Causes of Broken Relationships (Page 4)

Date: 28-02-2011 5:36 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Pholake
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- ogale at 2-03-2011 09:20 AM (13 years ago)
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great!!! u did a great job,quite commendable. pls,tell them over again... Shocked
Posted: at 2-03-2011 09:20 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- rayfc51 at 2-03-2011 12:10 PM (13 years ago)
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Although break ups are bound to exist, but in most cases this happens when the relationship was based on self-interest. This is the same reason why a person may get hurt for months if not years when he depends on a relationship for personal interest and it collapsed. In this case the person might suffer for long just to put his/her life back on track. Resource http://www.relations.biz.nf/relationships_and_breakups/how_to_recover_from_breakups.html
Posted: at 2-03-2011 12:10 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- dammie86 at 2-03-2011 01:27 PM (13 years ago)
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Thanks for the advise..... Grin
Quote from: pholake on 28-02-2011 05:36 PM
I got this from an article I read on PM News and decided to share it with u pals.....especially the married and the about-to-weds.....It was a long article; hence, I decided to bring out the major points.........


•Analysis: Couples who argue so much and want everything to follow a particular pattern, easily have problems. Life is easy, try and overlook some things for peace to reign. Marriage is not the right place for you to prove how intelligent you are.

•Wrong choice of words: If you can watch and control your tongue, a whole deal of your problems would be gone. Dishing sarcastic comments is not healthy for the relationship and studies have shown that even after apologies, the wounds refuse to heal completely.

•Infidelity: Please try as much as practicable not to give your spouse any cause to doubt your love for him/her. Just the way you promised at the beginning of the marriage, keep to one partner and derive pleasure in each other.

•Care: Care makes it easy for you to love, give, respect, support, encourage and do a lot more than
nice one..
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Posted: at 2-03-2011 01:27 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- pholake at 2-03-2011 02:40 PM (13 years ago)
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yea dammie.. Smiley
Posted: at 2-03-2011 02:40 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- eomo at 2-03-2011 02:55 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: interpo77 on  1-03-2011 09:55 PM
Quote from: eomo on  1-03-2011 01:43 AM
Quote from: pholake on 28-02-2011 05:36 PM
I got this from an article I read on PM News and decided to share it with u pals.....especially the married and the about-to-weds.....It was a long article; hence, I decided to bring out the major points.........


•Analysis: Couples who argue so much and want everything to follow a particular pattern, easily have problems. Life is easy, try and overlook some things for peace to reign. Marriage is not the right place for you to prove how intelligent you are.

•Wrong choice of words: If you can watch and control your tongue, a whole deal of your problems would be gone. Dishing sarcastic comments is not healthy for the relationship and studies have shown that even after apologies, the wounds refuse to heal completely.

•Infidelity: Please try as much as practicable not to give your spouse any cause to doubt your love for him/her. Just the way you promised at the beginning of the marriage, keep to one partner and derive pleasure in each other.

•Care: Care makes it easy for you to love, give, respect, support, encourage and do a lot more than
There is this old saying of a woman who went to an elderly man to complain that her husband beat her every time. The elderly man sensed that the cause of her beating was her words. The old man told her to wait for him to get her a medicine that will stop the beating. The old man gave her a cowry and told her to put the cowry in her mouth immediately an argument is about to start. He told her she must not say a word once the cowry is in her mouth because if the cowry falls then she will get more beating that she may loose her life. She followed the old man's word to the letter and there was no more beating that even the husband was shocked that his wife becomes very quiet when there is an argument. He called his wife one day and asked what the secret was and she opened up to the husband. Both of them went to the old man and he told them that there was nothing to the cowry. She stopped using the cowry and realised that her bad mouth was the cause of her beating. She learned to be quiet and they lived happily together.
hahhah,where i go fit buy that cowry
I fit arrange one for you. haaaaaaaaaaa
Posted: at 2-03-2011 02:55 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Deffney at 3-03-2011 03:11 AM (13 years ago)
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great! thanks..
Posted: at 3-03-2011 03:11 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- pholake at 3-03-2011 08:02 AM (13 years ago)
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u're welcome..... Smiley
Posted: at 3-03-2011 08:02 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- PreetyInstinct at 3-03-2011 08:54 AM (13 years ago)
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Makes a lot of sense mate. Smiley
Posted: at 3-03-2011 08:54 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- pholake at 3-03-2011 09:01 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: PreetyInstinct on  3-03-2011 08:54 AM
Makes a lot of sense mate. Smiley
U can say that again... Smiley
Posted: at 3-03-2011 09:01 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Loveday759 at 3-03-2011 12:50 PM (13 years ago)
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Ok I hear, Gud one, keep it up
Posted: at 3-03-2011 12:50 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- pholake at 3-03-2011 12:51 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Loveday759 on  3-03-2011 12:50 PM
Ok I hear, Gud one, keep it up

No just hear, make good use of them..... Smiley
Posted: at 3-03-2011 12:51 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- pholake at 3-03-2011 12:53 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: rayfc51 on  2-03-2011 12:10 PM
Although break ups are bound to exist, but in most cases this happens when the relationship was based on self-interest. This is the same reason why a person may get hurt for months if not years when he depends on a relationship for personal interest and it collapsed. In this case the person might suffer for long just to put his/her life back on track. Resource http://www.relations.biz.nf/relationships_and_breakups/how_to_recover_from_breakups.html


Selflessness is an essential ingredient to make a marriage work and it encompasses all the points mentioned....thanks for d addition Smiley
Posted: at 3-03-2011 12:53 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- temzyflexxy at 3-03-2011 01:39 PM (13 years ago)
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pholake.............. kip up ur gud wks........lol
Posted: at 3-03-2011 01:39 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- pholake at 3-03-2011 01:43 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: temzyflexxy on  3-03-2011 01:39 PM
pholake.............. kip up ur gud wks........lol

Thanks darling...... Kiss
Posted: at 3-03-2011 01:43 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- qunodinga at 4-03-2011 10:57 AM (13 years ago)
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i love this info...pls keep it up
Posted: at 4-03-2011 10:57 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- pholake at 4-03-2011 10:58 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: qunodinga on  4-03-2011 10:57 AM
i love this info...pls keep it up

Thanks queen.... Smiley
Posted: at 4-03-2011 10:58 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 4-03-2011 11:17 AM (13 years ago)
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i like dis... nice one dear  Wink
Posted: at 4-03-2011 11:17 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- 50scent at 4-03-2011 11:27 AM (13 years ago)
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ME TOO  Sad Sad Sad
Posted: at 4-03-2011 11:27 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 4-03-2011 11:30 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on  4-03-2011 11:27 AM
ME TOO  Sad Sad Sad
why d sad face now
Posted: at 4-03-2011 11:30 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- pholake at 4-03-2011 11:44 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on  4-03-2011 11:17 AM
i like dis... nice one dear  Wink
thanks mama..... Kiss
Posted: at 4-03-2011 11:44 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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