CAN SOMEONE HELP OUT?

Published 8 years ago by: Emmanuel Tawah
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at 09:03 AM, 4/02/2011 (8 years ago)

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" I love him so much. He is very good, hardworking and caring. I have been married for fifteen years. No child. He hasn't got a child also and loves children with the greatest of passions. We have been for medical check up and he hasn't any problem but I once aborted which shattered my chances of becoming pregnant. I have asked him to make a baby with any woman of his choice but he says NO! I am worried and thinking of divorce so he can have his greatest joy of becoming a father"
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These are the words a lady tearfully told me during counselling and all my attempts to make her change her mind have produced no positive results. Can someone help me?

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Treasure2 at 09:08 AM, 4/02/2011 (8 years ago)
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There is nothing impossible before God. The lady should believe in God for her miracle child and for divorce, she should not try it bc the man love her so much.
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bittersweet at 09:10 AM, 4/02/2011 (8 years ago)
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Hmmmm!That man really loves her,and she also loves him till the point that she's willing to sacrifice her love!
That's very difficult!
Surrogacy could be an option for that couple! An arrangement in which a woman carries and delivers a child for them. She may be the child's genetic mother (the more traditional form of surrogacy), or she may carry the pregnancy to delivery after having an embryo with another female's genetics transferred to her uterus.

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PreetyInstinct at 09:15 AM, 4/02/2011 (8 years ago)
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Mscheww, y didn't she know that before marrying him?!!

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Emmandazie at 09:16 AM, 4/02/2011 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 09:10 AM,  4/02/2011
Hmmmm!That man really loves her,and she also loves him till the point that she's willing to sacrifice her love!
That's very difficult!
Surrogacy could be an option for that couple! An arrangement in which a woman carries and delivers a child for them. She may be the child's genetic mother (the more traditional form of surrogacy), or she may carry the pregnancy to delivery after having an embryo with another female's genetics transferred to her uterus.


Very good, thanks and noted, but I do not think their financial stand can permit them carryout that.
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bittersweet at 09:30 AM, 4/02/2011 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: Emmandazie on 09:16 AM,  4/02/2011
Quote from: bittersweet on 09:10 AM,  4/02/2011
Hmmmm!That man really loves her,and she also loves him till the point that she's willing to sacrifice her love!
That's very difficult!
Surrogacy could be an option for that couple! An arrangement in which a woman carries and delivers a child for them. She may be the child's genetic mother (the more traditional form of surrogacy), or she may carry the pregnancy to delivery after having an embryo with another female's genetics transferred to her uterus.


Very good, thanks and noted, but I do not think their financial stand can permit them carryout that.

You're welcome!
It seems that a baby will save their marriage, so I think it worth to try their best to have it!
A loan,something, I'm sure that there will be a possibility if they really want!
 Where there's a will there's a way

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Emmandazie at 09:36 AM, 4/02/2011 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: PreetyInstinct on 09:15 AM,  4/02/2011
Mscheww, y didn't she know that before marrying him?!!

Ofcourse, little did she know it was going to lead to this, I suppose.
You see, one needs to avoid raising heart breaking experiences during couselling especially someone who is as repentant and sorry for what she did as this lady in question!
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chiglamour4u at 09:48 AM, 4/02/2011 (8 years ago)
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serious matters
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Pepesy at 10:03 AM, 4/02/2011 (8 years ago)
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eh yah! should she pray hard and blv in God, with God all things re possible. hw u doing dear?
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kebella at 10:08 AM, 4/02/2011 (8 years ago)
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THERE WIL BE NO BARREN WOMAN AMONG D CHILDREN OF GOD

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xena15 at 10:49 AM, 4/02/2011 (8 years ago)
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Ah!
'PASTOR KEBELLA'
Amen o!

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sixtyhoneyy at 10:52 AM, 4/02/2011 (8 years ago)
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hmmm no comment
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ILOVEIT at 11:05 AM, 4/02/2011 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 09:10 AM,  4/02/2011
Hmmmm!That man really loves her,and she also loves him till the point that she's willing to sacrifice her love!
That's very difficult!
Surrogacy could be an option for that couple! An arrangement in which a woman carries and delivers a child for them. She may be the child's genetic mother (the more traditional form of surrogacy), or she may carry the pregnancy to delivery after having an embryo with another female's genetics transferred to her uterus.

very good [email protected] addition,if they can't afford it.they should continue seeking the presence of GOD Almighty.with Him all things are possible for those that believe...

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dirtykid at 11:10 AM, 4/02/2011 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: Emmandazie on 09:03 AM,  4/02/2011
" I love him so much. He is very good, hardworking and caring. I have been married for fifteen years. No child. He hasn't got a child also and loves children with the greatest of passions. We have been for medical check up and he hasn't any problem but I once aborted which shattered my chances of becoming pregnant. I have asked him to make a baby with any woman of his choice but he says NO! I am worried and thinking of divorce so he can have his greatest joy of becoming a father"
.

These are the words a lady tearfully told me during counselling and all my attempts to make her change her mind have produced no positive results. Can someone help me?

Tough cross to bear !!

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kebella at 11:10 AM, 4/02/2011 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: xena15 on 10:49 AM,  4/02/2011
Ah!
'PASTOR KEBELLA'
Amen o!

LOL XENA WE YU GO HIDE ............

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bittersweet at 11:36 AM, 4/02/2011 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on 11:05 AM,  4/02/2011
Quote from: bittersweet on 09:10 AM,  4/02/2011
Hmmmm!That man really loves her,and she also loves him till the point that she's willing to sacrifice her love!
That's very difficult!
Surrogacy could be an option for that couple! An arrangement in which a woman carries and delivers a child for them. She may be the child's genetic mother (the more traditional form of surrogacy), or she may carry the pregnancy to delivery after having an embryo with another female's genetics transferred to her uterus.

very good [email protected] addition,if they can't afford it.they should continue seeking the presence of GOD Almighty.with Him all things are possible for those that believe...

 Wink Cool

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ILOVEIT at 11:41 AM, 4/02/2011 (8 years ago)
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 Cool Cool Cool

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justloveme at 11:55 AM, 4/02/2011 (8 years ago)
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american president adopted a girl,  bill cliton and God gave them presidency. y not do same.

enjoy what  life has to offer.  that is what God wants for yu
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divineproject at 12:13 PM, 4/02/2011 (8 years ago)
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The solution is not divorce, if they cant have theirs presently, they could adopt and who knows, God could hear their prayers and give them theirs.......

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sophiebaby at 12:15 PM, 4/02/2011 (8 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 09:08 AM,  4/02/2011
There is nothing impossible before God. The lady should believe in God for her miracle child and for divorce, she should not try it bc the man love her so much.

seconded

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