Tips for successful date!!!

Date: 17-02-2011 1:18 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Qunodinga
- at 17-02-2011 01:18 PM (13 years ago)
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Be creative.
Have a creative quote in mine.

Lunch or coffee is a good start

Plenty of topics for discussion without having to deal with issues like:
"What happened to your last relationship?"
And you can avoid the usual casual chit-chat like:

"I met my first boyfriend on the prison bus." etc

Clothing
Clothing is not optional.
Wear clothes that make you feel good.
New clothes always help - but if not new, be sure they're clean, pressed, and fit well - or if that's not your style - be sure they fit whatever way makes you feel the most comfortable and still look presentable.

Help the Other Person Feel Comfortable
 Find something nice about your date and compliment her or him.
But mean it. Don't just say, "Nice shoes, Gladys."

Manners and/or Kindness
Thank the other person for the date - always, without exception.
Good manners are still in style. Well, not necessarily good manners - but common sense. Human kindness. That sort of thing is always in style.

Focus on the Other Person - pay attention to your date.
No wandering eyes. No preoccupation with old relationships, work, bank robberies.
Be THERE.

Listen actively to what your date says.
Don't interrupt. While your date is talking, don't spend time thinking about what you're going to say when it's your turn.

Attitudes and Habits - stay positive.
Don't complain on a first date.

Be cautious about alcohol - if you drink heavily, you're not going to be at your best.
If your date gets swacked on your first date, it's not necessarily due to nervousness.
He or she is likely to be a heavy-drinker, at best, and could end up drooling on your new, pressed clothes as you shovel him or her into a cab.



Wishing you a happy and  successful date.

Posted: at 17-02-2011 01:18 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- Sheree at 17-02-2011 01:29 PM (13 years ago)
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I don hear Smiley Smiley
Posted: at 17-02-2011 01:29 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 17-02-2011 01:31 PM (13 years ago)
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thanx dear....................nice one..

Posted: at 17-02-2011 01:31 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sexy_error at 17-02-2011 01:31 PM (13 years ago)
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Some point here is what some african dudes should learn..welldone quno...
Posted: at 17-02-2011 01:31 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ILOVEIT at 17-02-2011 01:32 PM (13 years ago)
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@poster...you did contradict your statement..

Posted: at 17-02-2011 01:32 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- chiglamour4u at 17-02-2011 01:33 PM (13 years ago)
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taking Note
Posted: at 17-02-2011 01:33 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ILOVEIT at 17-02-2011 01:34 PM (13 years ago)
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how r u doing chi?

Posted: at 17-02-2011 01:34 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- chiglamour4u at 17-02-2011 01:35 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on 17-02-2011 01:34 PM
how r u doing chi?

am fine dear and u?
Posted: at 17-02-2011 01:35 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ILOVEIT at 17-02-2011 01:37 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on 17-02-2011 01:35 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 17-02-2011 01:34 PM
how r u doing chi?

am fine dear and u?
i'm good thx!

Posted: at 17-02-2011 01:37 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sexy_error at 17-02-2011 01:38 PM (13 years ago)
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Are you guys practising the format so soon?
lolz
Posted: at 17-02-2011 01:38 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- dirtykid at 17-02-2011 01:40 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sexy_error on 17-02-2011 01:31 PM
Some point here is what some african dudes should learn..welldone quno...


African what should learn ?  Undecided

Posted: at 17-02-2011 01:40 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- chiglamour4u at 17-02-2011 01:49 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on 17-02-2011 01:37 PM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on 17-02-2011 01:35 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 17-02-2011 01:34 PM
how r u doing chi?

am fine dear and u?
i'm good thx!

ur welcome
Posted: at 17-02-2011 01:49 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sobeit at 17-02-2011 05:05 PM (13 years ago)
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hmmm
Posted: at 17-02-2011 05:05 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 13-03-2011 11:44 PM (13 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes Huh?

Posted: at 13-03-2011 11:44 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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