I'm in love with my ex-boyfriend....

Date: 26-04-2011 8:34 am (13 years ago) | Author: katrien
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- at 26-04-2011 08:34 AM (13 years ago)
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Hi pals,

Pls i hav a friend who cud rily use ur advice badly...
She is still in luv wit her ex bf and now she is tinkin of giving him a call
but she just dusn wanna sound desperate, u knw....

Do u guys/ladies have any suggestions how she cud go abt it?

Thx a lot  Kiss

Posted: at 26-04-2011 08:34 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- soljurn16 at 26-04-2011 08:56 AM (13 years ago)
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Well its not a bad idea, she could start up by send a non-emotional,non-passionate but a liberal n a cool SMS., if he hasnt celebrated his birthday,she could use dat medium or beta still wait for an anniversary and use that to stair up a conect ..., it just how i think she wont luk so eager., Smiley
Posted: at 26-04-2011 08:56 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- FlyMamacita at 26-04-2011 09:02 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: soljurn16 on 26-04-2011 08:56 AM
Well its not a bad idea, she could start up by send a non-emotional,non-passionate but a liberal n a cool SMS., if he hasnt celebrated his birthday,she could use dat medium or beta still wait for an anniversary and use that to stair up a conect ..., it just how i think she wont luk so eager., Smiley
hmmm thx,, but wot is an example of a gud sms? bcos men go easily tink d gal is desperate  Smiley
Posted: at 26-04-2011 09:02 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Emmandazie at 26-04-2011 09:10 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 08:34 AM
Hi pals,

Pls i hav a friend who cud rily use ur advice badly...
She is still in luv wit her ex bf and now she is tinkin of giving him a call
but she just dusn wanna sound desperate, u knw....

Do u guys/ladies have any suggestions how she cud go abt it?

Thx a lot  Kiss

Depends on the circumstances that led to their separation. If she faulted the relation, then it is but normal for her to call for excuses through which she could ask for a reconciliation. I am afraid if contrary, she may receive arrogance from her ex.
Posted: at 26-04-2011 09:10 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 26-04-2011 09:12 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 08:34 AM
Hi pals,

Pls i hav a friend who cud rily use ur advice badly...
She is still in luv wit her ex bf and now she is tinkin of giving him a call
but she just dusn wanna sound desperate, u knw....

Do u guys/ladies have any suggestions how she cud go abt it?

Thx a lot  Kiss


Hmm!
First, she knows if he's still single?

Posted: at 26-04-2011 09:12 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 26-04-2011 09:13 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Emmandazie on 26-04-2011 09:10 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 08:34 AM
Hi pals,

Pls i hav a friend who cud rily use ur advice badly...
She is still in luv wit her ex bf and now she is tinkin of giving him a call
but she just dusn wanna sound desperate, u knw....

Do u guys/ladies have any suggestions how she cud go abt it?

Thx a lot  Kiss

Depends on the circumstances that led to their separation. If she faulted the relation, then it is but normal for her to call for excuses through which she could ask for a reconciliation. I am afraid if contrary, she may receive arrogance from her ex.
well i dont exactly knw wot d reasons are, but u tink if d guy made a mistake in d past

he wudn b ready to listen wht she has to say now ?

Posted: at 26-04-2011 09:13 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 26-04-2011 09:14 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 26-04-2011 09:12 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 08:34 AM
Hi pals,

Pls i hav a friend who cud rily use ur advice badly...
She is still in luv wit her ex bf and now she is tinkin of giving him a call
but she just dusn wanna sound desperate, u knw....

Do u guys/ladies have any suggestions how she cud go abt it?

Thx a lot  Kiss


Hmm!
First, she knows if he's still single?

He is...
Posted: at 26-04-2011 09:14 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 26-04-2011 09:17 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 09:14 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 26-04-2011 09:12 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 08:34 AM
Hi pals,

Pls i hav a friend who cud rily use ur advice badly...
She is still in luv wit her ex bf and now she is tinkin of giving him a call
but she just dusn wanna sound desperate, u knw....

Do u guys/ladies have any suggestions how she cud go abt it?

Thx a lot  Kiss


Hmm!
First, she knows if he's still single?

He is...


Did she tell you why they broke up?And who initiated the break up?

Posted: at 26-04-2011 09:17 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 26-04-2011 09:19 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 26-04-2011 09:17 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 09:14 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 26-04-2011 09:12 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 08:34 AM
Hi pals,

Pls i hav a friend who cud rily use ur advice badly...
She is still in luv wit her ex bf and now she is tinkin of giving him a call
but she just dusn wanna sound desperate, u knw....

Do u guys/ladies have any suggestions how she cud go abt it?

Thx a lot  Kiss


Hmm!
First, she knows if he's still single?

He is...


Did she tell you why they broke up?And who initiated the break up?
No she didn tell me...dats why i also find it difficult to com up wit somtin....
Posted: at 26-04-2011 09:19 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 26-04-2011 09:32 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 09:19 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 26-04-2011 09:17 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 09:14 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 26-04-2011 09:12 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 08:34 AM
Hi pals,

Pls i hav a friend who cud rily use ur advice badly...
She is still in luv wit her ex bf and now she is tinkin of giving him a call
but she just dusn wanna sound desperate, u knw....

Do u guys/ladies have any suggestions how she cud go abt it?

Thx a lot  Kiss


Hmm!
First, she knows if he's still single?

He is...


Did she tell you why they broke up?And who initiated the break up?
No she didn tell me...dats why i also find it difficult to com up wit somtin....


That's delicate! That info would have been helpful!
Well, I suppose that because she wants him back, if it was his fault, she forgave him,but if it was hers...
now it's problematical!  Undecided
She may try though (if she's really sure about what she wants),but personally I don't like the idea!
So,I'm not sure how she could get in touch with him again without to seem desperate!
She could go to places she knows he used to go,and see what happens when he sees her!
But really, running after a guy...not ok at all!

Posted: at 26-04-2011 09:32 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 26-04-2011 09:35 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 26-04-2011 09:32 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 09:19 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 26-04-2011 09:17 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 09:14 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 26-04-2011 09:12 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 08:34 AM
Hi pals,

Pls i hav a friend who cud rily use ur advice badly...
She is still in luv wit her ex bf and now she is tinkin of giving him a call
but she just dusn wanna sound desperate, u knw....

Do u guys/ladies have any suggestions how she cud go abt it?

Thx a lot  Kiss


Hmm!
First, she knows if he's still single?

He is...


Did she tell you why they broke up?And who initiated the break up?
No she didn tell me...dats why i also find it difficult to com up wit somtin....


That's delicate! That info would have been helpful!
Well, I suppose that because she wants him back, if it was his fault, she forgave him,but if it was hers...
now it's problematical!  Undecided
She may try though (if she's really sure about what she wants),but personally I don't like the idea!
So,I'm not sure how she could get in touch with him again without to seem desperate!
She could go to places she knows he used to go,and see what happens when he sees her!
But really, running after a guy...not ok at all!

Well i dont think she wanna run after him, but just throw him the hint
tht she still likes him a lot... But a lot of men think u are desperate then, my idea was also to go
the places where is goes and just 'bump into him',, but even then, how do u start the conversation?
And wht r the tins u can talk abt, and wot to avoid?

Posted: at 26-04-2011 09:35 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 26-04-2011 09:40 AM (13 years ago)
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She must look confident!
And just use her eyes for the hints!
If he's still interested, he'll go from there!

Posted: at 26-04-2011 09:40 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 26-04-2011 09:42 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 26-04-2011 09:40 AM
She must look confident!
And just use her eyes for the hints!
If he's still interested, he'll go from there!

I agree!
Posted: at 26-04-2011 09:42 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sobeit at 26-04-2011 10:56 AM (13 years ago)
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well, it all depends on their past relationship.as long as there are no vital informations about their past,it makes no sense finding a tips for her   Wink
Posted: at 26-04-2011 10:56 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xena15 at 26-04-2011 11:07 AM (13 years ago)
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doesn't sound like a good idea at all! meanwhile what led 2 d breakup? for me,an ex is my past and ill leave him there. either way breaking up with a partner shows incompatibility,so why is she stressing herself up?

Posted: at 26-04-2011 11:07 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 26-04-2011 12:27 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: xena15 on 26-04-2011 11:07 AM
doesn't sound like a good idea at all! meanwhile what led 2 d breakup? for me,an ex is my past and ill leave him there. either way breaking up with a partner shows incompatibility,so why is she stressing herself up?
she is just rily in luv wit d guy, cant get over him  Undecided
Posted: at 26-04-2011 12:27 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- xena15 at 26-04-2011 12:38 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 12:27 PM
Quote from: xena15 on 26-04-2011 11:07 AM
doesn't sound like a good idea at all! meanwhile what led 2 d breakup? for me,an ex is my past and ill leave him there. either way breaking up with a partner shows incompatibility,so why is she stressing herself up?
she is just rily in luv wit d guy, cant get over him  Undecided

if she loved him so much...why did she leave him in d 1st place?

Posted: at 26-04-2011 12:38 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 26-04-2011 12:39 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: xena15 on 26-04-2011 12:38 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 12:27 PM
Quote from: xena15 on 26-04-2011 11:07 AM
doesn't sound like a good idea at all! meanwhile what led 2 d breakup? for me,an ex is my past and ill leave him there. either way breaking up with a partner shows incompatibility,so why is she stressing herself up?
she is just rily in luv wit d guy, cant get over him  Undecided

if she loved him so much...why did she leave him in d 1st place?
Gud Q,, i no kn d ansa  Cheesy
Posted: at 26-04-2011 12:39 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- SNYPER at 26-04-2011 01:02 PM (13 years ago)
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She shld jus swallow her pride and say her mind, whether desperate or not its all about love and what she wants, if d guy really love her b4 d incident i believe he will reason with her.
Posted: at 26-04-2011 01:02 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 26-04-2011 01:13 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: SNYPER on 26-04-2011 01:02 PM
She shld jus swallow her pride and say her mind, whether desperate or not its all about love and what she wants, if d guy really love her b4 d incident i believe he will reason with her.
hmmm wudn u b affraid d gal go turn u down if u were in dis situation?
Posted: at 26-04-2011 01:13 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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