UK-Based Man Faces Backlash Over N30,000 Wedding Support For Brother

Date: 14-12-2024 8:55 pm (2 months ago) | Author: Mister Jay Wonder
- at 14-12-2024 08:55 PM (2 months ago)
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A UK-based man has come under fire on social media after being accused of sending only N30,000 to support his brother’s wedding in Nigeria. The controversy was sparked by a post on X (formerly Twitter) by user @thobyiano, who expressed disappointment over what he deemed an inadequate gesture, especially considering the man’s residence abroad. 

In his post, @thobyiano wrote: 
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*"How can you be in the UK, and your blood brother is getting married, and all you could send him was 30k? Nobody is being entitled here, but that doesn’t make any sense. So, because nobody owes you anything, that’s the reason you’ll send your sibling 30k for his wedding. Na una sabi."* 


The post quickly gained traction, igniting a heated debate among users. Critics supported Toby’s viewpoint, arguing that as someone living abroad, the man should have made a more significant financial contribution. 

However, others defended the UK-based man, pointing out that financial capacity varies and that the amount someone contributes should depend on their personal circumstances. 

One commenter wrote, *“Support is not a right, and living abroad doesn’t mean unlimited resources. Maybe that’s what he could afford.”* 

Another countered, *“Family is family. N30k for your brother’s wedding is embarrassing, especially if you’re earning in pounds.”* 

The debate highlights the often unrealistic expectations placed on Nigerians living abroad, with many believing they are obligated to provide significant financial support for family events back home. As opinions remain divided, the discussion sheds light on the pressures of familial obligations and the complex dynamics of financial assistance within families. 


Posted: at 14-12-2024 08:55 PM (2 months ago) | Addicted Hero
- gogoman at 14-12-2024 09:03 PM (2 months ago)
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He owns you absolutely nothing!!!! sibling is nothing!!! na u won get married why can't u prepare? fcking idiot  Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes why must he sponsor your wedding!! the ugly wife wey u won dey fck  Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes a gift is a gift!!! if you don't want return his money!!!  Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 14-12-2024 09:03 PM (2 months ago) | Grande Master
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- seanery at 15-12-2024 05:10 AM (2 months ago)
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Una think sey uk na land of milk and honey??

Go and witness it urself. Life no easy there as u see on tv

I have friends there lamenting daily
Posted: at 15-12-2024 05:10 AM (2 months ago) | Upcoming
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- Baye77 at 15-12-2024 06:50 AM (2 months ago)
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Oga go to the UK and send your brother 30k pounds na.
Posted: at 15-12-2024 06:50 AM (2 months ago) | Hero
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- maizaxx at 15-12-2024 01:09 PM (2 months ago)
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Do they know what the poor guy is facing over there?
Posted: at 15-12-2024 01:09 PM (2 months ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kp45 at 15-12-2024 02:31 PM (2 months ago)
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If you can't appreciate it then return it. Ungrateful people everywhere. If only you know some circumstances surrounding some people.
Posted: at 15-12-2024 02:31 PM (2 months ago) | Addicted Hero
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