DNA: If The Children Are Not Yours And They Are Grown, Continue With The Relationship - Lady

Date: 29-05-2024 10:14 am (8 months ago) | Author: Bayo Nelson
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A Nigerian woman has offered advice to men who have discovered that their children aren't theirs after conducting a DNA test. She urged them to continue to perform their fatherly duties and sort things out with their wives privately.  In a post shared on her X handle, the UK-based Nigerian lady said men should learn to keep information of a paternity fraud away from the affected children. According to her, the kids have known such men as their fathers and it will be traumatizing when such men turn against them after a DNA test.

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’If you ever find out your kids aren't yours, I think you should keep such information away from those kids and continue your fatherly duty. These kids grew up knowing you as their father, now imagine how traumatizing it would be for the kids when you boldly face them to tell them you're not their father or call them ba$tard. You can divorce your wife or something but do not involve the innocent kids, give them other reason why you're divorcing. A child should never find out you are not the father especially a grown up one, you're basically destr0ying that child's life by doing so. It's the mother who faulted not the innocent kid.

After fathering a child for so many years and you later find out they not yours, you should continue with the relationship, sort things out with your wife privately and move on with your family. An exception to this is only if you detected when the child is still a toddler'.


Posted: at 29-05-2024 10:14 AM (8 months ago) | Addicted Hero
- gogoman at 29-05-2024 10:54 AM (8 months ago)
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let it happen first!! when they use a zombie knife to pull your heart out u go get sense!! evil women  Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 29-05-2024 10:54 AM (8 months ago) | Grande Master
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- maizaxx at 29-05-2024 02:57 PM (8 months ago)
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I agree it's painful when you find out years later that the child/children aren't yours.
But being a father isn't just biological.
It takes any man to be a father but it takes a man to be a dad.
I have never been in such a situation, but honestly I know it will hurt but so long as they keep calling me dad, I'll still be ever grateful.
Posted: at 29-05-2024 02:57 PM (8 months ago) | Gistmaniac
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