Pls i hav a friend who cud rily use ur advice badly... She is still in luv wit her ex bf and now she is tinkin of giving him a call but she just dusn wanna sound desperate, u knw....
Do u guys/ladies have any suggestions how she cud go abt it?
Thx a lot
Posted: at 26-04-2011 08:34 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
soljurn16 at 26-04-2011 08:56 AM (14 years ago) (m)
Well its not a bad idea, she could start up by send a non-emotional,non-passionate but a liberal n a cool SMS., if he hasnt celebrated his birthday,she could use dat medium or beta still wait for an anniversary and use that to stair up a conect ..., it just how i think she wont luk so eager.,
Posted: at 26-04-2011 08:56 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
FlyMamacita at 26-04-2011 09:02 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: soljurn16 on 26-04-2011 08:56 AM
Well its not a bad idea, she could start up by send a non-emotional,non-passionate but a liberal n a cool SMS., if he hasnt celebrated his birthday,she could use dat medium or beta still wait for an anniversary and use that to stair up a conect ..., it just how i think she wont luk so eager.,
hmmm thx,, but wot is an example of a gud sms? bcos men go easily tink d gal is desperate
Posted: at 26-04-2011 09:02 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Emmandazie at 26-04-2011 09:10 AM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 08:34 AM
Hi pals,
Pls i hav a friend who cud rily use ur advice badly... She is still in luv wit her ex bf and now she is tinkin of giving him a call but she just dusn wanna sound desperate, u knw....
Do u guys/ladies have any suggestions how she cud go abt it?
Thx a lot
Depends on the circumstances that led to their separation. If she faulted the relation, then it is but normal for her to call for excuses through which she could ask for a reconciliation. I am afraid if contrary, she may receive arrogance from her ex.
Posted: at 26-04-2011 09:10 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
bittersweet at 26-04-2011 09:12 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 08:34 AM
Hi pals,
Pls i hav a friend who cud rily use ur advice badly... She is still in luv wit her ex bf and now she is tinkin of giving him a call but she just dusn wanna sound desperate, u knw....
Do u guys/ladies have any suggestions how she cud go abt it?
Thx a lot
Hmm! First, she knows if he's still single?
Live and let live!
Posted: at 26-04-2011 09:12 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
FlyMamacita at 26-04-2011 09:13 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Emmandazie on 26-04-2011 09:10 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 08:34 AM
Hi pals,
Pls i hav a friend who cud rily use ur advice badly... She is still in luv wit her ex bf and now she is tinkin of giving him a call but she just dusn wanna sound desperate, u knw....
Do u guys/ladies have any suggestions how she cud go abt it?
Thx a lot
Depends on the circumstances that led to their separation. If she faulted the relation, then it is but normal for her to call for excuses through which she could ask for a reconciliation. I am afraid if contrary, she may receive arrogance from her ex.
well i dont exactly knw wot d reasons are, but u tink if d guy made a mistake in d past
he wudn b ready to listen wht she has to say now ?
Posted: at 26-04-2011 09:13 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
FlyMamacita at 26-04-2011 09:14 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: bittersweet on 26-04-2011 09:12 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 08:34 AM
Hi pals,
Pls i hav a friend who cud rily use ur advice badly... She is still in luv wit her ex bf and now she is tinkin of giving him a call but she just dusn wanna sound desperate, u knw....
Do u guys/ladies have any suggestions how she cud go abt it?
Thx a lot
Hmm! First, she knows if he's still single?
He is...
Posted: at 26-04-2011 09:14 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
bittersweet at 26-04-2011 09:17 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 09:14 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 26-04-2011 09:12 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 08:34 AM
Hi pals,
Pls i hav a friend who cud rily use ur advice badly... She is still in luv wit her ex bf and now she is tinkin of giving him a call but she just dusn wanna sound desperate, u knw....
Do u guys/ladies have any suggestions how she cud go abt it?
Thx a lot
Hmm! First, she knows if he's still single?
He is...
Did she tell you why they broke up?And who initiated the break up?
Live and let live!
Posted: at 26-04-2011 09:17 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
FlyMamacita at 26-04-2011 09:19 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: bittersweet on 26-04-2011 09:17 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 09:14 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 26-04-2011 09:12 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 08:34 AM
Hi pals,
Pls i hav a friend who cud rily use ur advice badly... She is still in luv wit her ex bf and now she is tinkin of giving him a call but she just dusn wanna sound desperate, u knw....
Do u guys/ladies have any suggestions how she cud go abt it?
Thx a lot
Hmm! First, she knows if he's still single?
He is...
Did she tell you why they broke up?And who initiated the break up?
No she didn tell me...dats why i also find it difficult to com up wit somtin....
Posted: at 26-04-2011 09:19 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
bittersweet at 26-04-2011 09:32 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 09:19 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 26-04-2011 09:17 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 09:14 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 26-04-2011 09:12 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 08:34 AM
Hi pals,
Pls i hav a friend who cud rily use ur advice badly... She is still in luv wit her ex bf and now she is tinkin of giving him a call but she just dusn wanna sound desperate, u knw....
Do u guys/ladies have any suggestions how she cud go abt it?
Thx a lot
Hmm! First, she knows if he's still single?
He is...
Did she tell you why they broke up?And who initiated the break up?
No she didn tell me...dats why i also find it difficult to com up wit somtin....
That's delicate! That info would have been helpful! Well, I suppose that because she wants him back, if it was his fault, she forgave him,but if it was hers... now it's problematical! She may try though (if she's really sure about what she wants),but personally I don't like the idea! So,I'm not sure how she could get in touch with him again without to seem desperate! She could go to places she knows he used to go,and see what happens when he sees her! But really, running after a guy...not ok at all!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 26-04-2011 09:32 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
FlyMamacita at 26-04-2011 09:35 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: bittersweet on 26-04-2011 09:32 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 09:19 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 26-04-2011 09:17 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 09:14 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 26-04-2011 09:12 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 08:34 AM
Hi pals,
Pls i hav a friend who cud rily use ur advice badly... She is still in luv wit her ex bf and now she is tinkin of giving him a call but she just dusn wanna sound desperate, u knw....
Do u guys/ladies have any suggestions how she cud go abt it?
Thx a lot
Hmm! First, she knows if he's still single?
He is...
Did she tell you why they broke up?And who initiated the break up?
No she didn tell me...dats why i also find it difficult to com up wit somtin....
That's delicate! That info would have been helpful! Well, I suppose that because she wants him back, if it was his fault, she forgave him,but if it was hers... now it's problematical! She may try though (if she's really sure about what she wants),but personally I don't like the idea! So,I'm not sure how she could get in touch with him again without to seem desperate! She could go to places she knows he used to go,and see what happens when he sees her! But really, running after a guy...not ok at all!
Well i dont think she wanna run after him, but just throw him the hint tht she still likes him a lot... But a lot of men think u are desperate then, my idea was also to go the places where is goes and just 'bump into him',, but even then, how do u start the conversation? And wht r the tins u can talk abt, and wot to avoid?
Posted: at 26-04-2011 09:35 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
doesn't sound like a good idea at all! meanwhile what led 2 d breakup? for me,an ex is my past and ill leave him there. either way breaking up with a partner shows incompatibility,so why is she stressing herself up?
D devil must b using ur destiny 2 weave his pubic hair if u think imma change all ma colors 4 u!
Posted: at 26-04-2011 11:07 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
FlyMamacita at 26-04-2011 12:27 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: xena15 on 26-04-2011 11:07 AM
doesn't sound like a good idea at all! meanwhile what led 2 d breakup? for me,an ex is my past and ill leave him there. either way breaking up with a partner shows incompatibility,so why is she stressing herself up?
she is just rily in luv wit d guy, cant get over him
Posted: at 26-04-2011 12:27 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
doesn't sound like a good idea at all! meanwhile what led 2 d breakup? for me,an ex is my past and ill leave him there. either way breaking up with a partner shows incompatibility,so why is she stressing herself up?
she is just rily in luv wit d guy, cant get over him
if she loved him so much...why did she leave him in d 1st place?
D devil must b using ur destiny 2 weave his pubic hair if u think imma change all ma colors 4 u!
Posted: at 26-04-2011 12:38 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
FlyMamacita at 26-04-2011 12:39 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: xena15 on 26-04-2011 12:38 PM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 26-04-2011 12:27 PM
Quote from: xena15 on 26-04-2011 11:07 AM
doesn't sound like a good idea at all! meanwhile what led 2 d breakup? for me,an ex is my past and ill leave him there. either way breaking up with a partner shows incompatibility,so why is she stressing herself up?
she is just rily in luv wit d guy, cant get over him
if she loved him so much...why did she leave him in d 1st place?
Gud Q,, i no kn d ansa
Posted: at 26-04-2011 12:39 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
She shld jus swallow her pride and say her mind, whether desperate or not its all about love and what she wants, if d guy really love her b4 d incident i believe he will reason with her.
Posted: at 26-04-2011 01:02 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
FlyMamacita at 26-04-2011 01:13 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: SNYPER on 26-04-2011 01:02 PM
She shld jus swallow her pride and say her mind, whether desperate or not its all about love and what she wants, if d guy really love her b4 d incident i believe he will reason with her.
hmmm wudn u b affraid d gal go turn u down if u were in dis situation?
Posted: at 26-04-2011 01:13 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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