He cnt possibly fall in love with a woman rite out of divorce! He nids time! It's a no no 4 me...until he must've put himself together,picked up d pieces of his life,and moved ahead!!
D devil must b using ur destiny 2 weave his pubic hair if u think imma change all ma colors 4 u!
Posted: at 14-04-2011 11:26 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 15-04-2011 09:45 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Dating a man who's fresh out of his divorce is always a dangerous undertaking.Recently divorced men have special agendas.Some want to play hard & have as many women as possible as quickly as possible to reassure themselves that they're still sexy,desirable & really better off single.Others want to get into another relationship right away to show their ex-wives that they can easily be replaced with another woman! Freshly divorced men r often still wounded by what they lost in d divorce,accusations that were made,& d unfairness of it all. They aren't ready to get into a real relationship,& d women they date right after d divorce r usually so called " interim woman",women who r filling an emptiness & not really women they want to spend their lives with.These men often don't look around,but instead grab d first woman they see, as a security blanket against loneliness. So many times, the interim woman is used as a sounding board,listening endlessly to tales of what the ex-wife did wrong,what she took that she didn't deserve,& how the guy was a great husband & d ex wife was a lousy wife.Then,when he feels stronger,when his life is back on a more even keel,& he begins to think he could survive being alone,he dumps the interim woman.
Live and let live!
Posted: at 15-04-2011 09:45 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
HearMyCry at 15-04-2011 01:49 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: bittersweet on 15-04-2011 09:45 AM
Dating a man who's fresh out of his divorce is always a dangerous undertaking.Recently divorced men have special agendas.Some want to play hard & have as many women as possible as quickly as possible to reassure themselves that they're still sexy,desirable & really better off single.Others want to get into another relationship right away to show their ex-wives that they can easily be replaced with another woman! Freshly divorced men r often still wounded by what they lost in d divorce,accusations that were made,& d unfairness of it all. They aren't ready to get into a real relationship,& d women they date right after d divorce r usually so called " interim woman",women who r filling an emptiness & not really women they want to spend their lives with.These men often don't look around,but instead grab d first woman they see, as a security blanket against loneliness. So many times, the interim woman is used as a sounding board,listening endlessly to tales of what the ex-wife did wrong,what she took that she didn't deserve,& how the guy was a great husband & d ex wife was a lousy wife.Then,when he feels stronger,when his life is back on a more even keel,& he begins to think he could survive being alone,he dumps the interim woman.
wow, thumbs up BS
Posted: at 15-04-2011 01:49 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
Before even saying yes to a previously divorced man or woman-whether fresh or stale, u need to do ur independent findings on what led to the divorce.....weigh the factors before taking the big leap
Posted: at 15-04-2011 01:56 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 15-04-2011 02:43 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: HearMyCry on 15-04-2011 01:49 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 15-04-2011 09:45 AM
Dating a man who's fresh out of his divorce is always a dangerous undertaking.Recently divorced men have special agendas.Some want to play hard & have as many women as possible as quickly as possible to reassure themselves that they're still sexy,desirable & really better off single.Others want to get into another relationship right away to show their ex-wives that they can easily be replaced with another woman! Freshly divorced men r often still wounded by what they lost in d divorce,accusations that were made,& d unfairness of it all. They aren't ready to get into a real relationship,& d women they date right after d divorce r usually so called " interim woman",women who r filling an emptiness & not really women they want to spend their lives with.These men often don't look around,but instead grab d first woman they see, as a security blanket against loneliness. So many times, the interim woman is used as a sounding board,listening endlessly to tales of what the ex-wife did wrong,what she took that she didn't deserve,& how the guy was a great husband & d ex wife was a lousy wife.Then,when he feels stronger,when his life is back on a more even keel,& he begins to think he could survive being alone,he dumps the interim woman.
wow, thumbs up BS
Live and let live!
Posted: at 15-04-2011 02:43 PM (13 years ago) | Hero