hii people in house this is happening to 1 of my old friend) let me write this story according to me in other for people to understand well.... am 19 years old i wish 2 b educated more mean going to university my parents ar not financially ok to train me up to the level i want .. now i see a man that's willing to help through my education and i know he has the money and power to do it but on 1 condition > he said he must be making sex with me and did not want to s e me with any man again...whereas this man is married with kids . i told him i cant sell my body bcos of that and he said nothing goes for nothing since then he did int talk to me even when i greet him he wont answered... and non of my family is thereto help . should i accept the offer again......please ladies and gent tell me what to do
Posted: at 12-04-2011 11:10 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
adams933 at 12-04-2011 11:12 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Posted: at 12-04-2011 11:12 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
dirtykid at 12-04-2011 11:23 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: fdkenny on 12-04-2011 11:10 AM
hii people in house this is happening to 1 of my old friend) let me write this story according to me in other for people to understand well.... am 19 years old i wish 2 b educated more mean going to university my parents ar not financially ok to train me up to the level i want .. now i see a man that's willing to help through my education and i know he has the money and power to do it but on 1 condition > he said he must be making sex with me and did not want to s e me with any man again...whereas this man is married with kids . i told him i cant sell my body bcos of that and he said nothing goes for nothing since then he did int talk to me even when i greet him he wont answered... and non of my family is thereto help . should i accept the offer again......please ladies and gent tell me what to do
Accept what ? Fornication, adultery in the highest order, because she want to get education ? what happen to her extended family members, Can't she reach/contact them, or better figure something else out that could help her raise money to facilitate/further her education, Why is it that most girls nowadays end up with this kind of life, hoping on some Men to finish their education or attend Uni.. ? She should listen to herself and this story, at age 19yrs, she's already thinking of having affair with married man, she didn't even care to think about the consequences in future, Tell your friend whatsoever someone sow, thats what the person will reap !!
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 12-04-2011 11:23 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
adams933 at 12-04-2011 11:30 AM (13 years ago) (m)
I won't ask you not to go to school, but there is something like cheating going on here, he has his own family, and would not want to see you with another guy, then if u happens to fall for his offer and eventually he saw you with a guy that is the end of your studies.
Posted: at 12-04-2011 11:30 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
chicanorose at 12-04-2011 11:37 AM (13 years ago) (f)
girl if u sleep with a married man, he has nothing to loose, but u have alot to loose. at the end of the day, he would still go back to his beloved wife while u will be searching for ur own husband
I bet u, when u wan chop cake, na then u go knw say oven dey.
Posted: at 12-04-2011 11:37 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 12-04-2011 12:07 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: fdkenny on 12-04-2011 11:10 AM
hii people in house this is happening to 1 of my old friend) let me write this story according to me in other for people to understand well.... am 19 years old i wish 2 b educated more mean going to university my parents ar not financially ok to train me up to the level i want .. now i see a man that's willing to help through my education and i know he has the money and power to do it but on 1 condition > he said he must be making sex with me and did not want to s e me with any man again...whereas this man is married with kids . i told him i cant sell my body bcos of that and he said nothing goes for nothing since then he did int talk to me even when i greet him he wont answered... and non of my family is thereto help . should i accept the offer again......please ladies and gent tell me what to do
Why on earth she would even take in consideration such an offer? With God's help,there will be another way!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 12-04-2011 12:07 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
Youngstoriez at 12-04-2011 12:27 PM (13 years ago) (m)
....Girl!!!! My advice is...u can perfectly make it without that jackass ooo.....he is married with kids and still dont want to see you with another man...if yu do accept d offer....u may possibly be ruining ur life slowly and u wudnt know...there is no hope from such men if dose are the only kind of men u'll ever meet to help and havin' sex with yu......make yu sell ur body to them cos of education.....u'd better dont or dont even think about it or rather remain like that..there are many good people out there to help yu.....u've got relations..i think!!....i knw ur condition can make you jump into somethin' really bad just to make ur dreams come true...but on the other side of it.....wats gonna be result???.....u'll regret and wish u were dead b4 then, instead of living! pls.....DO NOT accept it...dont even dream of it....hehe.."dat Nothin goes with nothin"...wat a foolish man....lemme remind yu..he just want to ruin ur life and dump yu real bad. cos he think u've no other hope, but dear u've got hope and full loads of them!!...just keep ur head up..u'll see them!!
Posted: at 12-04-2011 12:27 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
jossy4reall at 12-04-2011 12:39 PM (13 years ago) (m)
To my candid opinion, I suggest dat u even stop greeting him. Wat he is trying to lure u into is wat u will regret 4 d rest of ur life, infact he wants to take advantage of ur body and den kick u in d butt.
Think of these: Wat if u start having sex wit him and along d line he stops financing ur education for one reason or d oda. Wat if his wife finds out who will rescue u 4rm her, hw would u think pple will take u or react finding out dat u are doing it wit married man at ur age cuz nothing is hidden uder d son, one day pple must know about for its a long term journey. To cut it short think of hw u will make ur creator feels by doing dat.
Pls kneel down n pray 2 ur God for help.
Then if u are christian take dis bold step by going 2 church 2 beg for arm, I mean well reputed churches dat u know they can handle it , pls don't be shy since u know wat u are looking for. Try as much as u can 2 get in touch wit d Pastor, prophet or Reverend Father of d church and cry for help. There is going 2 b disappointments but at last u shall prevail, I assure u dat b4 u try about 3 to 4 churches by Gods grace u will get wat u want at least for a start and d God who can start d gud work will surely c u to the end. It is not going 2 b an easy task but try as much as u can for a brighter future.
May God in his infinite mercy provide 4 u in Jesus name.
Love or Hate me its ur Biz, I have more important things to think abt since u never gonna change me
Posted: at 12-04-2011 12:39 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
jossy4reall at 12-04-2011 01:06 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Youngstoriez on 12-04-2011 12:27 PM
....Girl!!!! My advice is...u can perfectly make it without that jackass ooo.....he is married with kids and still dont want to see you with another man...if yu do accept d offer....u may possibly be ruining ur life slowly and u wudnt know...there is no hope from such men if dose are the only kind of men u'll ever meet to help and havin' sex with yu......make yu sell ur body to them cos of education.....u'd better dont or dont even think about it or rather remain like that..there are many good people out there to help yu.....u've got relations..i think!!....i knw ur condition can make you jump into somethin' really bad just to make ur dreams come true...but on the other side of it.....wats gonna be result???.....u'll regret and wish u were dead b4 then, instead of living! pls.....DO NOT accept it...dont even dream of it....hehe.."dat Nothin goes with nothin"...wat a foolish man....lemme remind yu..he just want to ruin ur life and dump yu real bad. cos he think u've no other hope, but dear u've got hope and full loads of them!!...just keep ur head up..u'll see them!!
And God will make a way where there is no way
Love or Hate me its ur Biz, I have more important things to think abt since u never gonna change me
Posted: at 12-04-2011 01:06 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
trolling at 12-04-2011 01:09 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Na must to go school,even people wey go school, never get job, if no be westernization, wetin be the big deal about univesal cities(university) or universal indoctrination,if you get man wey ready to marry you,u better take it and settle down to have a family,the fact say u get 5 degrees doesnt make you any better, your joy would be to be married to a man that would take care of you and might even open a shop for you to trade, at the end of the day with all this massa's degree, you are still incomplete without being married with your own family.
Posted: at 12-04-2011 01:09 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Youngstoriez at 12-04-2011 01:10 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: jossy4reall on 12-04-2011 01:06 PM
Quote from: Youngstoriez on 12-04-2011 12:27 PM
....Girl!!!! My advice is...u can perfectly make it without that jackass ooo.....he is married with kids and still dont want to see you with another man...if yu do accept d offer....u may possibly be ruining ur life slowly and u wudnt know...there is no hope from such men if dose are the only kind of men u'll ever meet to help and havin' sex with yu......make yu sell ur body to them cos of education.....u'd better dont or dont even think about it or rather remain like that..there are many good people out there to help yu.....u've got relations..i think!!....i knw ur condition can make you jump into somethin' really bad just to make ur dreams come true...but on the other side of it.....wats gonna be result???.....u'll regret and wish u were dead b4 then, instead of living! pls.....DO NOT accept it...dont even dream of it....hehe.."dat Nothin goes with nothin"...wat a foolish man....lemme remind yu..he just want to ruin ur life and dump yu real bad. cos he think u've no other hope, but dear u've got hope and full loads of them!!...just keep ur head up..u'll see them!!
And God will make a way where there is no way
yessss...!! missed somethin, rite there!!
Posted: at 12-04-2011 01:10 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
truenaija2 at 12-04-2011 01:22 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: trolling on 12-04-2011 01:09 PM
Na must to go school,even people wey go school, never get job, if no be westernization, wetin be the big deal about univesal cities(university) or universal indoctrination,if you get man wey ready to marry you,u better take it and settle down to have a family,the fact say u get 5 degrees doesnt make you any better, your joy would be to be married to a man that would take care of you and might even open a shop for you to trade, at the end of the day with all this massa's degree, you are still incomplete without being married with your own family.
exactly and she said her parents dont have the money why not cut ur coat according to your size , dis is what yoruba call ojukokoro , why not start selling pure water since u r a decent girl or start up something with the little u have , there is selling recharge card and small businesses then build on that then if u know that one day u have enough money t o go to school then u go to school, u obviously dont have the money to go to school why live in a fantasy , this is thb root of girls using jazz on men just to get money or doing other things, we r not in a fantasy world we are in a world of reality
Posted: at 12-04-2011 01:22 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Youngstoriez at 12-04-2011 01:26 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: trolling on 12-04-2011 01:09 PM
Na must to go school,even people wey go school, never get job, if no be westernization, wetin be the big deal about univesal cities(university) or universal indoctrination,if you get man wey ready to marry you,u better take it and settle down to have a family,the fact say u get 5 degrees doesnt make you any better, your joy would be to be married to a man that would take care of you and might even open a shop for you to trade, at the end of the day with all this massa's degree, you are still incomplete without being married with your own family.
....Nah nah...bro!!! The first one slashed up there....is kinda wrong to some extent ooo....its not a must, but its very good! dat now looks like a discouragement.....her hope is not lost and i dnt think so! there is joy when ure kinda independent sometimes...when she is a graduate with a good degree of her's, even if she didnt have a job, she's gonna be fully happy with her man in d future, dat she's done evrything she ever wanted to do...wats gonna be the joy if shes an illiterete with money??...rich without education??.....its very successful being rich but to some level when ure not educated??.....haba!! Its gonna build up her intelligency...and reasoning na! there are many guys out there..with no complete education...but are very rich, inside of them they aint happy....about been incomplete in life o!!....but the advice still sticks dat....she's got hope without that wicked man! The man will ruin her life
Posted: at 12-04-2011 01:26 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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