She's invited to join her family abroad but she loves him...

Date: 01-03-2011 2:22 pm (10 years ago) | Author: Onyinya
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- at 1-03-2011 02:22 PM (10 years ago)
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A friend confided in me, needing a piece of advice. She is in her late twenties, had been in two previous relationships but was unlucky. She is very enterprising and is quite comfortable, and she thinks that has kind of scared some guys away. Now a young man has indicated interest in her just as she has an invitation to join her parents abroad. She is torn between joining her family and staying back because of him. Meanwhile, he has not made any proposal, but says he believes they have a future together.

Dear friends, please help me out; what do you think I should tell her?

Posted: at 1-03-2011 02:22 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- blessedme at 1-03-2011 02:24 PM (10 years ago)
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make im carry d man follow body naa
Posted: at 1-03-2011 02:24 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- princess4jifs at 1-03-2011 02:30 PM (10 years ago)
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SHE SHOULD STAY BACK AND FIX THINGS WITH  THE GUY,PRAY IT LEADS TO UNION,TRAVEL CAN WAIT.U CAN TRAVEL WEN EVER U WANT ONCE U GOT OPPORTUNITY.THAT GUY MIGHT BE HER HUSBAND,IF THINGS WORK AS PLAN BOTH OF THEM CAN HAVE A FUTURE EITHER ABROAD OR NAIJA,ANYWHERE.
Posted: at 1-03-2011 02:30 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- chiglamour4u at 1-03-2011 02:32 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on  1-03-2011 02:24 PM
make im carry d man follow body naa

i tire oo
Posted: at 1-03-2011 02:32 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bhl72 at 1-03-2011 02:45 PM (10 years ago)
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due to her previous experiences and her impression that she should be married by now, she is quite confused.
Posted: at 1-03-2011 02:45 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 1-03-2011 02:49 PM (10 years ago)
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i hear
Posted: at 1-03-2011 02:49 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 1-03-2011 02:50 PM (10 years ago)
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hissss,,,tell her to go and meet her family abroad....if this guy is truly for her..no matter what they will still be one...this is her opportunity to go to abroad now....if she decide to stay back...and things didn't work out..yanwa don gas...meanwhile,it her choice sha..she can still be in abroad and still get intouch with him or visite him..

Posted: at 1-03-2011 02:50 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bhl72 at 1-03-2011 02:52 PM (10 years ago)
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sounds nice... you are a good counselor, HP
Posted: at 1-03-2011 02:52 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 1-03-2011 10:21 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: bhl72 on  1-03-2011 02:52 PM
sounds nice... you are a good counselor, HP
Wink

Posted: at 1-03-2011 10:21 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 1-03-2011 10:26 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  1-03-2011 02:50 PM
hissss,,,tell her to go and meet her family abroad....if this guy is truly for her..no matter what they will still be one...this is her opportunity to go to abroad now....if she decide to stay back...and things didn't work out..yanwa don gas...meanwhile,it her choice sha..she can still be in abroad and still get intouch with him or visite him..

true talk

Posted: at 1-03-2011 10:26 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Obifly at 2-03-2011 12:18 AM (10 years ago)
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Abroad? Where? Abeg stop post trash. I cald it!
Posted: at 2-03-2011 12:18 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- Doojay at 2-03-2011 12:21 AM (10 years ago)
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U2 much!!
Posted: at 2-03-2011 12:21 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- popo2009 at 2-03-2011 12:39 AM (10 years ago)
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na wetin be all this naaa???
Posted: at 2-03-2011 12:39 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- orjiwolo at 2-03-2011 12:51 AM (10 years ago)
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She should travel jeje since the guy never propose... what if she come
stay behind and the guy no come propose nko???
who knows maybe she may even get the ideal man when she travel abroad
Posted: at 2-03-2011 12:51 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- livingday at 2-03-2011 02:20 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  1-03-2011 02:50 PM
hissss,,,tell her to go and meet her family abroad....if this guy is truly for her..no matter what they will still be one...this is her opportunity to go to abroad now....if she decide to stay back...and things didn't work out..yanwa don gas...meanwhile,it her choice sha..she can still be in abroad and still get intouch with him or visite him..

The fact that she is confused means she is not completely in love with this guy. Or is she thinking of what will become of her enterprising business? In these hard times men like enterpring and well-to-do women. This guy who has not proposed may be hitching a ride on her wealth and not for the love of her. She should travel and explore other opportunities that life has to offer then she can make informed decision as to who to marry.
Posted: at 2-03-2011 02:20 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Ascondy at 2-03-2011 07:37 AM (10 years ago)
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Abroad where? ghana abroad or mali, what eva. Na she wear d shoe na still her go no were d tin d pain am.
Posted: at 2-03-2011 07:37 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- lanudja at 2-03-2011 07:41 AM (10 years ago)
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Why re pple so quest abt this abroad thing?
Posted: at 2-03-2011 07:41 AM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 2-03-2011 08:44 AM (10 years ago)
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Depends on her priorities!

Posted: at 2-03-2011 08:44 AM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- pholake at 2-03-2011 09:20 AM (10 years ago)
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Since she's comfortable, it means she can afford to travel anytime....if she believes there's hope in her relationship with the guy, I think she should stay and give it a try....going abroad is not the ultimate....she needs to settle down and build her own family....but it's her choice ultimately.
Posted: at 2-03-2011 09:20 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- princedafe at 2-03-2011 10:06 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  1-03-2011 02:50 PM
hissss,,,tell her to go and meet her family abroad....if this guy is truly for her..no matter what they will still be one...this is her opportunity to go to abroad now....if she decide to stay back...and things didn't work out..yanwa don gas...meanwhile,it her choice sha..she can still be in abroad and still get intouch with him or visite him..

wellsaid and supported
Posted: at 2-03-2011 10:06 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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