sobeit at 5-04-2011 02:09 PM (13 years ago) (m) passing to the saloon
can i come with u? lolz wetin? make i come with you ? Posted: at 5-04-2011 02:09 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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onyiis at 5-04-2011 02:10 PM (13 years ago) (f) Pals , A newly married friend of mine just told me she had a heated argument with her husband just because she asked him to help her loose her braided hair .
Meanwhile , She said the guy likes braids and often ask her to make them .
So, did she do wrong by asking him to help her ? Guys will you get upset if your gal demands such from you ?
no big deal really ?
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 5-04-2011 02:10 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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truenaija2 at 5-04-2011 02:10 PM (13 years ago) (f) well i enjoy loosing my hair i once told my hubby to help me trim my hair cos i couldnt do it my self he cut my hair by mistake since then i have not trimmed my hair and i think its waste of money going to the saloon just to trim my hair
heheheheheeeeeeeeeeee !!! are u sure he cut it by mistake ? yes i am sure cos he doesnt know how to do it , i know how to do it , so i showed him and assumed it was very simple, but what was simple for me was hard for him, but ny hair is breaking so much but i cant get myself to sit in the saloon just to trim my hair i cant waste such time and moneymaybe that was her thought ......................but ur guy did not get offended by ur asking of course not he did it gladly , he even adviced me to go to the saloon, but i just cant cos in nigeria i have friends and my mum does it for me too , i just do braids and other things worth the money and time in the saloon Posted: at 5-04-2011 02:10 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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onyiis at 5-04-2011 02:10 PM (13 years ago) (f) passing to the saloon
can i come with u? lolz wetin? make i come with you ? i no dey go saloon
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 5-04-2011 02:10 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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It is not in his place to help her loose it.........why not do it herself or visit the saloon?........there are certain requests we should refrain from making.........if the man helps you to do certain things, it doesnt mean you should take it for granted that he would always do it..........
but is it wrong to ask ? Who knows the way she toned her voice when she asked?......she probably asked as if that was his duty.........there are ways you tone your voice to make unpleasant request(s)........when you are asking for something that is not your right to ask, the tone of your voice should change plus your body language......... heheheheheeeeeeeeeeeee !!!! talking from experience Yes ooo.............I hardly make requests, but when I do, my voice and body language dey change........ hmmmmmmm..............supposing u are making the request to his favour ? Making a request in his favour?.........does anyone need much begging to do something for himself/herself?......ok, like maybe he/she has no appetite and am begging him/her to eat?.......... heheheheheheeeeeeeeeeee!!! maybe like begging him to take his bath cheiii........him be dirty pikin?.......anyway I will remind him to take his bath becos he wont sleep on dat bed if him no baff.... .....of course it is not an order, it is a normal request...........
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND! Posted: at 5-04-2011 02:11 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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kebella at 5-04-2011 02:12 PM (13 years ago) (f) yes no wkend for a busy man lik benny lolz
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! Posted: at 5-04-2011 02:12 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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onyiis at 5-04-2011 02:13 PM (13 years ago) (f) well i enjoy loosing my hair i once told my hubby to help me trim my hair cos i couldnt do it my self he cut my hair by mistake since then i have not trimmed my hair and i think its waste of money going to the saloon just to trim my hair
heheheheheeeeeeeeeeee !!! are u sure he cut it by mistake ? yes i am sure cos he doesnt know how to do it , i know how to do it , so i showed him and assumed it was very simple, but what was simple for me was hard for him, but ny hair is breaking so much but i cant get myself to sit in the saloon just to trim my hair i cant waste such time and moneymaybe that was her thought ......................but ur guy did not get offended by ur asking of course not he did it gladly , he even adviced me to go to the saloon, but i just cant cos in nigeria i have friends and my mum does it for me too , i just do braids and other things worth the money and time in the saloon actually they dont stay in Niger .....................am just suprised because according to her thats the very first argument they have since their marriage
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 5-04-2011 02:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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sobeit at 5-04-2011 02:13 PM (13 years ago) (m) passing to the saloon
can i come with u? lolz wetin? make i come with you ? i no dey go saloon e better now.so make i join u go mall or restaurant then Posted: at 5-04-2011 02:13 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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onyiis at 5-04-2011 02:14 PM (13 years ago) (f) It is not in his place to help her loose it.........why not do it herself or visit the saloon?........there are certain requests we should refrain from making.........if the man helps you to do certain things, it doesnt mean you should take it for granted that he would always do it..........
but is it wrong to ask ? Who knows the way she toned her voice when she asked?......she probably asked as if that was his duty.........there are ways you tone your voice to make unpleasant request(s)........when you are asking for something that is not your right to ask, the tone of your voice should change plus your body language......... heheheheheeeeeeeeeeeee !!!! talking from experience Yes ooo.............I hardly make requests, but when I do, my voice and body language dey change........ hmmmmmmm..............supposing u are making the request to his favour ? Making a request in his favour?.........does anyone need much begging to do something for himself/herself?......ok, like maybe he/she has no appetite and am begging him/her to eat?.......... heheheheheheeeeeeeeeeee!!! maybe like begging him to take his bath cheiii........him be dirty pikin?.......anyway I will remind him to take his bath becos he wont sleep on dat bed if him no baff.... .....of course it is not an order, it is a normal request........... but he could get annoyed because he may feel u call him dirty pikin
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 5-04-2011 02:14 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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onyiis at 5-04-2011 02:15 PM (13 years ago) (f) May be she said it wrongly. But as a man i don't see anything wrong in loosening your woman's hair
maybe ...........maybe not
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 5-04-2011 02:15 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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onyiis at 5-04-2011 02:17 PM (13 years ago) (f) Pals , A newly married friend of mine just told me she had a heated argument with her husband just because she asked him to help her loose her braided hair .
Meanwhile , She said the guy likes braids and often ask her to make them .
So, did she do wrong by asking him to help her ? Guys will you get upset if your gal demands such from you ?
thats total nonsense, its suppose to be the other way round how ?
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 5-04-2011 02:17 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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kinkino at 5-04-2011 02:17 PM (13 years ago) (f) it all depends on ht d man likes and dislikes....it also depends on hw she presented her request. som men do loose d hair of their wife...som even do it for fun...all d same it shuldnt hav caused heated argument...let wives / husbands try to understand each other...understanding is vital in any relationship/homes Posted: at 5-04-2011 02:17 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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onyiis at 5-04-2011 02:18 PM (13 years ago) (f) what if they man just do 7 cornrows, that doesnt take time to loose and rebraid. which one is seven corncrows heheheheh .............i no fit laf oooo
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 5-04-2011 02:18 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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onyiis at 5-04-2011 02:20 PM (13 years ago) (f) got u right
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 5-04-2011 02:20 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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onyiis at 5-04-2011 02:21 PM (13 years ago) (f) Pals , A newly married friend of mine just told me she had a heated argument with her husband just because she asked him to help her loose her braided hair .
Meanwhile , She said the guy likes braids and often ask her to make them .
So, did she do wrong by asking him to help her ? Guys will you get upset if your gal demands such from you ?
Either the Guy is Stiff or She Sounded Disrespectful and Persistent when he refused the First time of Asking Tell her make She tell yu the Whole Story Cant talk to her now as she is at work but will give u a feed back soon
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 5-04-2011 02:21 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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onyiis at 5-04-2011 02:23 PM (13 years ago) (f) passing to the saloon
can i come with u? lolz wetin? make i come with you ? i no dey go saloon e better now.so make i join u go mall or restaurant then What if i go to neither ?
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 5-04-2011 02:23 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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truenaija2 at 5-04-2011 02:24 PM (13 years ago) (f) well i enjoy loosing my hair i once told my hubby to help me trim my hair cos i couldnt do it my self he cut my hair by mistake since then i have not trimmed my hair and i think its waste of money going to the saloon just to trim my hair
heheheheheeeeeeeeeeee !!! are u sure he cut it by mistake ? yes i am sure cos he doesnt know how to do it , i know how to do it , so i showed him and assumed it was very simple, but what was simple for me was hard for him, but ny hair is breaking so much but i cant get myself to sit in the saloon just to trim my hair i cant waste such time and moneymaybe that was her thought ......................but ur guy did not get offended by ur asking of course not he did it gladly , he even adviced me to go to the saloon, but i just cant cos in nigeria i have friends and my mum does it for me too , i just do braids and other things worth the money and time in the saloon actually they dont stay in Niger .....................am just suprised because according to her thats the very first argument they have since their marriage nawa oooo so she should start doing it in the saloon nah to avoid dis angle of trouble Posted: at 5-04-2011 02:24 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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onyiis at 5-04-2011 02:25 PM (13 years ago) (f) it all depends on ht d man likes and dislikes....it also depends on hw she presented her request. som men do loose d hair of their wife...som even do it for fun...all d same it shuldnt hav caused heated argument...let wives / husbands try to understand each other...understanding is vital in any relationship/homes
just a matter of understanding .............and playing your cards well
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 5-04-2011 02:25 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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trolling at 5-04-2011 02:29 PM (13 years ago) (m) disrespect to to r Pals , A newly married friend of mine just told me she had a heated argument with her husband just because she asked him to help her loose her braided hair .
Meanwhile , She said the guy likes braids and often ask her to make them .
So, did she do wrong by asking him to help her ? Guys will you get upset if your gal demands such from you ?
thats total nonsense, its suppose to be the other way round how ? its not proper for a married man to do that,dont she have sisters and friends, why she go tell the Man of the house to do her hair, nonsense and disrespect of the highest caliber. Posted: at 5-04-2011 02:29 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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kinkino at 5-04-2011 02:36 PM (13 years ago) (f) [/color] gbam Posted: at 5-04-2011 02:36 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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