![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 25-03-2011 12:26 PM (13 years ago)  (f) exactly  | Posted: at 25-03-2011 12:26 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 25-03-2011 12:37 PM (13 years ago) (m) @dirtykid thanks for the advice, but i spoke to her about being a good friend and keeping it between us, but she said she cannot promise anything.
A friend indeed as a friend in need, but can't you see, from her responses she is not someone to call friend.. I'm not trying to advice you to throw close friends away, but you just need to tight you armor very well, because the ones you have around you in the name of friends, are actually friendly enemies, and what kills one most is that thing that knows ones in and out in everything he/she does. Just watch your back all the time, if you maintain to keep them as friends.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 25-03-2011 12:37 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 25-03-2011 12:40 PM (13 years ago) (f) DK ow u dey | Posted: at 25-03-2011 12:40 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Dozb") Dozb at 25-03-2011 12:45 PM (13 years ago) (f) Ladies, if u starve guys they will either cheat or dump ya.
.says who.who dey fear cheatin and dumpin. | Posted: at 25-03-2011 12:45 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 25-03-2011 12:54 PM (13 years ago) (f)  | Posted: at 25-03-2011 12:54 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "dirtykid") dirtykid at 25-03-2011 01:05 PM (13 years ago) (m) DK ow u dey
I'm good swtheart, how re u doing ?
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! | Posted: at 25-03-2011 01:05 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "mystangel") mystangel at 25-03-2011 01:33 PM (13 years ago) (f) u just have to learn to be like..........................always and forever friendless....... dere are limitation given to friends even sisters....... learn dat .....
being mysterious is part of me--CALL ME CRAZY--am still wat i am | Posted: at 25-03-2011 01:33 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 25-03-2011 01:35 PM (13 years ago) (f) u just have to learn to be like..........................always and forever friendless....... dere are limitation given to friends even sisters....... learn dat .....
honestly and until u learn that ur life will always b miserable cos dey wont stop hunting you | Posted: at 25-03-2011 01:35 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "trolling") trolling at 25-03-2011 01:46 PM (13 years ago) (m) You mentioned in one of your post that you are a feminist that is a no-no for some naija men. when you said you were a feminist that already summed it up for me, the mind frame of most american women doesnt sit well with us naija men. I would say check yourself but what I do like that you sais is that you dont want to have sex until you get married to your would-be husband and not changing shoes whenever you get tired of one shoe.I guess you learnt frm those two experiences, but I dont like your mentality though. | Posted: at 25-03-2011 01:46 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "ugochuks") ugochuks at 25-03-2011 02:24 PM (13 years ago) (m) Did you call those your triffling and spoilers Friends ? hmm I think you're not serious, Your friends should respect you and your relationship, Unless you're doing the same to their own.. that's if all of you are playing cards with the boys. You mention about if you call someone your boyfriend it means you must marry the person? what does that mean ? Do you think every relationship must end up at the alter ? You better wake up from that side of dream.. it takes one out of ten to happen just like that. My view is this....I think you're been insecure with all the situation, Just don't degrade yourself, you just have to believe in yourself, step up your game and hold tight to what is yours. That's what makes you who you are. Don't allow your friends to always bully you over and over again. hold tight to your man and stop playing miss independent as well, some of us men don't really like that style, accept his gift with cheerful mind and a thank you kiss, You already know he cares and Love you, he really wants to take care of you as his lady in the shape of coca cola bottle  . Finally, don't allow your past experience with your other boys come in between you and him, give him a chance, plain chance don't refer back to old things, is a turn off for some guys, some guys will not show you this but is in their mind.. give new future a chance. Goodluck young lady that looks like coca cola Bottle with pretty face Haha I no fit lafff but the coca cola bottle gal dey force me, first, show me ur friends nd I will tell u who re re! U re no b8a than ur slut friends,I think its one of the games u play,GANG BANGIN,now u get ur own nd u no want make ur friends follow ur enjoy,u re nuffin but just one of ur type,tell ur guy to spread a lil love to ur slut friends nd let JAH blessing go round! Coca cola nd pretty face,,unA no go fit kill me for NP
I MISS U WHEN I KNOW U RE MISSIN ME | Posted: at 25-03-2011 02:24 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 25-03-2011 02:47 PM (13 years ago) (m) you got an issue.why would you call your guy stupid? its shows you don't even show respect to people you are dating.and the way you sounded here tells me that,you are a cocky type of girl..to my own understanding your complexing is not the problem or your friends,but your attitude.you need to examine yourself,if not you're going lose this current guy.
@POSTER TRY TO REFINE YOUR ATTITUDE [/quote] It's not really your friends that are responsible for the
failed relationships in the past, but your attitude played
a very vital role in there.
You were too careful not to loose them and then you end up
loosing them, you are too pompous, from your story, you
are also too difficult to please. Most guys don't like ladies
rejecting their gifts (with that they think you are not just
serious, and you are not ready to give them a chance) and therefore
turn to whom they think will give them the chance.
I will like also to tell you that, it's not because you declined their
segxwal request or because of your complexion that makes
them turned to your friends, but because THEY ARE MORE
JOVIAL THAN YOU ARE (I mean your friends).
Check your attitudes towards men or else stand the chance to loose this one also.
@poster..i concur most of these comments... your pomposity,cockiness,and lack of appreciation.. opened doors for your busybody friends to take advantage.TRY TO REFINE YOUR ATTITUDE like one of the guys mention above..good luck!! | Posted: at 25-03-2011 02:47 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Aduf") Aduf at 25-03-2011 02:51 PM (13 years ago) (f) You av been insecure but mind you the people you called your friend they are nothing but pig. useless friend but Yoruba proverb says show me your friend and i will tell you who you are. may be you are doing thesame thing to them and if its is NO you better move away from them before they send you to jail. | Posted: at 25-03-2011 02:51 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 25-03-2011 02:55 PM (13 years ago) (f) DK ow u dey
I'm good swtheart, how re u doing ? am always strong and fine...good to know | Posted: at 25-03-2011 02:55 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "trolling") trolling at 25-03-2011 02:58 PM (13 years ago) (m) To sum you up Birds of a feather flock together. | Posted: at 25-03-2011 02:58 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "chukyflex") chukyflex at 25-03-2011 03:16 PM (13 years ago) (m) acess urself very well ur are a backstarber | Posted: at 25-03-2011 03:16 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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those muskale friend's of yours,as u call them are ur pals not frnds. | Posted: at 25-03-2011 03:24 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 25-03-2011 03:25 PM (13 years ago) (f) when people come here to seek serious advice dey only get insults dis r matters of the heart and should b treated carefully all of you that insult instead of advice please change | Posted: at 25-03-2011 03:25 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 25-03-2011 03:29 PM (13 years ago) (f)  | Posted: at 25-03-2011 03:29 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "beckononme") beckononme at 25-03-2011 05:13 PM (13 years ago) (m) From the Last 3 Lines, l can see dat the Problem is with yur Attitude Poster... Not all Guys Like Pompous Girls (l believe y'all call it Girls with Swagger)
ABSOLUTELY! Thats my turn offs with any female.. it irritates me | Posted: at 25-03-2011 05:13 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "interpo77") interpo77 at 25-03-2011 09:33 PM (13 years ago) (m) anyway, an adage says, "show me ur friends and i will tell u whom u re u and ur friends re birds of the same fearthers. if u like , use ur sence , the ball is in ur court , ur guy is for u and get him happy ok. | Posted: at 25-03-2011 09:33 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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