CAN SOMEONE HELP OUT?

9 years ago by: Emmanuel Tawah
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-- (m) at 4-02-2011 09:03AM

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" I love him so much. He is very good, hardworking and caring. I have been married for fifteen years. No child. He hasn't got a child also and loves children with the greatest of passions. We have been for medical check up and he hasn't any problem but I once aborted which shattered my chances of becoming pregnant. I have asked him to make a baby with any woman of his choice but he says NO! I am worried and thinking of divorce so he can have his greatest joy of becoming a father"
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These are the words a lady tearfully told me during counselling and all my attempts to make her change her mind have produced no positive results. Can someone help me?


-- Treasure2 (f) at 4-02-2011 09:08AM
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There is nothing impossible before God. The lady should believe in God for her miracle child and for divorce, she should not try it bc the man love her so much.
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-- bittersweet (f) at 4-02-2011 09:10AM
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Hmmmm!That man really loves her,and she also loves him till the point that she's willing to sacrifice her love!
That's very difficult!
Surrogacy could be an option for that couple! An arrangement in which a woman carries and delivers a child for them. She may be the child's genetic mother (the more traditional form of surrogacy), or she may carry the pregnancy to delivery after having an embryo with another female's genetics transferred to her uterus.

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-- PreetyInstinct (f) at 4-02-2011 09:15AM
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Mscheww, y didn't she know that before marrying him?!!

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-- Emmandazie (m) at 4-02-2011 09:16AM
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Quote from: bittersweet on  4-02-2011 09:10AM
Hmmmm!That man really loves her,and she also loves him till the point that she's willing to sacrifice her love!
That's very difficult!
Surrogacy could be an option for that couple! An arrangement in which a woman carries and delivers a child for them. She may be the child's genetic mother (the more traditional form of surrogacy), or she may carry the pregnancy to delivery after having an embryo with another female's genetics transferred to her uterus.


Very good, thanks and noted, but I do not think their financial stand can permit them carryout that.
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-- bittersweet (f) at 4-02-2011 09:30AM
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Quote from: Emmandazie on  4-02-2011 09:16AM
Quote from: bittersweet on  4-02-2011 09:10AM
Hmmmm!That man really loves her,and she also loves him till the point that she's willing to sacrifice her love!
That's very difficult!
Surrogacy could be an option for that couple! An arrangement in which a woman carries and delivers a child for them. She may be the child's genetic mother (the more traditional form of surrogacy), or she may carry the pregnancy to delivery after having an embryo with another female's genetics transferred to her uterus.


Very good, thanks and noted, but I do not think their financial stand can permit them carryout that.

You're welcome!
It seems that a baby will save their marriage, so I think it worth to try their best to have it!
A loan,something, I'm sure that there will be a possibility if they really want!
 Where there's a will there's a way

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-- Emmandazie (m) at 4-02-2011 09:36AM
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Quote from: PreetyInstinct on  4-02-2011 09:15AM
Mscheww, y didn't she know that before marrying him?!!

Ofcourse, little did she know it was going to lead to this, I suppose.
You see, one needs to avoid raising heart breaking experiences during couselling especially someone who is as repentant and sorry for what she did as this lady in question!
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-- chiglamour4u (f) at 4-02-2011 09:48AM
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serious matters
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-- Pepesy (f) at 4-02-2011 10:03AM
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eh yah! should she pray hard and blv in God, with God all things re possible. hw u doing dear?
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-- kebella (f) at 4-02-2011 10:08AM
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THERE WIL BE NO BARREN WOMAN AMONG D CHILDREN OF GOD

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-- xena15 (f) at 4-02-2011 10:49AM
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Ah!
'PASTOR KEBELLA'
Amen o!

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-- sixtyhoneyy (f) at 4-02-2011 10:52AM
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hmmm no comment
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-- ILOVEIT (m) at 4-02-2011 11:05AM
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Quote from: bittersweet on  4-02-2011 09:10AM
Hmmmm!That man really loves her,and she also loves him till the point that she's willing to sacrifice her love!
That's very difficult!
Surrogacy could be an option for that couple! An arrangement in which a woman carries and delivers a child for them. She may be the child's genetic mother (the more traditional form of surrogacy), or she may carry the pregnancy to delivery after having an embryo with another female's genetics transferred to her uterus.

very good [email protected] addition,if they can't afford it.they should continue seeking the presence of GOD Almighty.with Him all things are possible for those that believe...

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-- dirtykid (m) at 4-02-2011 11:10AM
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Quote from: Emmandazie on  4-02-2011 09:03AM
" I love him so much. He is very good, hardworking and caring. I have been married for fifteen years. No child. He hasn't got a child also and loves children with the greatest of passions. We have been for medical check up and he hasn't any problem but I once aborted which shattered my chances of becoming pregnant. I have asked him to make a baby with any woman of his choice but he says NO! I am worried and thinking of divorce so he can have his greatest joy of becoming a father"
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These are the words a lady tearfully told me during counselling and all my attempts to make her change her mind have produced no positive results. Can someone help me?

Tough cross to bear !!

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-- kebella (f) at 4-02-2011 11:10AM
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Quote from: xena15 on  4-02-2011 10:49AM
Ah!
'PASTOR KEBELLA'
Amen o!

LOL XENA WE YU GO HIDE ............

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-- bittersweet (f) at 4-02-2011 11:36AM
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on  4-02-2011 11:05AM
Quote from: bittersweet on  4-02-2011 09:10AM
Hmmmm!That man really loves her,and she also loves him till the point that she's willing to sacrifice her love!
That's very difficult!
Surrogacy could be an option for that couple! An arrangement in which a woman carries and delivers a child for them. She may be the child's genetic mother (the more traditional form of surrogacy), or she may carry the pregnancy to delivery after having an embryo with another female's genetics transferred to her uterus.

very good [email protected] addition,if they can't afford it.they should continue seeking the presence of GOD Almighty.with Him all things are possible for those that believe...

 Wink Cool

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-- ILOVEIT (m) at 4-02-2011 11:41AM
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 Cool Cool Cool

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-- justloveme (m) at 4-02-2011 11:55AM
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american president adopted a girl,  bill cliton and God gave them presidency. y not do same.

enjoy what  life has to offer.  that is what God wants for yu
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-- divineproject (f) at 4-02-2011 12:13PM
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The solution is not divorce, if they cant have theirs presently, they could adopt and who knows, God could hear their prayers and give them theirs.......

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-- sophiebaby (f) at 4-02-2011 12:15PM
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Quote from: Treasure2 on  4-02-2011 09:08AM
There is nothing impossible before God. The lady should believe in God for her miracle child and for divorce, she should not try it bc the man love her so much.

seconded

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