The thing that separates a stalker from a silly moonstruck pest intent on following u around ,is that the stalker is firmly fixated on u, whether out of a perverted kind of love or out of hatred for u.He may be a former intimate partner or he may be an erotomaniac, but either way,he believes that he is hopelessly in love with u (yes, he: there are four times as many male stalkers as females; 8% of all women will, at sometime in their lives, be stalked by a male, whereas only 2% of men will be stalked by a women). And,even worse, he believes that, if u are not already in love with him, it is inevitable that u will fall in love with him. Have u ever been in such a situation and how can u get rid of such a person, in a nice way(no police)?
Live and let live!
Posted: at 6-04-2011 12:49 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
blessedme at 6-04-2011 12:51 PM (13 years ago) (f)
just ignore
Posted: at 6-04-2011 12:51 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
i think that is a mental case ooh its simply putting him in a psychiatric hospital
And what if u knew him b4,and that's not the case?
i am very sure its not normal,it must be a mental case, and mental problem can start anytime
is never a mental problem, is a kinda obsessed thing in some people, they just can't help themselves but they keep trying and trying, hoping that the person will surely give up and accept them.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 6-04-2011 01:11 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 6-04-2011 01:13 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: dirtykid on 6-04-2011 01:11 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 6-04-2011 01:05 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 12:54 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 6-04-2011 12:53 PM
i think that is a mental case ooh its simply putting him in a psychiatric hospital
And what if u knew him b4,and that's not the case?
i am very sure its not normal,it must be a mental case, and mental problem can start anytime
is never a mental problem, is a kinda obsessed thing in some people, they just can't help themselves but they keep trying and trying, hoping that the person will surely give up and accept them.
Correct, DK!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 6-04-2011 01:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
truenaija2 at 6-04-2011 01:15 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 01:06 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 6-04-2011 01:05 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 12:54 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 6-04-2011 12:53 PM
i think that is a mental case ooh its simply putting him in a psychiatric hospital
And what if u knew him b4,and that's not the case?
i am very sure its not normal,it must be a mental case, and mental problem can start anytime
How can u stop all that, in a nice way, and for good?
i dont think it can best stopped ooh , mad people are not supposed to be left loose they should be locked u in psychiatric hospital where there are doctors to manage their illness cos i dont know any cure for madness
Posted: at 6-04-2011 01:15 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 6-04-2011 01:20 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: truenaija2 on 6-04-2011 01:15 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 01:06 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 6-04-2011 01:05 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 12:54 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 6-04-2011 12:53 PM
i think that is a mental case ooh its simply putting him in a psychiatric hospital
And what if u knew him b4,and that's not the case?
i am very sure its not normal,it must be a mental case, and mental problem can start anytime
How can u stop all that, in a nice way, and for good?
i dont think it can best stopped ooh , mad people are not supposed to be left loose they should be locked u in psychiatric hospital where there are doctors to manage their illness cos i dont know any cure for madness
Come on!What if u know for sure that it's not a mad person, but just obsessed by u,as DK said?
Live and let live!
Posted: at 6-04-2011 01:20 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
i think that is a mental case ooh its simply putting him in a psychiatric hospital
And what if u knew him b4,and that's not the case?
i am very sure its not normal,it must be a mental case, and mental problem can start anytime
is never a mental problem, is a kinda obsessed thing in some people, they just can't help themselves but they keep trying and trying, hoping that the person will surely give up and accept them.
Correct, DK!
The only way to get rid of such stalker is by approaching him/her in a peaceful and calm way, make the person understand that you're not highly interested that you are engaged already with someone and nothing will make you ever date him/her. Start showing him/her your bf or Gf , even if you don't have one, go and borrow somebody to show off
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 6-04-2011 01:21 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 6-04-2011 01:25 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: dirtykid on 6-04-2011 01:21 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 01:13 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 6-04-2011 01:11 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 6-04-2011 01:05 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 6-04-2011 12:54 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 6-04-2011 12:53 PM
i think that is a mental case ooh its simply putting him in a psychiatric hospital
And what if u knew him b4,and that's not the case?
i am very sure its not normal,it must be a mental case, and mental problem can start anytime
is never a mental problem, is a kinda obsessed thing in some people, they just can't help themselves but they keep trying and trying, hoping that the person will surely give up and accept them.
Correct, DK!
The only way to get rid of such stalker is by approaching him/her in a peaceful and calm way, make the person understand that you're not highly interested that you are engaged already with someone and nothing will make you ever date him/her. Start showing him/her your bf or Gf , even if you don't have one, go and borrow somebody to show off
And what if u've done that already, but he still didn't stop? And what if he does it in such a way that u even start to feel pity for him? (Considering u knew him before)
Live and let live!
Posted: at 6-04-2011 01:25 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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