I'm bored because my propose to someone I love so much wasn‘t accepted. (Page 2)

Quote from: bittersweet on 12-04-2011 03:18 PM

Quote from: Jioke12 on 10-04-2011 05:51 PM

Ladies and Gentlemen, I am bored and so devastated because a young lady that I truly love so much turn down my propose because of family issue which she believed will hinder our future union. The family issue is not coming from my side but hers and I am not willing to discuss that on public domain but what can I do now because I still love her and can't let go please? Your advices would be appreciated. Thanks Jioke

Try to think logically, I mean to reason with her,and if it comes that she's right, stop wasting your time with
crying over the spilled milk!

If I do mind about the family issue then she's right but I do not mind, anyway thanks for your comment I do appreciate.

Posted: at 12-04-2011 09:03 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

You're welcome, but,really, even if u don't mind it,it seems that she does, and usually when a woman puts an
end to a relationship, her NO means most of times really a No.
So u better try and move on with your life!
Don't spend time beating on a wall, hoping to transform it into a door.

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Posted: at 12-04-2011 09:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Of course I should be happy that I knew ahead of time but no one knows tomorrow, I hope she reconsider her decision before it's too late, anyway thanks for your comment I do appreciate.

Posted: at 12-04-2011 09:12 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

I do appreciate your comment, thanks.

Posted: at 12-04-2011 09:25 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

I might disagree with you because she has the qualities that I have been searching for and that’s the reason why I can’t let go perhaps there are two types of love we can find in relationships/marriages. Natural love and Material love. Natural love comes inside-out and is willing to carry burdens but Material love has to do with material things like money, cars and etc but she is not materialism. I found it so difficult to understand the whole scenario because we spend hours on phone chatting everyday for past two months with all the assurances in fact I can‘t believe it, anyway thanks for your comment.

Posted: at 12-04-2011 10:11 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

How long have you know this girl and how long have you dated her in real... not FB or talking on phone issue.. I just wish you can give us a hint of what kind of family issue is bringing a wall btw your proposal ?

Any useful hint or answer to this will be cool.

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Posted: at 12-04-2011 10:42 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

@ Bittersweet. CORRECT/NOT CORRECT

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Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:45 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

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Posted: at 13-04-2011 09:08 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

every dissappointment is a blessing in disguise move on and dont force her or try to talk her into giving into you.because she might give in because of your distinctive pressure mounted on her and later you will start to develop problems in the marriage.know this, begging and pestering a woman is not manly.try to stay calm and seek the face of GOD to give you strength to overcome that depressing emotion that has now become a burden.there is an addage which says that "if we relate we will meet" which means that if she is yours she will come back to you no doubt about that and if not move on with life.

Posted: at 13-04-2011 11:46 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

My bro, u re funny ooooo, have u mt wit this lady in real life? forget abt phone calls, fb chatting n all. d fact d gell told u her family issue even go along way to tell u dat this girl is being sincere n factual to u.if she lie abt it and u eventually found something worse than this wat will u do?Meanwhile marriage surpass love,likeness n all, marriage is endurance,peserverance etc. infact those that court for long in real life do have issues nt to talk of virtual courting like urs.

my advice to u is this, try to c ds gell for real, 4get abt marriage now, make friend wt her, make her trust u. u too learn things abt her b4 jumping into marriage or nt marriage.

Bcos once u re married ur eyes go open ooooooooooooo, things u dnt c b4 will surface,as marriage entails, can u endure,persever and live wit these things for the rest of ur life?

Dat is marriage for u. for now i can say u re being infatuated.

Posted: at 13-04-2011 01:33 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie