How To Spot A Cheat

Date: 15-04-2011 12:42 am (13 years ago) | Author: Daniel Bosai
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Knowing someone who is cheating on you is very difficult especially if you are so much in love with that person. Ok, these steps should help you spot a cheat easily


•When your spouse is overtly protective of his mails, phones and messages, you’ll be tempted to ask what he/she is hiding from a loved one. Dealing with this requires a lot of wisdom because as adults, we are entitled to privacy but when privacy poses strain on love, what should be done?

•Reduced communication is another subtle aspect of a wobbly relationship. People who talk freely may not be able to keep secret, so to fool the other party, there seem to be little communication. It’s often said that a man’s mouth is the window to his heart, if he keeps this window open, sooner or later, the world would know what lurks in the dark.


•Watch out for extremes: It’s totally impossible to cheat and remain the same. The culprit will either ever be making empty promises or talk about things you can do together in the future that however, somehow, never materialise. If you bring them up, there’ll be tons of excuses as to why they’re not possible, this is the negligent attitude. On the other hand, he/she might suddenly appear to be unnecessarily nice and supportive; totally blindfolding you to believe there’s so much love for you. Can you equate love with gifts and riches, no, love is meant to be for humans not material things.
Finding yourself in the position of being cheated could be horrible but would you let it destroy you like Anna Stones? No, it’s not necessary, talk about it, forgive, sit down together and work out how to move your relationship to a more romantic level, don’t let any parasite distract you, love is sweet.



Posted: at 15-04-2011 12:42 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- diplomatik at 15-04-2011 04:28 AM (13 years ago)
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reading..and taking notes...oops! no pen  Tongue Grin Grin

Posted: at 15-04-2011 04:28 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- jossy4reall at 15-04-2011 04:49 AM (13 years ago)
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Observed

Posted: at 15-04-2011 04:49 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- PreetyInstinct at 15-04-2011 06:02 AM (13 years ago)
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Refernce plse...no room 4 plagiarism

Posted: at 15-04-2011 06:02 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- xena15 at 15-04-2011 07:07 AM (13 years ago)
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Noted!

Posted: at 15-04-2011 07:07 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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