Sex-Staved Husband MFM Pastor Seeks Divorce (Page 2)

Date: 03-02-2011 5:32 pm (11 years ago) | Author: Daniel Bosai
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- nowahala at 3-02-2011 10:01 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: toffee2love on  3-02-2011 08:57 PM
Oh God of mercy allow not ur children to face d temptation that is higher than our faith......may God see dis pastor through this tough time  Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes And to us guy let us pray weller be4 going to alter with anything in skirt...many of dem are too dangerous even than snake.....pray so that u will not pray :'( :'( :'(
Amen! this is a trying time for this pastor.Its not easy for a man to be alone
Posted: at 3-02-2011 10:01 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- Pointzero at 3-02-2011 10:04 PM (11 years ago)
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i couldnt read d post cos is too long.............but judging 4rm the comments...............i dnt think there is any issue 2 drag about......the pastor deserves d divorce......

Posted: at 3-02-2011 10:04 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- nowahala at 3-02-2011 10:06 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: seungbadebo on  3-02-2011 09:44 PM
the children of God are d one most susceptible to temptations and cruelty of dis world...sometimes it may look like we dont have a father in heaven bt i believe in everytin in life that God can do, there is one thing He wont do...A MISTAKE. i pray that God shld help dis family scale tru their tym of test so they will end up with testimonies.(amen)
Nice comment my dear.this can happen to anyone
Posted: at 3-02-2011 10:06 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- nowahala at 3-02-2011 10:09 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: Pointzero on  3-02-2011 10:04 PM
i couldnt read d post cos is too long.............but judging 4rm the comments...............i dnt think there is any issue 2 drag about......the pastor deserves d divorce......
Gbam
Posted: at 3-02-2011 10:09 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- betty55 at 3-02-2011 10:10 PM (11 years ago)
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l think some people here just read headlines and not the whole story b4 commenting.the woman left him he went publicly to beg her to come back.why blaming him.the woman should have know as a pastor.s wife that with or wothout children their marriage should still stand.but it seems to me that she is an unbeleiver and if she is the pastor should let her go.insuch case he is not in bondage so say the bible.is a pity sha 12yrs of marrige no easy o.
Posted: at 3-02-2011 10:10 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bafyguy at 3-02-2011 10:15 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: proxyla1167 on  3-02-2011 08:53 PM
is he realy a pastor? im afraid he isnt.

What do u mean? The wife has already moved out of their matrimonial home.
Posted: at 3-02-2011 10:15 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- seungbadebo at 3-02-2011 10:30 PM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: nowahala on  3-02-2011 10:06 PM
Quote from: seungbadebo on  3-02-2011 09:44 PM
the children of God are d one most susceptible to temptations and cruelty of dis world...sometimes it may look like we dont have a father in heaven bt i believe in everytin in life that God can do, there is one thing He wont do...A MISTAKE. i pray that God shld help dis family scale tru their tym of test so they will end up with testimonies.(amen)
Nice comment my dear.this can happen to anyone
thank u very much. there are pple here who dont read posts b4 commenting...very annoying
Posted: at 3-02-2011 10:30 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kita at 3-02-2011 10:41 PM (11 years ago)
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he is trying to cast blame on the woman, and is painting himself white... maybe he has gotten some one pregnant and so wish to divorce his wife! what a shame and why go to court and not to thier G. O for setlement
Posted: at 3-02-2011 10:41 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- larryjones1962 at 3-02-2011 10:59 PM (11 years ago)
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i dont really understand what some people are saying on this blog, if these man is a man of GOD  dose it mean that he is not an human being,please let us all reason together,this guy siad he beg his wife,and she insiest that they should go on there seperate ways,dose that mean we should  be blaming him on what he did.GOD have mercy.
Posted: at 3-02-2011 10:59 PM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- harold634 at 3-02-2011 11:05 PM (11 years ago)
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The pastor wife lack faith in GOD. The pastor should seek GOD answer to solve his problem. GOD did not create any body to be barren or infetile. i believe something spiritual is wrong among them that need GOD immediate solution.
Posted: at 3-02-2011 11:05 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ajanni at 3-02-2011 11:33 PM (11 years ago)
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false,
the tori too short rather Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 3-02-2011 11:33 PM (11 years ago) | Grande Master
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- williams100 at 3-02-2011 11:35 PM (11 years ago)
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this is ophobious,GOD HAVE MERCY ON YOUR CHILDREN.HOPE SAY BOTH PARTIES HAND CLEAN FROM THE PAST BECAUSE WE NEVER CAN TELL.THE PAST MOST TIMES IF NOT ALL THE TIME TEND TO TERMINATE THE PRESENT AND ANNIHILATE THE FUTURE..ANY WAY THE PASTOR SHOULD SEEK THE FACE OF GOD....
Posted: at 3-02-2011 11:35 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- donuche at 3-02-2011 11:41 PM (11 years ago)
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the pastor is right for seeking for divorce if the wife refuses him sex. there is no compromising the fact that sex is also part of and rubricant that keeps marriage going weather a pastor or no pastor
Posted: at 3-02-2011 11:41 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Allen-jones at 4-02-2011 01:10 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: kita on  3-02-2011 10:41 PM
he is trying to cast blame on the woman, and is painting himself white... maybe he has gotten some one pregnant and so wish to divorce his wife! what a shame and why go to court and not to thier G. O for setlement

Are you making up story for the woman? Pastor is a human being before his professional calling! He has feelings like everyone. He is not a celibate. So, don't add to the story!
Posted: at 4-02-2011 01:10 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- brainline at 4-02-2011 01:16 AM (11 years ago)
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it's only God dat knws wht is wrng.... :'(
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- tonydelove at 4-02-2011 02:11 AM (11 years ago)
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May the good lord be with this pastor, He is passing through a difficult time. It's really better to divorce the woman than committing adultery. The woman has moved out of the matrimonial home which indicates that she has given up with the marriage. My dear pastor God will surely see you thru
Posted: at 4-02-2011 02:11 AM (11 years ago) | Newbie
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- truthisbitter at 4-02-2011 02:25 AM (11 years ago)
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I THOUGHT THINGS LIKE THIS ARE SUPPOSED TO BE SETTLED BY THE CHURCH............STRANGE............THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO BE ROLE MODELS TO SINNERS LIKE ME
Posted: at 4-02-2011 02:25 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kenyawest at 4-02-2011 02:47 AM (11 years ago)
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The woman is a good person.   Wink

One of the pastors major complaint to the magistrate is that he has been married to his wife for 12 years and no children was produced from this marriage. 

The pastor complained that the wife has fibroid and that has completely changed her as a person.  He self-diagnosed his wife claiming that the fibroid has caused her to be aggressive, hostile, confrontational and lacked interest in sex.

He then complained that his wife had abandoned him and moved out of their matrimonial home.

He explained that he went to his wife's office to beg her to return back because God can still perform a miracle.

He also claimed that his wife told him that God has asked her to seek to have a child elsewhere.  The wife must obey God, but I doubt if she heard from God because God hates divorce.  There is no discussion as to whether attempts were made to remove the fibroids.  He only mentioned IVF.  What type of quack doctor did IVF without first checking for fibroids and cysts?  Did the fibroids come later?

The magistrate has asked them to return in March 2011 so that he can hear his wife's defence and cross-examination of the complainant and wife.

The man has acknowledged that his wife was sick and that her personality had changed.  Patience is needed here by the pastor.  In sickness and in health.

The wife on the other hand may have accepted her fate that she may not be able to bear children for the man.  She may be under a great deal of pressure from the pastor's family to leave especially when he travelled.  She may love her husband too much that she has decided to sacrifice herself and her marriage in order to bring peace in the family.

She is quite aware that the end result will be divorce so that her husband can marry somebody that could give him children.  This is sacrifice at its highest order.



I will like to wait to hear the wife's explanations before I can make my comments. 

Posted: at 4-02-2011 02:47 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kenyawest at 4-02-2011 03:11 AM (11 years ago)
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Quote from: gel7 on  4-02-2011 03:08 AM
For crying out loud,he is human and not God.For him to fornicate,it is better for him 2 divorce and re-marry.You can imagine the mental trauma he must be going tru!!
He needs to learn how to control himself for crying out loud.
Posted: at 4-02-2011 03:11 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- emydaddy at 4-02-2011 03:30 AM (11 years ago)
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I PRAY FOR THEIR RECONCILIATION, MAY GOD RESTORE PEACE BETWEEN THIS COUPLES. 
Posted: at 4-02-2011 03:30 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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