my fellow naijapal members, how do u feel when ur partner initiates a discussion about his/her ex? Do u like such discussion? for me, i dont like discussing about exes cos i feel insecure & jealous so when ever such discussion comes up, i will immediately ask the babe to change the topic...ur views plssss
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Posted: at 25-03-2011 04:48 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
truenaija2 at 25-03-2011 04:53 PM (13 years ago) (f)
i dont like it
Posted: at 25-03-2011 04:53 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
It good to allow such talks maybe once in a while so as to know ur ex' lapses which will even allow u to know how to avoid some things she can easily fall to.
I am as gentle as a dove and as wise as a serpent
Posted: at 28-03-2011 12:48 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
except it will have a positive impact in the present relationship ........if not NO
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 28-03-2011 12:55 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
it's look like gossiping,so not advisable.besides it could have a negative effect.
Only regarded as gossip when u comment negetively on the so discussed issues......
there is no way you could discussed your Ex without somehow pointed out his/her negative side..nope! its not possible,if it doesn't happen soon it will definitely happen later.
Posted: at 28-03-2011 01:09 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
it's look like gossiping,so not advisable.besides it could have a negative effect.
Only regarded as gossip when u comment negetively on the so discussed issues......
there is no way you could discussed your Ex without somehow pointed out his/her negative side..nope! its not possible,if it doesn't happen soon it will definitely happen later.
That's why u allow such talks so that u'll know the kind of person she is.......
I am as gentle as a dove and as wise as a serpent
Posted: at 28-03-2011 01:13 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
blessedme at 28-03-2011 01:16 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: sobeit on 28-03-2011 01:09 PM
Quote from: Michro on 28-03-2011 01:01 PM
Quote from: sobeit on 28-03-2011 12:59 PM
it's look like gossiping,so not advisable.besides it could have a negative effect.
Only regarded as gossip when u comment negetively on the so discussed issues......
there is no way you could discussed your Ex without somehow pointed out his/her negative side..nope! its not possible,if it doesn't happen soon it will definitely happen later.
yea! something must definitely spring up d talk
Posted: at 28-03-2011 01:16 PM (13 years ago) | Hero