We are the problem!

Nowadays, no topic is interesting if it has no connection with sex in particular and relationship at large. Topics are banal and insipid when they don't address one relationship malaise or the other. I have come to understand that without modicum of morals and scruples no relationship can last.  The problem is that we like being unreasonably obtuse. We feign ignorance of that that is crystal clear. At work places, in the market, banks, everywhere, even in the church we are assaulted by indecently exposed Bosom s,  unseemly tight fitting and revealing clothes. Since we have resigned to this, how then can your spouse resist these and other amatory advances from the opposite sex if they are morally derelict.  Sometimes our alibi for infidelity is that our spouse has gone rigid, no longer romantic, hygienic  etc. But the granite and indisputable fact is that we have started making comparison, we have started nursing that desire of that man or woman which if we had not been morally bankrupt we would have nipped in the bud, knowing full well that nothing good can come out of it. Relationship even among friends is characterised by tiffs. We must admit that you can't get a person that is without blemish or pristine. Why not ignore that your spouse's seemingly deficiencies and concentrate on the plus sides.  (Am sure they must be good at one thing). So why not get rid of that unholy thought about the oppostie sex since nursing it will endanger your relationship. Or must you pluck every flower because you like it.  Okay, you see a woman you admire, oh! She is heaven and earth, so beauti... she is whatchamacallit' GOSH! Do you want to commit adultery with her! Don't nurse that desire and don't think that such is peculiar to you. (It happens to everbody, In fact I have seen people that ordinarily I would even have raped but how can I cut off my nose to poke my face. No gains) Resist the devil and he will flee. It is only through the grace of good and that is why I said that without being morally scrupulous it will seem intractable.  I ask that the Lord Almighty will make your relationship bliss and joy galore. Amen. Tak kia. Shalom!

Posted: at 17-04-2011 04:17 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

who is we?

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Posted: at 17-04-2011 12:00 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

 

Posted: at 17-04-2011 12:43 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Bros are u by any chance related to Pastor Chris Okotie
Ur grammar is so imillimious to me in a way dat I even started clapping for ur post without knowing the meaning of some English words u used. And to worsen the matter I just lost my dictionary dis morning. 

Anyway well said bro

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Posted: at 17-04-2011 02:32 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

Lol

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Posted: at 17-04-2011 04:42 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

post

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Posted: at 17-04-2011 08:05 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

I go read Later

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Posted: at 17-04-2011 10:49 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

he mean you and him na

Posted: at 18-04-2011 01:15 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

 

confused

Posted: at 21-04-2011 12:02 AM (13 years ago) | Hero

BRB

Posted: at 21-04-2011 09:03 AM (13 years ago) | Hero