How My Ex Ruined My Life After I Called Off Our Engagement - Nigerian Lady Shares Sad Story

Date: 29-09-2023 11:22 am (1 year ago) | Author: Bayo Nelson
- at 29-09-2023 11:22 AM (1 year ago)
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A Nigerian lady, Chichi has taken to Twitter to narrate the heartbreaking story how her ex-boyfriend ruined her life. She revealed that back in 2018, she was running a thriving bar/restaurant business when she lost everything by a strange fire after calling off her engagement.
 
She wrote:
 
This picture … this was in 2018, I was running my own bar/restaurant, had my own car , started building my own house (was roofing it at the time I took this
 picture)

Then I met Jeff, he was my engineer.  A cute one When ever I went to my site, he’d always look for a way to deviate from the real issues to start telling me how humble I was and how beautiful I looked. He’d always say we we were going to make  a beautiful couple lol

Initially, I would always try to shove it off but somehow I eventually gave in… I was very much single at the time though. So I thought I should give him a chance. 

Everything  was going on well , the house was completed, I moved in, fast forward 2019 December he proposed, I accepted.

We had issues with whose house we’d live in after marriage…mine or his…lol . He was living in a 1 bedroom apartment as a tenant at the time but I  had my own house “a 4bed bungalow” where we wouldn’t bother about paying rent But he said he’d never move in with me and of course i would never leave my house to go start paying rent for Christ’s sake.

I called off the engagement since we weren’t agreeing with each other…he didn’t see it coming though…a week after I called off the engagement, he called me on phone and said I quote “I will deal with you for disgracing me like this” . I was like how on earth is calling off an engagement a disgrace??? How?  He said he had said what he said. I didn’t take his threat seriously though…I went about my business

On the 15th of June 2020, (a day I’d never forget)  I had travelled out of town to celebrate my birthday that was coming up on the 18th of June.  Very early morning of 15th June 2020, I got a call from a man who lived opposite my house that my house was burning , I screamed “how?Huh??”   I  cried and begged him to help me do something, call the fire service or something  the fire service guys arrived after my house had completely burnt down . 

At about 4pm the same day, I picked a call from an unknown number, it was Jeff, my ex’s voice , he said “I told you I’d deal with you” and he hung up . I was shocked , confused and speechless at the same time.  The following day, I hurriedly made my way back to my base, I went to the police and wrote a petition against my ex,  i told them it was him who burnt my house. he was brought in for questioning but I had nothing to proof he was the anonymous caller. But I was sure it was him but I couldn’t proof it. He was set free cos I had no case against him.

A week later, my bar/restaurant also got burnt down lol it happened like magic. No body knew where the fire came from . Everything happened very fast. I went into depression. I almost committed su¡c¡d£. Until this day , I still believe strongly it was done by my ex . But of course, I have no proof lmao  I couldn’t deal with the whole thing, I sold my car, and moved to Lagos so I could stay very far away from that d€v¡l.  Ever since then, whenever someone tell me “I’ll deal with you” , I never take it lightly


Posted: at 29-09-2023 11:22 AM (1 year ago) | Addicted Hero
- gogoman at 29-09-2023 12:49 PM (1 year ago)
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Good man!!!  women be warned!!! stop toying with men's heart   Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 29-09-2023 12:49 PM (1 year ago) | Grande Master
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