RAPE:WOULD U TELL! (Page 5)

As Human Beings, U can't help what people do 2 u.......u can only help how u react 2 d things they do. A lady getting raped may not in any way b her fault. Calling off a realtionship because the lady was raped I would say according 2 d Americans is 'Throwing the baby out with the bath water'. If u get raped and don't tell some1 with a really good will tell (u may not see fire but, the smell of burning and smoke always tells). A raped woman may not always act normal. 1 way or another she'll give off those signals (temper tantrums, avoiding sex and playing u around). People are not really good at handling surprise situations ( I'd say both genders). Normally, u'd want 2 bale out, but wait here. What if she has all the qualities u want in a lady? Telling about a rape case requires some amount of investing trust but like I said 1 way or the other, she'll give off those tell tale body signals. For me that fact that a woman gets raped is bad enough but, the issue here is how does that now affect her in the future. Early detection and therapy 4 rape victims helps more than stigmatization. They may have been raped but they're still human beings like the rest of us. A guy should not begin to see a lady as being different b/c she was raped. Her life and what she does with it are far more important than what happened to her. All they (raped women) need is some1 who will not judge dem based on their ordeal rather dan some who will make d situation worse by bringing down their already low esteem. Even b/4 u can make a beautiful sculpture u still have to chip away the undesirable stone pieces which is work. If she's d one 4 u, u sometimes have to go dat extra mile 4 her. There may not b another 1 like her out there

Posted: at 2-03-2011 05:49 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

 

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Posted: at 2-03-2011 06:26 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

SHE SHOULD TELL IF HE LOVES HER DEARLY, HE WILL ENDURE IT AND FORGIVES HER... AFTERALL LOVE IS ALL ABOUT FOR BETTER FOR WORSE

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Posted: at 12-05-2011 04:45 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Hi Yuki cares for me

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Posted: at 12-05-2011 06:10 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Do not make it a secret. Inform your partner and say it all..... Truth is bitter but it relieves you a lot...

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Posted: at 12-05-2011 06:42 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

@Kennee, I understand 65% of the rapist happened to be the close family of the victims,
they could be family friend, uncle, neighbour, even classmate, or the biological
parent of the victim. It's more crazy if a child is a victim, e.g A sister asking her brother to
babysit his 10 yrs old nice for few hours, she need to go to somewhere and when she came back
she met her daughter being raped by his brother. What would you say to that? or would you blame the
mother for asking her brother to babysit his nice or what?  In some cases the victim can't just
help herself. I pray it won't happen to you but who feel knows it better, it's more complicated that
your comment. It's more painful.

Posted: at 12-05-2011 07:05 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

If my gf/luver/fiance tells me she was raped that means i'l bear the pain of making her get ova it with all i can do., i dont nyd to inflitch more pain on her....,

Posted: at 12-05-2011 09:21 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

Posted: at 13-05-2011 09:09 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

 

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Posted: at 13-05-2011 10:40 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

 

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Posted: at 14-05-2011 11:52 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero