Am just thinking out loud and wish I can get some answers... Everyday you hear about people planning to even scores with someone who ended up not marrying them. Some are genuine cases, others are more of unreasonable expectations. Tell me pals, is marriage the ultimate goal of a relationship?
Posted: at 20-01-2011 08:41 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 20-01-2011 08:55 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: bhl72 on 20-01-2011 08:41 AM
Am just thinking out loud and wish I can get some answers... Everyday you hear about people planning to even scores with someone who ended up not marrying them. Some are genuine cases, others are more of unreasonable expectations. Tell me pals, is marriage the ultimate goal of a relationship?
Not always! Depends on many factors and of ppl involved in it! Rare are cases when those 2 find each other from the first attempt!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 20-01-2011 08:55 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
Its depends,if wat its a serious relationship i will say yes.but if its not sumthing serious,then i will say no.
then is it that one must always expect marriage when a rltnship has lasted for a while?
yes,mostly if that's wat the other person wants.and if no signs of marriage after all those years,then i guess its high time to try the person next door.my point is if anyone thinks they deserve more, than they should go grab it and not settle for less.
Posted: at 20-01-2011 08:59 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
Am just thinking out loud and wish I can get some answers... Everyday you hear about people planning to even scores with someone who ended up not marrying them. Some are genuine cases, others are more of unreasonable expectations. Tell me pals, is marriage the ultimate goal of a relationship?
Not always! Depends on many factors and of ppl involved in it! Rare are cases when those 2 find each other from the first attempt!
I agree that when you both enjoy your relationship, marriage should naturally come for cementing of that union
Posted: at 20-01-2011 09:01 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Its depends,if wat its a serious relationship i will say yes.but if its not sumthing serious,then i will say no.
then is it that one must always expect marriage when a rltnship has lasted for a while?
yes,mostly if that's wat the other person wants.and if no signs of marriage after all those years,then i guess its high time to try the person next door.my point is if anyone thinks they deserve more, than they should go grab it and not settle for less.
and when you try the person next door, do you hold any grudges against your ex? because that is a part of this discussion...
Posted: at 20-01-2011 09:02 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
adams933 at 20-01-2011 09:07 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Marriage has taken over love in this era we are today, if you want to toast a lady don't even bring the issue of love cuz you'll be damned, but by the time you start by saying "I WILL LIKE TO HAVE YOU AS A WIFE" then you'll have love.
Posted: at 20-01-2011 09:07 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Its depends,if wat its a serious relationship i will say yes.but if its not sumthing serious,then i will say no.
then is it that one must always expect marriage when a rltnship has lasted for a while?
yes,mostly if that's wat the other person wants.and if no signs of marriage after all those years,then i guess its high time to try the person next door.my point is if anyone thinks they deserve more, than they should go grab it and not settle for less.
and when you try the person next door, do you hold any grudges against your ex? because that is a part of this discussion...
hmmm it depends.i mean if they both ended everything in good terms or bad terms.but if its just becos the other person wants marriage or wants more ,then i think there is no need for grudges.unless the other person is mad at him/her for leaving.
Posted: at 20-01-2011 09:10 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 20-01-2011 09:11 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: bhl72 on 20-01-2011 09:01 AM
Quote from: Pepesy on 20-01-2011 08:56 AM
Smhow yes especially on d side of a woman
you think women are that drawn out?
Quote from: bittersweet on 20-01-2011 08:55 AM
Quote from: bhl72 on 20-01-2011 08:41 AM
Am just thinking out loud and wish I can get some answers... Everyday you hear about people planning to even scores with someone who ended up not marrying them. Some are genuine cases, others are more of unreasonable expectations. Tell me pals, is marriage the ultimate goal of a relationship?
Not always! Depends on many factors and of ppl involved in it! Rare are cases when those 2 find each other from the first attempt!
I agree that when you both enjoy your relationship, marriage should naturally come for cementing of that union
Yes!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 20-01-2011 09:11 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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