friendly enemies (Page 5)

ok here is my situation. I am dating this nfl star. His of nigerian descent, seems like every girl wants him. Well we just been dating for 3 months, i say dating because even though the family calls me his girlfriend, i feel there is so much i need to learn and get to know about this guy. Personally when i call someone my boyfriend that means i see myself marrying this man. I have been screwed over by my last two boyfriends. Its not because am ugly or anything, it just seems to me that these guys wanted me for my body and how i made them look with their friends. And when i refused to sleep with them, they found closure with some of my closet slut friends. But this guy is different, at least i hope. When he approached me he told me that he loves my attitude towards life, and that character to him is the beauty of a woman. No man has ever seen the intelligent me, without chasing me for my body. I havent slept with this guy in the three months we've been dating and his never disrespected me. To me he seems like my dream guy, but dreams always turn into nightmares for me when it comes to guys, especially when they meet my female friends. Am darker than all my girlfriends and it seems that  most of the guys i date ended up chasing my fair friends who gave them sex over me.  I have some triffling girls as friends and they want to meet him. I prefer to live a private life and i dont want any rumors spreading about us and i know some of my friends would do whatever to get what  they want. Anyways  this guy is worth millions, and personally i dont go after guys for their money, but it seems like they are drawn to me. Only my immediate family knows him, but all my girlfriends wants to meet him. He recently bought me a car for my bday and i declined it. He got angry and told me i should stop playing miss independent. I personally hate taking expensive gifts from people, especially men who are not in my family. I prefer to be the giver than the receive. anyways he sent me chocolates yesterday at work, and he stupidly put his  full name on the note, and i didnt realize there was a note attached until i went to lunch with one of my triffling friends and she asked for some  of the chocolates and i willingly gave the whole box to her, and for some reason the note was under the chocolate box and she saw the name. she started screaming with joy, and now she wants me to get her a autograph and tickets from him, and am  i feel like choking her. I told him what happened and he said he doesnt care if she puts it out there, but i do. I  dont want my life to be open to the public  just because of whom am dating. So my  problem is how do i go about dealing with this girl.Or am i being insecure. Am 5'8 shaped like a coke bottle, with pretty face, but i always feel that these guys end up cheating with my friends over me, because  of my complexion. So any advice, am i being insecure?

ok here is my situation. I am dating this nfl star. His of nigerian descent, seems like every girl wants him. Well we just been dating for 3 months, i say dating because even though the family calls me his girlfriend, i feel there is so much i need to learn and get to know about this guy. Personally when i call someone my boyfriend that means i see myself marrying this man. I have been screwed over by my last two boyfriends. Its not because am ugly or anything, it just seems to me that these guys wanted me for my body and how i made them look with their friends. And when i refused to sleep with them, they found closure with some of my closet slut friends. But this guy is different, at least i hope. When he approached me he told me that he loves my attitude towards life, and that character to him is the beauty of a woman. No man has ever seen the intelligent me, without chasing me for my body. I havent slept with this guy in the three months we've been dating and his never disrespected me. To me he seems like my dream guy, but dreams always turn into nightmares for me when it comes to guys, especially when they meet my female friends. Am darker than all my girlfriends and it seems that  most of the guys i date ended up chasing my fair friends who gave them sex over me.  I have some triffling girls as friends and they want to meet him. I prefer to live a private life and i dont want any rumors spreading about us and i know some of my friends would do whatever to get what  they want. Anyways  this guy is worth millions, and personally i dont go after guys for their money, but it seems like they are drawn to me. Only my immediate family knows him, but all my girlfriends wants to meet him. He recently bought me a car for my bday and i declined it. He got angry and told me i should stop playing miss independent. I personally hate taking expensive gifts from people, especially men who are not in my family. I prefer to be the giver than the receive. anyways he sent me chocolates yesterday at work, and he stupidly put his  full name on the note, and i didnt realize there was a note attached until i went to lunch with one of my triffling friends and she asked for some  of the chocolates and i willingly gave the whole box to her, and for some reason the note was under the chocolate box and she saw the name. she started screaming with joy, and now she wants me to get her a autograph and tickets from him, and am  i feel like choking her. I told him what happened and he said he doesnt care if she puts it out there, but i do. I  dont want my life to be open to the public  just because of whom am dating. So my  problem is how do i go about dealing with this girl.Or am i being insecure. Am 5'8 shaped like a coke bottle, with pretty face, but i always feel that these guys end up cheating with my friends over me, because  of my complexion. So any advice, am i being insecure?

the ones u dated before dint love u cos any guy dat loves u will stay with u & never cheat on u no matter wat. my dear if this guy truly loves u, every other girl is shit to him so dont be scared.watever dat is urs will always be urs.

I must tell you the painful truth.I am not too convinced that you are of the character you described yourself.Reason is,birds of the same feather,flock together.If your friends are sluts as you correctly mentioned,you shouldnt expect a decent behaviour from any of them.If you are comfortable having sluts  for friends,that leaves your character with a BIG QUESTION MARK.My advice,DO AWAY WITH YOUR SLUT FRIENDS if you really want a meaningful relationship with this guy.

Bros.. i beg help me tell her... she come here come tell us hw good she be...she good finish 4 evrything.. we ask uuu?? only u dey use ur hand play ur drum... we no go dance to am ooo!!!