RIGHT OR WRONG!

Date: 31-03-2011 12:49 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Emmanuel Tawah
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- at 31-03-2011 12:49 PM (13 years ago)
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Hans intends to introduce himself to his future inlaws but his family insists he stays with his new found love, make a baby before introducing himself.
Their reaosn: Hans' first marriage failed in only five months because the lady deceived and left him!
Hans considers it impolite to stay with a girl without the two families knowing each other. He is to finance even the transportation of his parents.
He is broken hearted because it took him four good years to fall in love again after the first failure.
SHOULD HE TAKE ALONG OTHER PERSONS: FRIENDS OR COUSINS TO REPRESENT HIS FAMILY?

Please constructive replies!

Posted: at 31-03-2011 12:49 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- dirtykid at 31-03-2011 12:51 PM (13 years ago)
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is everything ok with HANS? if yes, then he should prove them that he is all perfect, they will be the one calling and looking for him to do the Introduction.

Posted: at 31-03-2011 12:51 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- chiglamour4u at 31-03-2011 12:54 PM (13 years ago)
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poster i dnt understand u oo dk i beg expalin
Posted: at 31-03-2011 12:54 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- pholake at 31-03-2011 12:54 PM (13 years ago)
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The right thing to do is to the parents of the girl he harbours. living with her without her parents know is bad enough, impregnating her is tantamount to disrespect and disregard of the girl's family. The fact that one lady disappointed him doesn't mean the present one would. He should have trust and do the needful.
Posted: at 31-03-2011 12:54 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- pholake at 31-03-2011 12:55 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: pholake on 31-03-2011 12:54 PM
The right thing to do is to knowthe parents of the girl he harbours. living with her without her parents know is bad enough, impregnating her is tantamount to disrespect and disregard of the girl's family. The fact that one lady disappointed him doesn't mean the present one would. He should have trust and do the needful.
Posted: at 31-03-2011 12:55 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Emmandazie at 31-03-2011 12:59 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on 31-03-2011 12:54 PM
poster i dnt understand u oo dk i beg expalin
Hans wants has money and wants to meet his future inlaws but his family says let him stay and deliver with the girl before introduction. He wants you to help with advise if he should take some friends or cousins to represent his family at the girl's home. Hope you understand now!
Posted: at 31-03-2011 12:59 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- shaoyang at 31-03-2011 01:01 PM (13 years ago)
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He should listen to his family cos who knows it a kind of spell following him that girl will dube him abd run away so his family devised a way to counter it alteast the present one won't run away until she puts to bed do getting her pregnant b4 going for the proper introduction make some sense
Posted: at 31-03-2011 01:01 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Sheree at 31-03-2011 01:20 PM (13 years ago)
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He should see the girl's family, if he has the intention of marring her. He is a man and should be able to make his own decisions. Yes, he was tricked by his first wife, that doesn't make the other woman a trick star too. How would her family feel about the whole stuff? He should do what is right thing by seeing the girls family.
Posted: at 31-03-2011 01:20 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Emmandazie at 31-03-2011 01:22 PM (13 years ago)
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Why should his own parents put spell on him when they have been at his neck to get married? The difference is the approach he has towards marriage: Not staying with a girl without being known in her family!
Posted: at 31-03-2011 01:22 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- MissyBarbie at 31-03-2011 01:25 PM (13 years ago)
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Posted: at 31-03-2011 01:25 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Emmandazie at 31-03-2011 01:29 PM (13 years ago)
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@Miss, na which book you wan read b4 know what to say?
Posted: at 31-03-2011 01:29 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- esonu at 31-03-2011 01:34 PM (13 years ago)
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hmmmmm still try to figure out was up wit dis post

Posted: at 31-03-2011 01:34 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- princess4jifs at 31-03-2011 01:35 PM (13 years ago)
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he shld do the right fin.man go and see ur inlaws.what is right is worth doi.ng.i promise u she wont disappoint u like the former,cos ur later is sure beta than ur past,in some cases
Posted: at 31-03-2011 01:35 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- MissyBarbie at 31-03-2011 02:05 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Emmandazie on 31-03-2011 01:29 PM
@Miss, na which book you wan read b4 know what to say?

 Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh?
Posted: at 31-03-2011 02:05 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- xena15 at 31-03-2011 02:12 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 31-03-2011 12:51 PM
is everything ok with HANS? if yes, then he should prove them that he is all perfect, they will be the one calling and looking for him to do the Introduction.

Posted: at 31-03-2011 02:12 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Michro at 31-03-2011 02:27 PM (13 years ago)
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Complicated marriage issue..........

Posted: at 31-03-2011 02:27 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- esonu at 31-03-2011 02:48 PM (13 years ago)
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Huh???

Posted: at 31-03-2011 02:48 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Emmandazie at 31-03-2011 03:28 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: princess4jifs on 31-03-2011 01:35 PM
he shld do the right fin.man go and see ur inlaws.what is right is worth doi.ng.i promise u she wont disappoint u like the former,cos ur later is sure beta than ur past,in some cases

But how does he go alone?
Posted: at 31-03-2011 03:28 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 31-03-2011 03:30 PM (13 years ago)
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i see
Posted: at 31-03-2011 03:30 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- pholake at 31-03-2011 03:49 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Emmandazie on 31-03-2011 03:28 PM
Quote from: princess4jifs on 31-03-2011 01:35 PM
he shld do the right fin.man go and see ur inlaws.what is right is worth doi.ng.i promise u she wont disappoint u like the former,cos ur later is sure beta than ur past,in some cases

But how does he go alone?

Let him start from somewhere. He can go alone for the first phase of getting to know his intending in-laws. Afterwards, he should find was of convincing his folks to follow him there (if they truly care about his happiness, they'll oblige) for the final phase.
Posted: at 31-03-2011 03:49 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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