Why do ladies always blame failed relationships on men? (Page 4)

mine am not dat xperienced  so i cant say!! bt y ar dey even blaming dem dont ladies also do wat wil make a man go nuts, cos hv hard much complains about ladies. so no one has to b blame.........tank u

Posted: at 13-03-2011 04:14 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Abeg oooo...my people...make una take easy on sophiebaby....she was just decieved by the devil......and his she-goats!!!

Posted: at 13-03-2011 04:30 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Well... Men call us the weaker sex, the weaker vessel which means they believe they are the stronger gender... Now tell me, why would anyone blame a weaker sex for the breaking of relationships?

Posted: at 13-03-2011 05:02 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

@ sugardaddy1: d argument of who cheats more between men and women holds no water because when women cheat, they do so with men and when men cheat, it's with women...whoever cheats, the opposite sex is involved...

Posted: at 13-03-2011 05:26 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

SO MANY BROKEN RELATIONSHIPS TODAY WAS AS A RESULT OF: THE RELATIONSHIP NT BEING DEFINED, NOT BEING PREPARED ENOUGH TO HANDLE ANY CIRCUMSTANCE, LACK OF VALUE (WHICH CULD BE FROM BOTH PARTIES) AND LACK OF UNDERSTANDING....IF ANY RELATIONSHIP FAILS, THEN ONE: THE LADY FAILED TO BUILD IT COS IS HER DUTY, SECONDLY THE GUY DID NOT DEFINE THE RELATIONSHIP AND THIRDLY THEY ARE NOT PREPARED TO BE IN ONE.
     ANOTHER CAUSE OF BROKEN RELATIONSHIP IS DISCIPLINE ON THE SIDE OF THE LADIES, NO GUY IS BLIND WEN HE SEES SOMETHING GUD.LADIES, THE ABILITY FOR A GUY TO BE GOOD OR BAD LIES IN UR HANDS..WHY WOULDN'T YOU GO TRU HEART BREAKS WEN AT 20 U VE DATED 4 GUYS.....HEY! NO REASONABLE GIRL DATES MORE THAN 2 COS SOMETYMS WE MK MISTAKES IN CHOICES....IF ANY RELATIONSHIP MUST GROW, IT LIES IN OUR HANDS LADIES........  

 

Posted: at 13-03-2011 05:49 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

thats the funiest of it all, every women believe that men  re mumu, donkies that re made to serve them,
in a marriage, women has a rule to play for the up moving of thier relationship and dont always
 be there to blaim only men,james bring this and james bring that, and u nko? why cant u do something to help him
 and even  when u got something  doing u preffered giving  what  u gain to ur family,i can never stand a fool anymore
call it marriage or ordinary  g/b frid, oriaku time has gone now is oso di eme

Posted: at 13-03-2011 06:09 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

WE AS LADIES BEING WEAKER SEX AND VESSELS IS NOT IN REGARDS TO RELATIONSHIPS......THAT'S AS REGARDS PROVISION A MAN IS STRONGER.....WE R MADE WEAKER VESSELS IN TERMS OF STRENGTH, WE VE GOT LIMIT....A MAN IS ALWAYS STRONGER.....
   A WOMAN IS MEANT TO HELP THE MAN, NOW IF A RELATIONSHIP FAILS, THEN THE WOMAN NEVER HELPED HIM. WE HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT THE STRENGTH  A MAN HAS, IS YOU THE LADY....WEN THE BIBLE SAYS "HE DATS FINDS A WIFE FINDS A GUD THING AND OBTAINS FAVOR FROM THE LORD"..THAT'S TO SAY THAT, YOU R SUPPOSE TO BE A GIFT TO THAT MAN AND GIFTS ARE CHERISHED AND HELD IN HIGH ESTEEM.....WEN U ACT LIKE A WOMAN THAT U R SUPPOSE TO BE, A MAN IS NOT BLIND TO DAT..THE POWER TO BUILD, TO SUPPORT AND TO KEEP LIES IN THE HANDS OF WOMEN....WATCH CAREFULLY, IN ANY SUCCESSFUL FAMILY THERE IS A SUPPORTING, UNDERSTANDING, OBEDIENT, SUBMISSIVE, AND 1DAFUL WOMAN  

Posted: at 13-03-2011 06:12 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

....and she had the guts to say men are goats......the same girl who told us here that her boss bought her a KIA car sometime ago.
Sophie, the man don collect his car back?
With all the Nokias, Blackberries laptops, shoes, clothes they have. Thanks to men!

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Posted: at 13-03-2011 06:17 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

NOT REALY FAKE AS U THINK, IS BAD FRIENDS..

Posted: at 13-03-2011 06:27 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

@ruthazunda: how many experienced married women have u spoken to as regards their experiences in their husband's houses? Have u forgotten that it takes 2 to tango? On a more serious note, failure in marriages can be either the fault of the wife or the husband...there's no hard and fast rule! I've been in it for years and have moved with a lot of married men and women to know that what works for one couple may be the bane of another...saying marriages fail because women fail to be helpmates to their women's being utterly unfair to women! There's a woman in my area who bore 7 boys to her husband the man was a muslim who felt he had d right to have strings of wives...he abandoned d woman and went to live with a nurse...the wife and the 7 boys stayed in one room apartment till date...some years later, he got stroke and his nurse came to dump him for his wife. To cut short the story, @ d point of death, he asked people to apologize to his wife cos he sinned against her...my take is I can only be a help to him if he allows me to...if he leaves room for that

Posted: at 13-03-2011 06:46 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac