S AFFECTING HIM CAUSE HE WANTS HER TO BE HAPPY....SHE DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO...SO PALS YOUR ADVICES WILL BE HIGHLY WELCOME COZ NOBODY KNOWS IT ALL..


Posted: at 7-01-2011 08:53 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
- bittersweet at 7-01-2011 09:02 PM (13 years ago)
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Depression does not appear without a reason!
What causes it?What's wrong in her life,exactly?

Posted: at 7-01-2011 09:02 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyin at 7-01-2011 09:04 PM (13 years ago)
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She needs to pray about it.but firstly heaven help those who help themselves.she needs to get her more involve with things and people that makes her happy.listen to more music,with good lyrics that can uplift her spirit.and whenever she's sad ,she needs to reflect back to her happy memories,maybe the ones with her friends or families.and let her spend time with kids,cos actually lil kids are very good when it comes to making sumone happy.playing with them,and just been free.and lastly she needs to open up to sumone,communication helps alot.
Posted: at 7-01-2011 09:04 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 7-01-2011 09:13 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on  7-01-2011 09:02 PM
Depression does not appear without a reason!
What causes it?What's wrong in her life,exactly?

her past was terrible,she was living one hell of a life..long story though,her step dad maltreated her so badly that any guy that comes across her, reflect her past memories....and she has try her best but to no avail   :'(

Posted: at 7-01-2011 09:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 7-01-2011 09:18 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on  7-01-2011 09:13 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  7-01-2011 09:02 PM
Depression does not appear without a reason!
What causes it?What's wrong in her life,exactly?

her past was terrible,she was living one hell of a life..long story though,her step dad maltreated her so badly that any guy that comes across her, reflect her past memories....and she has try her best but to no avail   :'(

Ohhhh!Poor girl, but still, she should try and find the strength within herself to overcome that!
It's possible, especially if she has ppl around her who would support her on that!


Posted: at 7-01-2011 09:18 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 7-01-2011 09:26 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onyin on  7-01-2011 09:04 PM
She needs to pray about it.but firstly heaven help those who help themselves.she needs to get her more involve with things and people that makes her happy.listen to more music,with good lyrics that can uplift her spirit.and whenever she's sad ,she needs to reflect back to her happy memories,maybe the ones with her friends or families.and let her spend time with kids,cos actually lil kids are very good when it comes to making sumone happy.playing with them,and just been free.and lastly she needs to open up to sumone,communication helps alot.
communication & good music are a great points,but talking about reflect to her past happy memories,she didn't had any.her pass was a hell coz she lost her dad when she was 2.so is very sad but, she is willing to learn how to over come this mess.

Posted: at 7-01-2011 09:26 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 7-01-2011 09:29 PM (13 years ago)
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Hmm dis is sad... I guess the first step she has to take is to agree within herself

to let it go.... only if she can do dat, she can move on....
Posted: at 7-01-2011 09:29 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dirtykid at 7-01-2011 09:30 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on  7-01-2011 08:53 PM
A YOUNG GIRL IN HER 20s JUST STARTED A RELATIONSHIP WITH ANOTHER GUY..SHE HAVE NEVER BEEN GOOD WITH GETTING OTHERS TO COMMIT TO HER BUT,THIS PARTICULAR GUY SEEMS TO REALLY LIKE HER.HOWEVER, LIKE ALL THE OTHER GUYS HE IS FINDING OUT ABOUT HER AND HER DEPRESSION.NOW SHE DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO,IT HAS BEEN A LIFETIME WITH THESE ISSUES AND ONLY A FEW MONTHS WITH HIM.IT'S NOT LIKE SHE CAN SAY GOODBYE TO DEPRESSION AND HALLO TO HAPPINESS.SHE'S SCARED THAT THE GUY IS GOING TO LEAVE HER CAUSE HE TOLD HER THAT IT'S AFFECTING HIM CAUSE HE WANTS HER TO BE HAPPY....SHE DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO...SO PALS YOUR ADVICES WILL BE HIGHLY WELCOME COZ NOBODY KNOWS IT ALL..

She should first drop her depression life somewhere and face try a new thing that will bring her happiness. at age 20yrs, she should try and give up whatever is causing her depressions. without that, the guy will leave for sure and her depression will add little percent on the one she got before.

Advise her to go for rehab about depression, Maybe it will help her.

Posted: at 7-01-2011 09:30 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 7-01-2011 09:32 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on  7-01-2011 09:13 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  7-01-2011 09:02 PM
Depression does not appear without a reason!
What causes it?What's wrong in her life,exactly?

her past was terrible,she was living one hell of a life..long story though,her step dad maltreated her so badly that any guy that comes across her, reflect her past memories....and she has try her best but to no avail   :'(

AM NOT IN A HURRY.................................B4 I COMMENT

Posted: at 7-01-2011 09:32 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 7-01-2011 09:33 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on  7-01-2011 09:18 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on  7-01-2011 09:13 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  7-01-2011 09:02 PM
Depression does not appear without a reason!
What causes it?What's wrong in her life,exactly?

her past was terrible,she was living one hell of a life..long story though,her step dad maltreated her so badly that any guy that comes across her, reflect her past memories....and she has try her best but to no avail   :'(

Ohhhh!Poor girl, but still, she should try and find the strength within herself to overcome that!
It's possible, especially if she has ppl around her who would support her on that!


you're right though,i did advice her to appreciate life as it is.coz no body knows when he/her life could end..she need to cherish the slightest things in life.by doing so she will be happy.

Posted: at 7-01-2011 09:33 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 7-01-2011 09:38 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  7-01-2011 09:30 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on  7-01-2011 08:53 PM
A YOUNG GIRL IN HER 20s JUST STARTED A RELATIONSHIP WITH ANOTHER GUY..SHE HAVE NEVER BEEN GOOD WITH GETTING OTHERS TO COMMIT TO HER BUT,THIS PARTICULAR GUY SEEMS TO REALLY LIKE HER.HOWEVER, LIKE ALL THE OTHER GUYS HE IS FINDING OUT ABOUT HER AND HER DEPRESSION.NOW SHE DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO,IT HAS BEEN A LIFETIME WITH THESE ISSUES AND ONLY A FEW MONTHS WITH HIM.IT'S NOT LIKE SHE CAN SAY GOODBYE TO DEPRESSION AND HALLO TO HAPPINESS.SHE'S SCARED THAT THE GUY IS GOING TO LEAVE HER CAUSE HE TOLD HER THAT IT'S AFFECTING HIM CAUSE HE WANTS HER TO BE HAPPY....SHE DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO...SO PALS YOUR ADVICES WILL BE HIGHLY WELCOME COZ NOBODY KNOWS IT ALL..

She should first drop her depression life somewhere and face try a new thing that will bring her happiness. at age 20yrs, she should try and give up whatever is causing her depressions. without that, the guy will leave for sure and her depression will add little percent on the one she got before.

Advise her to go for rehab about depression, Maybe it will help her.
rehab?very good idea.she is 24years old, not that she don't want to  drop her depression according to her.just that she can't get over it by her own self,do to her past was horrible.she haven't seen happiness since she was 2years old after she lost her father

Posted: at 7-01-2011 09:38 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 7-01-2011 09:41 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on  7-01-2011 09:33 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  7-01-2011 09:18 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on  7-01-2011 09:13 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  7-01-2011 09:02 PM
Depression does not appear without a reason!
What causes it?What's wrong in her life,exactly?

her past was terrible,she was living one hell of a life..long story though,her step dad maltreated her so badly that any guy that comes across her, reflect her past memories....and she has try her best but to no avail   :'(

Ohhhh!Poor girl, but still, she should try and find the strength within herself to overcome that!
It's possible, especially if she has ppl around her who would support her on that!


you're right though,i did advice her to appreciate life as it is.coz no body knows when he/her life could end..she need to cherish the slightest things in life.by doing so she will be happy.

Yeah, exactly!
Staying and sinking herself in those memories will only worsen the situation!
The problem is that she should realize that by herself,or to be helped to,by ppl she trusts, otherwise the problem will remain there!
Taking things as they come, and appreciating the small things in life,are making the difference!
We must look at life through the windshield, not the rear-view mirror!


Posted: at 7-01-2011 09:41 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 7-01-2011 09:43 PM (13 years ago)
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BS, well said! But before she can do all of that, is she sure she is ready for it....
Posted: at 7-01-2011 09:43 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 7-01-2011 09:44 PM (13 years ago)
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CAN SOMEONE BRIEF ME A LIL I CANT FIND MA GLASSES

Posted: at 7-01-2011 09:44 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 7-01-2011 09:44 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on  7-01-2011 09:43 PM
BS, well said! But before she can do all of that, is she sure she is ready for it....

She MUST!
There's no other option!

Posted: at 7-01-2011 09:44 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 7-01-2011 09:46 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on  7-01-2011 09:32 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on  7-01-2011 09:13 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  7-01-2011 09:02 PM
Depression does not appear without a reason!
What causes it?What's wrong in her life,exactly?

her past was terrible,she was living one hell of a life..long story though,her step dad maltreated her so badly that any guy that comes across her, reflect her past memories....and she has try her best but to no avail   :'(

AM NOT IN A HURRY.................................B4 I COMMENT
i'll be waiting

Posted: at 7-01-2011 09:46 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 7-01-2011 09:47 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on  7-01-2011 09:44 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on  7-01-2011 09:43 PM
BS, well said! But before she can do all of that, is she sure she is ready for it....

She MUST!
There's no other option!

I knw she must and she knows it too, but to realy come in peace with urself and ur past is not always easy!
Posted: at 7-01-2011 09:47 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onyin at 7-01-2011 09:49 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on  7-01-2011 09:26 PM
Quote from: onyin on  7-01-2011 09:04 PM
She needs to pray about it.but firstly heaven help those who help themselves.she needs to get her more involve with things and people that makes her happy.listen to more music,with good lyrics that can uplift her spirit.and whenever she's sad ,she needs to reflect back to her happy memories,maybe the ones with her friends or families.and let her spend time with kids,cos actually lil kids are very good when it comes to making sumone happy.playing with them,and just been free.and lastly she needs to open up to sumone,communication helps alot.
communication & good music are a great points,but talking about reflect to her past happy memories,she didn't had any.her pass was a hell coz she lost her dad when she was 2.so is very sad but, she is willing to learn how to over come this mess.
I feel for her.but only her can make things work.she's lucky to have a good man by her side.everyone has a past,we all have different past.but wat really matters most,is the future.
Posted: at 7-01-2011 09:49 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 7-01-2011 09:49 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on  7-01-2011 09:29 PM
Hmm dis is sad... I guess the first step she has to take is to agree within herself

to let it go.... only if she can do dat, she can move on....

she is trying but the memories is like a virus.i think it's high time for her  to visit the pro.

Posted: at 7-01-2011 09:49 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 7-01-2011 09:50 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on  7-01-2011 09:46 PM
Quote from: kebella on  7-01-2011 09:32 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on  7-01-2011 09:13 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on  7-01-2011 09:02 PM
Depression does not appear without a reason!
What causes it?What's wrong in her life,exactly?

her past was terrible,she was living one hell of a life..long story though,her step dad maltreated her so badly that any guy that comes across her, reflect her past memories....and she has try her best but to no avail   :'(

AM NOT IN A HURRY.................................B4 I COMMENT
i'll be waiting

I WANT TO HEAR ERY BIT OF D SORI  Smiley Smiley

Posted: at 7-01-2011 09:50 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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