Can you marry a guy or lady that is not from your tribe?

Date: 26-11-2008 5:18 pm (16 years ago) | Author: Horla Bisy
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- at 26-11-2008 05:18 PM (16 years ago)
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I'm having a problem with my parents, they said I shouldn't get married to the guy I love bcos he is not from my tribe. Please I need advice on how to convince them.

Posted: at 26-11-2008 05:18 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
- Foluso101 at 26-11-2008 05:22 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Bisy on 26-11-2008 05:18 PM
I'm having a problem with my parents, they said I shouldn't get married to the guy I love bcos he is not from my tribe. Please I need advice on how to convince them.

run away from home and they will be convinced and left with no option than granting the request
Posted: at 26-11-2008 05:22 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sa-fire at 26-11-2008 05:23 PM (16 years ago)
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jus marry d boi n 4get ur parents..

Posted: at 26-11-2008 05:23 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SAmyrocko at 26-11-2008 06:25 PM (16 years ago)
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brb

Posted: at 26-11-2008 06:25 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- osituga at 26-11-2008 06:27 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Foluso101 on 26-11-2008 05:22 PM
Quote from: Bisy on 26-11-2008 05:18 PM
I'm having a problem with my parents, they said I shouldn't get married to the guy I love bcos he is not from my tribe. Please I need advice on how to convince them.

run away from home and they will be convinced and left with no option than granting the request

I surport you bros
Posted: at 26-11-2008 06:27 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- damygurl at 26-11-2008 06:38 PM (16 years ago)
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Parents r usually like dat but you don't wanna get married without your parents blessing so i won't advice you to run away. Plus running away doesn't tell them you r matured enough to face the responsibilities dat comes with marriage...so i think you should PRAY and have a one on one conversation with your parents and talk to them form the heart and let them know you really love the guy. Maybe they have other reasons they don't want you to marry the guy, ask them about it, tell them how wonderful he his n let them know why you think you guys r both ready for marriage and let them also know he can n will take care of there little gurl......knowing naija parents dat might not work so call in someone in ur family dats an elder that you know your parents respect and will listen to, preferably your grandparents if they r still alive and have them talk to them for you, last resort bring in the boi with his parents n have them talk to your parent..n if non if this works pray harder n God will give you the answers.
Posted: at 26-11-2008 06:38 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- gen2esther at 26-11-2008 07:52 PM (16 years ago)
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 Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh?
Posted: at 26-11-2008 07:52 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- lonelysnow at 26-11-2008 07:59 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: osituga on 26-11-2008 06:27 PM
Quote from: Foluso101 on 26-11-2008 05:22 PM
Quote from: Bisy on 26-11-2008 05:18 PM
I'm having a problem with my parents, they said I shouldn't get married to the guy I love bcos he is not from my tribe. Please I need advice on how to convince them.

run away from home and they will be convinced and left with no option than granting the request

I surport you bros
i add another support
Posted: at 26-11-2008 07:59 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedchidon at 26-11-2008 08:18 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: damygurl on 26-11-2008 06:38 PM
Parents r usually like dat but you don't wanna get married without your parents blessing so i won't advice you to run away. Plus running away doesn't tell them you r matured enough to face the responsibilities dat comes with marriage...so i think you should PRAY and have a one on one conversation with your parents and talk to them form the heart and let them know you really love the guy. Maybe they have other reasons they don't want you to marry the guy, ask them about it, tell them how wonderful he his n let them know why you think you guys r both ready for marriage and let them also know he can n will take care of there little gurl......knowing naija parents dat might not work so call in someone in ur family dats an elder that you know your parents respect and will listen to, preferably your grandparents if they r still alive and have them talk to them for you, last resort bring in the boi with his parents n have them talk to your parent..n if non if this works pray harder n God will give you the answers.
  Good advice from U. infact u are really a matured person....don't mind the jokers, [@poster which advice again do u want]  but which of u in the pix is damy?
Posted: at 26-11-2008 08:18 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Jannee at 26-11-2008 08:31 PM (16 years ago)
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Tribe,country,race....................doesnt count
Posted: at 26-11-2008 08:31 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- lovemar at 27-11-2008 02:01 PM (16 years ago)
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Hi Bisy,

I like intertribal marriages, but i would want you to put it into PRAYER and then have a HEART to HEART discussion with your PARENTS, added by close RELATIONS putting in WORDS for U.
Posted: at 27-11-2008 02:01 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedchidon at 27-11-2008 02:50 PM (16 years ago)
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yeah, so that God himself will make a prove of the marriage b4 you go into it. <4better 4worse>
Posted: at 27-11-2008 02:50 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kibby at 27-11-2008 03:28 PM (16 years ago)
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well i think u should talk to ur parents abt how u love this guy and u guys are planing to get married but if afta all this they still dnt understand OMO i advice u run away from home and marry this ur heartrob o good kuck

Posted: at 27-11-2008 03:28 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- blessedchidon at 27-11-2008 03:35 PM (16 years ago)
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u spoil ur advise....so u can run away to marry a man?...nawaa 4Uoo, remove the second pix or u want 2advertise urself?
Posted: at 27-11-2008 03:35 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 28-11-2008 03:08 AM (16 years ago)
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Who be Dis Kain Poster?Huh???

Posted: at 28-11-2008 03:08 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- zie85er at 28-11-2008 03:49 AM (16 years ago)
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no marry o!!

Posted: at 28-11-2008 03:49 AM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedchidon at 28-11-2008 04:36 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 28-11-2008 03:08 AM
Who be Dis Kain Poster?Huh???
  i 2wonder oo
Posted: at 28-11-2008 04:36 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blackspotz at 29-11-2008 01:52 AM (16 years ago)
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Seriously i no send tribe, as far she's cute, respectful, loyal, una know the rest na, i am good to go.... wey the girl sef...Lets go there!!!
Posted: at 29-11-2008 01:52 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 29-11-2008 02:35 AM (16 years ago)
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True...
But l no dey for Hausa sha

Posted: at 29-11-2008 02:35 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- chiomsx at 29-11-2008 02:42 AM (16 years ago)
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i can marry a man not only 4rm different tribe but also from different country..ah ah..dis is a new era oh!!! intermarriage is good..Smiley
Posted: at 29-11-2008 02:42 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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