Should you date a man fresh out of a divorce?

Date: 14-04-2011 11:10 pm (13 years ago) | Author: angelslos
[1] 2
- at 14-04-2011 11:10 PM (13 years ago)
(f)
Should you date a man fresh out of a divorce?


Posted: at 14-04-2011 11:10 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
- onedoor1010 at 14-04-2011 11:15 PM (13 years ago)
(m)
HOW?
Posted: at 14-04-2011 11:15 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
- princedafe at 14-04-2011 11:17 PM (13 years ago)
(m)
IT IS NOT A CRIME

WAT A PDS POST
Posted: at 14-04-2011 11:17 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
- xena15 at 14-04-2011 11:26 PM (13 years ago)
(f)
He cnt possibly fall in love with a woman rite out of divorce!
He nids time!
It's a no no 4 me...until he must've put himself together,picked up d pieces of his life,and moved ahead!!

Posted: at 14-04-2011 11:26 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
- tando at 15-04-2011 07:51 AM (13 years ago)
(f)
he's trouble because he does not trust any woman. he'll just use as to satisfy his desires.
Posted: at 15-04-2011 07:51 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
- bittersweet at 15-04-2011 09:45 AM (13 years ago)
(f)
Dating a man who's fresh out of his divorce is always a dangerous undertaking.Recently divorced men have special agendas.Some want to play hard & have as many women as possible as quickly as possible to reassure themselves that they're still sexy,desirable & really better off single.Others want to get into another relationship right away to show their ex-wives that they can easily be replaced with another woman!
Freshly divorced men r often still wounded by what they lost in d divorce,accusations that were made,& d unfairness of it all. They aren't ready to get into a real relationship,& d women they date right after d divorce r usually so called " interim woman",women who r filling an emptiness & not really women they want to spend their lives with.These men often don't look around,but instead grab d first woman they see, as a security blanket against loneliness.
So many times, the interim woman is used as a sounding board,listening endlessly to tales of what the ex-wife did wrong,what she took that she didn't deserve,& how the guy was a great husband & d ex wife was a lousy wife.Then,when he feels stronger,when his life is back on a more even keel,& he begins to think he could survive being alone,he dumps the interim woman.

Posted: at 15-04-2011 09:45 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- frayobkk at 15-04-2011 09:47 AM (13 years ago)
(m)
what is fresh after divorce
na second hand now
abeg tell me another thing

Posted: at 15-04-2011 09:47 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
- tando at 15-04-2011 11:10 AM (13 years ago)
(f)
thanks bittersweet. what you said its true. i'll be careful now
Posted: at 15-04-2011 11:10 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
- blessedme at 15-04-2011 11:16 AM (13 years ago)
(f)
 Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed
Posted: at 15-04-2011 11:16 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- bittersweet at 15-04-2011 11:50 AM (13 years ago)
(f)
Quote from: tando on 15-04-2011 11:10 AM
thanks bittersweet. what you said its true. i'll be careful now

You're welcome!

Posted: at 15-04-2011 11:50 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- wallas at 15-04-2011 11:56 AM (13 years ago)
(m)
blame it on men!!!
 Angry Angry
Posted: at 15-04-2011 11:56 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
- bittersweet at 15-04-2011 12:01 PM (13 years ago)
(f)
 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Posted: at 15-04-2011 12:01 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- sobeit at 15-04-2011 12:08 PM (13 years ago)
(m)
Quote from: tando on 15-04-2011 11:10 AM
thanks bittersweet. what you said its true. i'll be careful now

where you or currently dating a fresh divorced huh?
Posted: at 15-04-2011 12:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
- MissyBarbie at 15-04-2011 12:15 PM (13 years ago)
(f)
Quote from: xgel on 14-04-2011 11:10 PM
Should you date a man fresh out of a divorce?

Nah...buh i can actually date him if he feels its d right thing for him to do @ dat moment...nothing spoil
Posted: at 15-04-2011 12:15 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- MissyBarbie at 15-04-2011 12:17 PM (13 years ago)
(f)
Quote from: blessedme on 15-04-2011 11:16 AM
Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed

Ble this ya pix na elele ooooo

 Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue Tongue
Posted: at 15-04-2011 12:17 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
Reply
- tando at 15-04-2011 01:40 PM (13 years ago)
(f)
@sobeit, nope. just learning
Posted: at 15-04-2011 01:40 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
- HearMyCry at 15-04-2011 01:49 PM (13 years ago)
(f)
Quote from: bittersweet on 15-04-2011 09:45 AM
Dating a man who's fresh out of his divorce is always a dangerous undertaking.Recently divorced men have special agendas.Some want to play hard & have as many women as possible as quickly as possible to reassure themselves that they're still sexy,desirable & really better off single.Others want to get into another relationship right away to show their ex-wives that they can easily be replaced with another woman!
Freshly divorced men r often still wounded by what they lost in d divorce,accusations that were made,& d unfairness of it all. They aren't ready to get into a real relationship,& d women they date right after d divorce r usually so called " interim woman",women who r filling an emptiness & not really women they want to spend their lives with.These men often don't look around,but instead grab d first woman they see, as a security blanket against loneliness.
So many times, the interim woman is used as a sounding board,listening endlessly to tales of what the ex-wife did wrong,what she took that she didn't deserve,& how the guy was a great husband & d ex wife was a lousy wife.Then,when he feels stronger,when his life is back on a more even keel,& he begins to think he could survive being alone,he dumps the interim woman.


wow, thumbs up BS
Posted: at 15-04-2011 01:49 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
Reply
- pholake at 15-04-2011 01:56 PM (13 years ago)
(f)
Before even saying yes to a previously divorced man or woman-whether fresh or stale, u need to do ur independent findings on what led to the divorce.....weigh the factors before taking the big leap
Posted: at 15-04-2011 01:56 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
- Pepesy at 15-04-2011 02:14 PM (13 years ago)
(f)
 Undecided
Posted: at 15-04-2011 02:14 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Reply
- bittersweet at 15-04-2011 02:43 PM (13 years ago)
(f)
Quote from: HearMyCry on 15-04-2011 01:49 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 15-04-2011 09:45 AM
Dating a man who's fresh out of his divorce is always a dangerous undertaking.Recently divorced men have special agendas.Some want to play hard & have as many women as possible as quickly as possible to reassure themselves that they're still sexy,desirable & really better off single.Others want to get into another relationship right away to show their ex-wives that they can easily be replaced with another woman!
Freshly divorced men r often still wounded by what they lost in d divorce,accusations that were made,& d unfairness of it all. They aren't ready to get into a real relationship,& d women they date right after d divorce r usually so called " interim woman",women who r filling an emptiness & not really women they want to spend their lives with.These men often don't look around,but instead grab d first woman they see, as a security blanket against loneliness.
So many times, the interim woman is used as a sounding board,listening endlessly to tales of what the ex-wife did wrong,what she took that she didn't deserve,& how the guy was a great husband & d ex wife was a lousy wife.Then,when he feels stronger,when his life is back on a more even keel,& he begins to think he could survive being alone,he dumps the interim woman.



wow, thumbs up BS



Posted: at 15-04-2011 02:43 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
Reply
[1] 2