She is married to her boss (Page 3)

Date: 13-04-2011 11:40 am (13 years ago) | Author: Pep
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- kebella at 13-04-2011 12:46 PM (13 years ago)
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such is life................may God strengthen her to endure   Grin Grin Grin men re not to be trust Huh? next time she shuld becareful n' make enquires Cool

Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:46 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- pholake at 13-04-2011 12:54 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 13-04-2011 12:46 PM
such is life................may God strengthen her to endure   Grin Grin Grin men re not to be trust Huh? next time she shuld becareful n' make enquires Cool

Exactly! But in some cases, the man is so deviously smart that the lady couldn't suspect!
IN this case, the man is nothing but a player.....he doesn't cherish family life....has no family value....it's only money that means something to him....
Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:54 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 13-04-2011 12:55 PM (13 years ago)
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If I were d woman in question
this man is a gold digger and after digging d gold he will gladly go and share it with his wife and children....he is digging d gold from me, so there is noway he can share wif me......

My first action will be getting rude of the pregnancy cos i dont need anything to remind me of him
secondly sue him for bigamy and make d court get back all ma properties for me including d business
file in for divorce and walk out of his life.........dont get me wrong...i need a man to love me for who i am and not a stingy gold digger

You never can tell what dis men could do....He has a very big reason y he went dat far to marry this lady and i promise i would have help him terminate that his stupid reason.....

See some men could really go to an extent to get wat they want....I ve seen a big time player who approach a young lady who was saving her virginity for her husband-to-be...cos dis man ask her out and she told him same.....this man went as far as traditional, white and court marriage just to disvirgin this lady and after he got his aim he threw d lady back to her family d following day after d wedding

so many things happens everyday and one just need to be very careful in life dealings

NB: I never ask d lady to take ma advice...buh that is exactly wat i would have done
Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:55 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 13-04-2011 12:56 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on 13-04-2011 12:29 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 13-04-2011 12:15 PM
Thought on my mind right now
-This man could be funny and i strongly believe he is upto something
-It could be a planned marriage whom his 1st wife is aware of
-Maybe to get d lady's money and channel all her wealth to his control room
-Later divorce d newly wedded and go back to d first one

I just pity d lady....still thinking on wat to advice her cos i strongly believe that her so called hubby is a snake

green snake
exactly
Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:56 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- chiglamour4u at 13-04-2011 12:58 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 13-04-2011 12:55 PM
If I were d woman in question
this man is a gold digger and after digging d gold he will gladly go and share it with his wife and children....he is digging d gold from me, so there is noway he can share wif me......

My first action will be getting rude of the pregnancy cos i dont need anything to remind me of him
secondly sue him for bigamy and make d court get back all ma properties for me including d business
file in for divorce and walk out of his life.........dont get me wrong...i need a man to love me for who i am and not a stingy gold digger

You never can tell what dis men could do....He has a very big reason y he went dat far to marry this lady and i promise i would have help him terminate that his stupid reason.....

See some men could really go to an extent to get wat they want....I ve seen a big time player who approach a young lady who was saving her virginity for her husband-to-be...cos dis man ask her out and she told him same.....this man went as far as traditional, white and court marriage just to disvirgin this lady and after he got his aim he threw d lady back to her family d following day after d wedding

so many things happens everyday and one just need to be very careful in life dealings

NB: I never ask d lady to take ma advice...buh that is exactly wat i would have done

nt that easy gurl. and getting rid of the babe is one thing i will nt advice her to do even if she dnt wnt to continue with d marriage
Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:58 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 13-04-2011 12:59 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-04-2011 12:42 PM
Quote from: Pepesy on 13-04-2011 12:26 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-04-2011 12:18 PM
Quote from: Pepesy on 13-04-2011 12:11 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-04-2011 12:03 PM
make en keep the two of them naaa..
the only thing be say.. the wife wey make am get the job go be en first lady

Buh Sophie, e no easy 4 d babe right o

NA FOR BETTER FOR  WORSE

My dear, dis kind better for worse hmn! she never bargain for dis o

MAKE SHE MANAGE NAAAA..

the truth is .. maybe she was too desperate to marry that she hadn't chance to see tru this guy, no him well, or ask peeps around to tell abt him
my dear there is nothing like manage in marriage
marriage is suppose to be enjoy and not to endure
Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:59 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 13-04-2011 01:06 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on 13-04-2011 12:58 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 13-04-2011 12:55 PM
If I were d woman in question
this man is a gold digger and after digging d gold he will gladly go and share it with his wife and children....he is digging d gold from me, so there is noway he can share wif me......

My first action will be getting rude of the pregnancy cos i dont need anything to remind me of him
secondly sue him for bigamy and make d court get back all ma properties for me including d business
file in for divorce and walk out of his life.........dont get me wrong...i need a man to love me for who i am and not a stingy gold digger

You never can tell what dis men could do....He has a very big reason y he went dat far to marry this lady and i promise i would have help him terminate that his stupid reason.....

See some men could really go to an extent to get wat they want....I ve seen a big time player who approach a young lady who was saving her virginity for her husband-to-be...cos dis man ask her out and she told him same.....this man went as far as traditional, white and court marriage just to disvirgin this lady and after he got his aim he threw d lady back to her family d following day after d wedding

so many things happens everyday and one just need to be very careful in life dealings

NB: I never ask d lady to take ma advice...buh that is exactly wat i would have done

nt that easy gurl. and getting rid of the babe is one thing i will nt advice her to do even if she dnt wnt to continue with d marriage
that is y i said am not advicing her to take ma advice...but i trust maself....just wat i would have done
maybe u need to know that there is a very thin line btw love and hate....once i found out his plan...i would have hated him more than d way i use to loved him.......if i keep d child...that means there is still a bond btw d two of us and this can actually bring us back again for him to fulfil his dirty act/plan
Posted: at 13-04-2011 01:06 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Pepesy at 13-04-2011 01:10 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-04-2011 12:42 PM
Quote from: Pepesy on 13-04-2011 12:26 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-04-2011 12:18 PM
Quote from: Pepesy on 13-04-2011 12:11 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 13-04-2011 12:03 PM
make en keep the two of them naaa..
the only thing be say.. the wife wey make am get the job go be en first lady

Buh Sophie, e no easy 4 d babe right o

NA FOR BETTER FOR  WORSE

My dear, dis kind better for worse hmn! she never bargain for dis o

MAKE SHE MANAGE NAAAA..

the truth is .. maybe she was too desperate to marry that she hadn't chance to see tru this guy, no him well, or ask peeps around to tell abt him

Sophie l dis agree wif u on dis.
U knw men can be too trickish at times especially when they re desperate 2 get smting off a woman they can go any length. Remember, they workd 2gether as boss nd Sec., u can see d closeness still she wznt able 2 find out. l strongly blv d dude is up to smting nd his plans is still unfinished.
Posted: at 13-04-2011 01:10 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 13-04-2011 01:17 PM (13 years ago)
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I tell u by the time he finished wit d lady, she will be very sorry for herself cos he will not even remember he has a child wif her not to talk of taking responsibilities......He went for another marriage after he was married b4...are u even sure it was his real parent that came for d marriage or fake ones

Just tell her to buckle her seat belt cos its not too late
Posted: at 13-04-2011 01:17 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 13-04-2011 01:54 PM (13 years ago)
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ok oo. oya na.. make she dis marry d man Lips Sealed

Posted: at 13-04-2011 01:54 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Pepesy at 13-04-2011 01:56 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 13-04-2011 12:55 PM
If I were d woman in question
this man is a gold digger and after digging d gold he will gladly go and share it with his wife and children....he is digging d gold from me, so there is noway he can share wif me......

My first action will be getting rude of the pregnancy cos i dont need anything to remind me of him
secondly sue him for bigamy and make d court get back all ma properties for me including d business
file in for divorce and walk out of his life.........dont get me wrong...i need a man to love me for who i am and not a stingy gold digger

You never can tell what dis men could do....He has a very big reason y he went dat far to marry this lady and i promise i would have help him terminate that his stupid reason.....

See some men could really go to an extent to get wat they want....I ve seen a big time player who approach a young lady who was saving her virginity for her husband-to-be...cos dis man ask her out and she told him same.....this man went as far as traditional, white and court marriage just to disvirgin this lady and after he got his aim he threw d lady back to her family d following day after d wedding

so many things happens everyday and one just need to be very careful in life dealings

NB: I never ask d lady to take ma advice...buh that is exactly wat i would have done

U re very correct sweetie Kiss Kiss only God will deliver women frm d hands of men of nawodays. their selfishness is bcoming unbearable. if l were in her shoes,,,, l dont need any1's advice. l'd ve filed 4 a divorce one hand. They handwriting is boldly written on d wall.
Posted: at 13-04-2011 01:56 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 13-04-2011 02:03 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: pholake on 13-04-2011 12:54 PM
Quote from: kebella on 13-04-2011 12:46 PM
such is life................may God strengthen her to endure   Grin Grin Grin men re not to be trust Huh? next time she shuld becareful n' make enquires Cool

Exactly! But in some cases, the man is so deviously smart that the lady couldn't suspect!
IN this case, the man is nothing but a player.....he doesn't cherish family life....has no family value....it's only money that means something to him....
yea buh i dont totally agree with yu unless she didnt court d man b4 marrying him, men can be so smart buh not in this case , they can do such only with their gurlfrd not with they wife. ur right abt his irresponsible life style , no family valve n' all that matters to him is money  Huh? Huh?

Posted: at 13-04-2011 02:03 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- MissyBarbie at 13-04-2011 02:08 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Pepesy on 13-04-2011 11:40 AM
This lady is at the verge of takin drastic decision pls help? This lady got married 4 months ago to a 34yr old man who waz her boss. She helped him secured a big job and right now both of them are doing the business together. 2weeks ago, she discovered her hubby was married with 2 kids who were living in another city. She confronted him about it and he didn’t deny it buh rather apologised and promised to divorce his first wife and kids for her.
Note; she was married properly (both traditional, white and court wedding were been performed) and the lady in question is 2 months pregnant.
If you were in her shoes what will you do or what will you advice her to do?


Shit happens jo...the lady should accept her fate as it is

Posted: at 13-04-2011 02:08 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Pepesy at 13-04-2011 02:10 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: MissyBarbie on 13-04-2011 02:08 PM
Quote from: Pepesy on 13-04-2011 11:40 AM
This lady is at the verge of takin drastic decision pls help? This lady got married 4 months ago to a 34yr old man who waz her boss. She helped him secured a big job and right now both of them are doing the business together. 2weeks ago, she discovered her hubby was married with 2 kids who were living in another city. She confronted him about it and he didn’t deny it buh rather apologised and promised to divorce his first wife and kids for her.
Note; she was married properly (both traditional, white and court wedding were been performed) and the lady in question is 2 months pregnant.
If you were in her shoes what will you do or what will you advice her to do?


Shit happens jo...the lady should accept her fate as it is


Noted!
Posted: at 13-04-2011 02:10 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- MissyBarbie at 13-04-2011 02:10 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 13-04-2011 01:17 PM
I tell u by the time he finished wit d lady, she will be very sorry for herself cos he will not even remember he has a child wif her not to talk of taking responsibilities......He went for another marriage after he was married b4...are u even sure it was his real parent that came for d marriage or fake ones

Just tell her to buckle her seat belt cos its not too late

Ble are you saying......

Mba
Posted: at 13-04-2011 02:10 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- solid_solid at 13-04-2011 02:22 PM (13 years ago)
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the man na guy man
Posted: at 13-04-2011 02:22 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pepesy at 13-04-2011 02:25 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: solid_solid on 13-04-2011 02:22 PM
the man na guy man

Is dat ur final ansa?
Posted: at 13-04-2011 02:25 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- harold634 at 13-04-2011 02:37 PM (13 years ago)
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This is bullshit, the man could be a player, a gold digger, a destroyer or opposite of what i just listed. First, it could be that the man is actually in love with this lady but polygamist in nature. Assumed if he was legally married to his first wife who happen to be the mother of his children, this shows that something is boiling dangeroulsly. If he wasn't legally married to his first woman, maybe he decided to save his best 4 love. the new wedded lady should remain calm and find out about the man first wife to gather some usefull information that will help her decide the best of her decision taken. As 4 me, she shouldn't get rid of the pregnancy, what happen has happened. she should play along with utmost care and prayer.
Posted: at 13-04-2011 02:37 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 13-04-2011 02:54 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Pepesy on 13-04-2011 02:25 PM
Quote from: solid_solid on 13-04-2011 02:22 PM
the man na guy man

Is dat ur final ansa?
nope!! he can use d life line Grin Grin
Posted: at 13-04-2011 02:54 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 13-04-2011 02:58 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: MissyBarbie on 13-04-2011 02:10 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 13-04-2011 01:17 PM
I tell u by the time he finished wit d lady, she will be very sorry for herself cos he will not even remember he has a child wif her not to talk of taking responsibilities......He went for another marriage after he was married b4...are u even sure it was his real parent that came for d marriage or fake ones

Just tell her to buckle her seat belt cos its not too late

Ble are you saying......

Mba
i don talk ma own finish....GBAM!!
Posted: at 13-04-2011 02:58 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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